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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 03/03/2016 10:15

I hope everyone suffering from the Horrors of Hyperemesis will find this thread useful as a source of support and information.

There's no TMI on here - can't be by definition - and nobody should feel ashamed of moaning as much as they feel the need to.

MOH's wonderful website is full of useful information on this illness:
sites.google.com/site/pregnancysicknesssos/
Another invaluable website is:
www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk/
If you need help in obtaining medication, this phone number is
brilliant:
024 7638 2020

Lastly, the NICE guidelines on treatment are useful:
cks.nice.org.uk/nauseavomiting-in-pregnancy#!scenario

I would like to thank everyone who has given such invaluable support and advice on this and on previous threads.

Remember when you are at your worst, 'This Too Shall Pass'. It really will.
So many women on this thread have thought they couldn't get through this, but they did.

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MelFer · 08/04/2016 22:33

Thank you Motherofpearl & Lucinda.
Already I've found this thread really comforting and reassuring, it's good to know that I'm not alone and that there are other people going through the same (though I obviously wish nobody had to go through it!).
I feel for everyone suffering x

SpecialStains · 08/04/2016 22:50

Hi Melfer and Twinkle. Sorry you've had to join us but congratulations on your pregnancies!

Twinkle I'm afraid to say that the few weeks I was taking Avomine for, I was constantly tired and groggy, slept a huge amount just waking up to vomit. It really didn't take long to affect on me. Cyclizine also made me very tired and unable to function, to I've come to the conclusion that I'm very sensitive to anti-histamines. Give avomine a go for a few days/week, but if it doesn't help go back and ask to try something else. If you are one of the lucky ones avomine works for, that's really great as it's a very safe drug for pregnancy (not that any other anti-emetics are unsafe, just less tested). Good luck. Do you have work to contend with? Rest is very important when you're vomiting a lot. I found any movement made me so much worse, so several weeks of sleeping were very much needed.

Melfer go back and ask for different medication. Like freshbread mentioned, I find ondasentron is my holy grail of anti-emetics (though the constipation is bad!). Avomine/promethazine and stemitil didn't help me at all, I had some limited sucess with cyclizine, but ondansetron has helped the most. I'm no longer vomiting very much, though I do still feel very nauseous and scare unsuspecting people with my sudden loud and violent retching! I'm 21weeks now, and although I'm not quite right, I am so much better than those first few horrible, dark weeks of HG!

MoP Congratulations on starting maternity leave!

Reebok Congratulations on having made it to 37 weeks with all those contractions! The end of all the horrible pregnancy symptoms are in sight for you (and a lovely little baby!).

1more sorry to hear you're having a rough time. Nothing to add, but it will get better and easier (though I know you probably don't believe me right now!).

Ickle glad you had a nice day in the sun!

As always, huge thanks to Lucinda for looking after us all on this thread. I can't tell you how much this has helped me through pregnancy so far.

As always, hope everyone else is doing ok.

Thanks everyone else for all the supportive messages. I feel so much better after the appointment. The senior midwife that came and did all my obs before the consultant saw me was absolutely fantastic. She really put me at ease, and I loved that she suggested we listen to baby's heartbeat with the doppler. I've sent off an e-mail to their complaints/compliments department asking them to thank her again for me. Both dh and myself felt much happier having spoken to her.

I also like how all the midwives we've seen so far have felt the need to remind my dh that I need to eat whatever I can and it's important that I don't get hungry. If only I had cravings to abuse this power of being allowed to command food! Wish it was this hard to gain weight when I could actually enjoy eating!

MelFer · 08/04/2016 23:41

Thanks Special I will

Twinklelittlestar1 · 09/04/2016 12:47

Morning all, so I took the avomine last night and I think it took about two hours to kick in. I was asleep by 10pm and woke at 12:15pm! I feel

Twinklelittlestar1 · 09/04/2016 12:50

sorry posted too soon! *I feel groggy as anything but no nausea yet. I've managed some plain food and will wait and see if I go on ok.

Hope everyone is doing ok

amysmummy12345 · 09/04/2016 17:12

hey all! reporting back in for duty :)

sorry for the long absence, was on hols the first week of the holidays, and this week I've been nesting like mad! Was 31 weeks on Thursday. Goodness knows where the time is going... when I hear people say they're 5 +2 etc it really takes me back to when I first posted, this thread has been such a God send to me, although I feel like a bit of a fraud these days as nausea is non-existent! Hopefully that might encourage others that there is sometimes light at the end of the tunnel? Although the nausea and sickness has gone, the heartburn is horrendous :( I've got an appointment with GP Monday so hopefully they can prescribe something strong as shop bought remedies aren't touching it :( I've also been tested for OC as I've had really bad itching all over arms and legs (but not palms and soles...) I've heard nothing since Monday when tested so I'm assuming they've come back clear...

hope everyone is coping well today, not long now Reebok and Spandau! Any news on Icant?

mrsamerican · 09/04/2016 17:15

I just wanted to update everyone on my minor miracle. I posted about 10 days ago, but for some reason, I don't think it posted, as I usually read back from my last post. Anyway, it was misery as usual, but 4 days ago (13+5), the vomiting just stopped. I've even been two days without ondansetron! Some nausea, but it's not unmanageable at all, and the vomming was what I hated most. I was not looking forward to another couple of months of sickness (my hyperemesis lasted till 20 weeks with DD), but (fingers crossed) I think it's hopefully done for now. I even cooked dinner. This thread has been a lifesaver for me with all the help and listening ears, and I plan to come back and cheer for us all until my name's at the top of the list. Cold flannels on the forehead for all of the newbies, and although it feels like it will be forever, it may not!

LucindaE · 09/04/2016 17:38

Hello, everyone, I hope people are coping today.
Lovely words from SpecialStains and amysmummy and MotherofPearl and Melfer and mrsamerican and Freshbreadandfaith. I am so glad the thread helps through those darkest hours.

Glad to that Special has had reassuring news.
amysmummy I am so glad things are so much better. That heartburn is miserable; like you, I had it when the nausea and vomiting had gone, and Gaviscon and suchlike were no good at all. MotherofPearl was recommended Zantac by her midwife,and says that helped wonderfully.
mrsamerican Happy news!
melfer I hoe you can get some more effective meds. GP's balk at prescribing Ondansetron because of the expense, but often it's the only one that works.
Twinkle Sounds as if you were properly knocked out by that. Glad no nausea when you posted. I hope it stays that way.
I hope Reebok has some good news soon. Am thinking of everyone, and especially Ican't spandau and squeezed.

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Rocket82 · 09/04/2016 17:45

Thanks for all the comments especially advice about meds. I ended up in hospital on Tuesday again - not fun - the vein the canula went in ended up bruised and hurting all up my arm. I left with a prescription of metochlopromide but it actually seemed to make things worse - yesterday I kept nothing down. Decided to go back on cyclazine only today and have had a better day. I am 9 weeks now and not seeing light at the end of the tunnel! Can I ask when things started to get even marginally better in peoples' experience? I've read that peak hormone levels are at 9 weeks...

squeezed · 09/04/2016 18:52

Welcome to the newbies. You've come to the right place, this thread has been an absolute lifesaver, especially in the awful first trimester.
So happy for those of you having improvements would the sickness and nausea.
I've eaten some vegetables tonight, very excited to see if it stays down! Sorry for lack of personal posts, I'm truly exhausted and haven't got the capacity.

SleepymrsE · 09/04/2016 19:28

Welcome newbies, once you are on the correct medications things should improve but as others have said rest is so important and really does help. Other than that it does seem to be a case of riding it out. It does get better for most and I have seen a definite improvement the last couple of weeks.

So glad things are better for you amysmummy. How are things with your OH now? Shame you're now suffering heartburn, I must admit I have had it the last couple of evenings although it's not too bad yet. Fingers crossed the tests come back ok although the itching must be driving you crazy.

Fab news for you too mrsamerican, and the fact you've reduced your medication too is fab! Gives others hope it does get better!!

So pleased for you too special, your appointment sounds like it went so well. Plus you'll get to see baby on all the extra scans.

So, I'm officially in the 'glorious' second trimester today. Got my screening results through, 1 in 100,000 for Edwards & Patau and 1 in 14,000 for Downs. So, low risk. Yesterday was hard work with DS, who is poorly. DH was out at a work event last night so I had to deal with a very upset little boy who couldn't stop coughing. Eventually got to sleep about 2.30 this morning. So, no surprise I have felt rough today, nearly threw up in tk maxx this morning and had to make a swift exit for cold air and deep breathing. Felt a little brighter after a short nap and have managed some food and a bit of ice cream. Bit of The Voice and bed for me.

amysmummy12345 · 09/04/2016 20:18

thanks for asking sleepy things are 1000 times better with OH, he's much more on board with the pregnancy and has spent the day decorating the nursery :)

Freshbreadandfaith · 09/04/2016 21:29

Promethazine (avamine) gives me the most amazing sleep ever, literally knocks me out and I don't move. Doesn't make me a good night time mum though as I don't hear a thing so only works well if oh is up to night duty!

SaraC8 · 09/04/2016 22:03

Hi Sad this is my first post on this thread, although I've been watching it. Feeling a bit down tonight and just need to moan really! As far as I know I don't have HG, this is my first pregnancy and I'm 13 weeks tomorrow. From about probably 7-8 weeks I've been getting sicker and sicker, nowhere near as bad as some of you poor people, but worse than most people I know :( my mum suffered for her whole pregancies with me and my brother. I'm not so bad during the day, but evenings aren't good. Was happy the other day as I hadn't been sick for a few days and thought it was passing but tonight I've had coco pops (which I threw up), lucozade (threw it up), two crumpets and a Mars bar (threw those up)...I don't think I'm dehydrated so don't think it warrants a gp visit but I just feel so miserable :( sorry for the dramatic post, just feeling sorry for myself. When did everyone make the decision to speak to the doctor about it?

Twinklelittlestar1 · 09/04/2016 22:14

Hi Sara, it's miserable isn't it? I saw my doctor yesterday (I'm 7 weeks pregnant) and got some medication. I was struggling really badly like you and wanted to take back control. I've been prescribed some meds which are definitely helping. Flowers for you X

I have another question: to those people taking avomine, how many tablets did you take a day? My doctor said to start with one but up it to two if needed. I took today's at 4pm but feeling off again, do you think it's ok to take another now?

Reebok · 09/04/2016 22:58

Welcome to the newbies. Sorry to hear you're suffering but hopefully this thread will be a lifeline as it has been for me throughout this pregnancy.

Twinkle sorry I don't know much about avomine but hopefully someone who knows will be along shortly.

Those of you in early days of hg please get signed off from work ASAP and do not allow your bosses to make you feel guilty. It's impossible to work in the early days with hg as it will just aggravate the sickness so please be kind to yourself and sod work!

Sara please get yourSelf some ketostix from the chemist to check your ketones and ensure you're not dehydrated. They usually tend to admit you when ketones hit 3+. Also get on medication. As mentioned by others ondansetron is the holy grail of drugs...I'm still on it at 37 weeks as I cannot cope without it. Only bad side effect is the constipation is horrendous!

Mop, Spandau, I can't....how are you all doing?

special glad you received good support at your appointment.

Was it Ickle having a 20 week scan? Hope it went well.

Waves to amys. That sucks about oc!

Thanks for asking after me Lucinda. Unfortunately baby refuses to get out and just wants to cause me pain. Been having contractions from 12 - 8pm...they were awful and got closer together. Also felt like I needed a bowel movement every time I had a contraction...I had the same with dd during labour so thought it might be it. Unfortunately contrActions calmed down from 9pm so looks like this hell will last a little longer. Been throwing up a few times today, nauseous as hell and absolutely no appetite which isn't helping the nausea. Honestly feels like my hyperemesis has flared up. Had hoped for it to stop earlier like it did with dd but looks like I will have it until baby no 2 arrives!

icklekid · 10/04/2016 06:57

Hi ladies wow busy thread yesterday will do my best to say hi to everyone. Had 2 of my cousins (and partners/husbands) over yesterday and was so lovely to be sociable again although sickness was every few hours...back to gp this week as struggling to keep cyclazine down and only ondansetron making a difference. Ketones not too bad though and ds was a super star! He's always so good for an audience 😉

amysmummy so pleased your dh is being supportive again pictures of the nursery please!

reebok it has to come out eventually. The stop start nature of contractions are so frustrating. Thinking happy baby thoughts for you! Oh and scan is tomorrow which I'm very much looking forward to!

twinkle I started in avomine last pregnancy for several weeks and was taking 3 a day I think. It helped a bit but when I was still struggling to keep anything down tried cyclazine which was much more effective for me. Try it for a week and see if it's helping if not don't be afraid to ask gp to try something different if it's less effective can always go back!

sara I left it quite late first pregnancy but went straight away this pregnancy. From the symptoms you have mentioned I would go and speak to a gp even so that you have a prescription you can use if it does get worse. Your gp can get you the form for maternity exemption card if you haven't got it from midwife so that prescription are free.

freshbread might as well get your dh used to night duty! I like to remind dh that he will be dealing with ds every morning when baby comes. We are lucky in that it's very rare he doesn't sleep through though. Hope you are getting some good sleep last night

sleepy those risks are really low so great news! Hope you don't do too much tkmaxx sounds like a lot to me but then I struggled into Homebase yesterday morning to look at some lights for extension. Managed a whole 15 mins!

squeezed vegetables! Wow sounds a very good sign probably better than my crisps followed by custard! My diet is so atrocious at the moment. However took ds for hair cut on Friday and barber asked me when no 2 was due first time I've clearly looked pregnant not just fat!

rocket some find 12 weeks things settle, last time I was around 15 or 16 weeks. This time no noticeable difference at 20 but I think that is rare. Also medication makes it much more manageable than it was in those early stages. Fingers crossed you are in the worst of it now. Can't echo enough others advice to rest rest rest. I was signed off work for several months because just made me so much worse...

mrsamerican so pleased things are so much better that is great news. Does little happy dance 💃

Right memory failing me now sorry to anyone missed out. Am currently pretending to be asleep as my turn for a lie in but having slept really well (rare!) Am going to mn in peace for half an hour!

Freshbreadandfaith · 10/04/2016 07:29

Well after singing the praises of avamine I was awake tossing and turning all night! So I think that one perfect nights sleep was a one off

1moretime · 10/04/2016 08:27

Wow Mrsamerican so glad to hear your sicknees has eased...I'm nearly 12 weeks & would love it if mine gave me a break (altho I had it for first 5-6 months with DS) Ohh yeah & everyone keeps saying Ohh it must be another boy as you were so sick first time!
rocket your not having a very good time with it are you. Bless you. I did notice my sickness was worse at 8-10 weeks. I do hope the meds help you hun.

squeezed well done on managing some veg....Hope it stayed DowN. I haven't managed any veg for a while but am eating fruit.
SleepymrsE great news your results are back & are low risk hun. I'm still undecided whether to have my tests when I go for my scan...reason being my mum had them done when she was carrying my little brother & they came back his risk for downs - she decided not to have amnio & wanted to continue with pregnancy. ..it was a worry for her & all of us too. Thankfully my little brother was born fine. I just don't know if I could go through all that worry.
amysmum glad everything is ok with you hun
freshbread&faith promethazine is helping me sleep lots better too. Thumbs up for that! Hope you are well.
sarac8 Im sorry you feel so down Mrs. ..Make an appointment with your GP asap. You don't have to suffer with my first DC I suffered right through for about 6 months midwife & doc didn't want to know. This time I went to docs at 7 weeks after posting on here suffering really bad again & with the help & support these lovely lady's advised me to go. I did & got heard & prescribed medication.
twinklelittlestar glad you got some medication. I'm not sure on your medication but with mine promethazine they told me to take 1 two times a day & can increase to 1 three times a day if needed.
icklekid glad you had a lovely day with family...altho sickness still crept in. Fingers crossed we all get a break from it soon.

Hello to everyone else & sorry if iv missed anyone! It's hard work on my phone scrolling up & down to read & post lol.

Thank you all for your continued help advice & support. So glad I found this site xxx

squeezed · 10/04/2016 08:52

sleepy I hope you got a good night sleep. Great news on the tests.
fresh I don't think I'd get much sleep without the promethazine. I do tend to get drowsy with medication generally, but this stuff is great.
Sara I spoke the the Midwife first for advice, because like you I didn't think it was that bad. She was great and said to speak to gp because medication could really help. On reflection I wish I'd gone to gp sooner.
twinkle I'm only taking one tablet at night, I couldn't take it during the day. I've tried other medication but really struggled with the side effects. I regret messing about with my diet and barely eating during the day to avoid being sick, and should have had more conversations with gp about it.
reebok It sounds really tough for you. And having sickness return on top. I really hope baby gets here soon then you can tell us all about how amazing food is again.
Ickle Well done DS. It makes such a difference when you don't have the battle with them. The sleep with help so much.
1more I've had a number of scans and I'm still not convinced I'm having another girl because this pregnancy is so bad.
Well, the veg stayed down. I can't believe how happy I am about it. Can I undo over 30 weeks of appalling diet in a couple of weeks?

LucindaE · 10/04/2016 11:07

SaraC8 Welcome. You have had such a great welcome and advice from others, that I can't really add to it. You shouldn't suffer in silence, as they say. Do go to GP's and again as they say, do invest in some kesostix from a chemists.
Reebok That sounds horrendous, last night. I feel frustrated to hear how you are suffering, with the sickness back in full force, too. All I can do is offer gentle cyber pats.Thank you for giving such great advice when feeling so bad.
Rocket I am sorry to hear of your admission,and sorrier that met. isn't working. I know it's exhausting, and discouraging, and feels near impossible to fight your own corner when feeling so bad. But can you go back to GPs as at this rate, you'll soon be dehydrated again. Some very lucky people do get relief early, but unfortunately this does last longer than normal MS and you need meds to cope with it, as others say, and rest.
Twinkle I''m glad you've got meds.Don't hesitate to go back if they don't work well, says Bossy Mother Hen.
SleepymrsE Much sympathy over TK Maxx puking episode.
amysmummy So glad that DH has learned his lesson and doing wonders in the nursery.
Freshbreadandfaith That sounds awful. Most are made sleepy by those drugs; some on this thread have been made insomniac; I hope you don't suffer from alternate symptoms! If it persists, I suppose it's best to let Dr know. How is the nausea and vomiting generally today?
squeezedGreat advice from you and icklekid. Congratulations on your eating vegetables,and for ickkid on being sociable...
Apologies if I've overlooked anyone 'most discourteously'.

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Freshbreadandfaith · 10/04/2016 11:25

Tiredness is really kicking in plus I'm getting over the flu. I just about manage a wash and clothes change in the morning then collapse into bed exhausted after....

MadrigalElectromotive · 10/04/2016 11:34

Hello everyone, I was on this thread for a few months, but at around 26 weeks I really turned a corner and started to feel much better. I am 33 weeks tomorrow and tried to start tapering off the remaining medications I was on last week. It was a total failure and I have spent the last few days with my head back down the toilet. Sad Has anyone else had this? I still had nausea on the meds but the vomiting had subsided completely so I thought I would be safe to come off the meds, but it seems to have really triggered the hyperemesis again. Does anyone know if ondansetron and stemetil are safe to take right up to delivery? Sorry for me me me post - will come back and catch up with you all later on. Smile

LucindaE · 10/04/2016 11:57

1moretime Sorry, I forgot to say, I do hope it eases earlier for you, and so glad this thread has helped.
Madrigal Poor you, this seems to be sadly common that the symptoms can recur in the third tri (though never so violent as in the first, thank goodness) and the only thing to do really is to resume the meds. It's very disappointing and seems to be due to hormones, I suppose, and pressure on the stomach from growing baby.
Freshbread Take it as easy as you can. The tiredness is amazing...

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SpecialStains · 10/04/2016 12:29

Hi all.

Sorry to hear about everyone struggling, and really sorry it's back madrigal.

Pity post today I'm afraid. Currently sat in tears in my car in the Uni carpark (I need to pop in for a few hours to keep an experiment running). Had a fight with dh this morning. I ended up needing to work on Thursday because of short staffing, and most of Friday was taken up with consultant appointment, so having to do my uni days this weekend. I'm finding it really hard having his mum constantly in my space. I'm tired from pregnancy and anaemia, very nauseous, had horrific stomach pains throughout last night, I'm trying my absolute hardest to keep plodding on with work and my studies and I've been so stressed with baby stuff this last week and still quite upset about it all. I can't then have his mum constantly around me at home. She never gives me and dh any privacy. She keeps on letting my housecat out and telling me it's cruel to keep him in (we live on a building site, we'll let him out when there's not wet concrete and industrial traffic immediately surrounding us). I hate having a third adult involved in every baby conversation and I hate how much she seems to know about my medical issues. Annoyed at Dh for not understanding how much stress I'm feeling and it's like because I'm not vomiting 20 times a day, the fact that I'm still tired from my food struggles, generally being pregnant, etc means nothing. He decided to cook complicated smelly food last night, which meant I had to retreat to the bedroom and sit with the windows open because it made me feel so sick.

I'm feeling very overwhelmed and need to sort myself out before I get out the car.