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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 07/01/2016 11:05

I hope everyone suffering from the Horrors of Hyperemesis will find this thread useful as a source of support and information.

There's no TMI on here - can't be by definition - and nobody should feel ashamed of moaning as much as they feel the need to.

MOH's wonderful website is full of useful information on this illness:
sites.google.com/site/pregnancysicknesssos/
Another invaluable website is:
//www.pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk/
If you need help in obtaining medication, this phone number is
brilliant:
024 7638 2020

Lastly, the NICE guidelines on treatment are useful:
cks.nice.org.uk/nauseavomiting-in-pregnancy

I would like to thank everyone who has given such invaluable support and advice on this and on previous threads.

Remember when you are at your worst, 'This Too Shall Pass'. It really will.
So many women on this thread have thought they couldn't get through this, but they did.

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spandau1980 · 28/02/2016 20:29

Yes spar tone is safe to take
What's your iron lvels reebok
Mine went down to 6.9 critical ... how dramatic :p
Now 9 after infusion will.probably need another before baby comes...
One useful piece of advise for spd.. crutches they are a godsend when trying to negotiate the loo in the night or the dreadful.early.morning click clack ouch ... my pelvis sounds wonderful oh and the pain whince ....
Told no more babies for me unless I want to be in a wheelchair! Blush

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Reebok · 28/02/2016 20:37

Forgotten levels Spandau but been told if I don't get them up, I won't be able to use birthing suite like I want to Sad. I'm struggling with iron tablets as they bung me up more than I am. Might find out about spatone...thanks for suggestion...does it taste yuck though? The iron tablets add to that nasty taste in my mouth which I've had since peeing on a stick!

Amys your oh sounds about as useful as mine. He had to CHANGE THE BINS today and acted like he had cleaned the entire house. Prat! Sick of him. Every time I see him, I just want to punch him.

I've just realized that this will be my last 'Sunday night blues' feeling for a good few years now. It feels wonderful. I can't wait to stop being a teacher and just being mummy.

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icklekid · 28/02/2016 20:56

amysmummy what is your secret? So far this weekend I did exactly none of that!

reebok hooray for no more Sunday night blues!

Ouch to all suffering from spd hoping to avoid that this pregnancy although based on last one guessing that's unlikely

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SpecialStains · 28/02/2016 21:32

Hey all,

Sorry to those suffering from SPD. That combined with HG means I'm pretty sure you deserve the most loveliest of all babies! (And a stiff drink once baby is out!).

mrsamerica one of the reasons I avoid taking cyclizine is that it makes me too sleepy and groggy to function. It is an old class of antihistamine, so drowsiness is a v common side effect.

Waves at everyone else. Smile

Back at work tomorrow, 7.30 - 17.00. So nervous about going back, I didn't sleep last night at all. Didn't help that one of my work colleagues came round to visit with a temp contract worker who kept on going on about wanting my mat cover job. It's unreasonable to feel possessive over it, as obviously they will have to cover me, but I feel apprehensive about taking mat leave and how that'll affect my career. Sad

I'm also irrationally worried how other people will have percieved my sick leave with 'a bit of morning sickness'. I know I'm being silly, and people just don't care that much. Hopefully, being back in tomorrow will make me worry less.

Anyway, any tips for surving first day back? I have been reducing ondansetron, and trying not to take until I need, with varying amounts of success, but will take at least two doses tomorrow. Going to ask gp to reduce back to 4mg. A couple of med free days has really improved the constipation situation though!

Hope you all have a lovely week ahead. I'm hitting the 16 week mark. 12 and 16 weeks seem to be the two that hcps promise you HG goes away. Hmm

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eallison88 · 28/02/2016 22:02

Hi all, the babe sleeps so the mother is going to sleep, but thought I'd check in first. It was a chiropractor who worked winders for me. Couldn't get it on nhs but was well worth the cost for me; the nhs physio informed me at 30 weeks that I'd almost certainly be on crutches by the time I gave birth. However I was actually on less pain by the time I gave birth thanks to my magic chiropractor!

Peaceful night to all. Sucky OHs are to be ignored. Productivity is to be admired. And simply getting through today is to be congratulated. Another day closer ladies

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MadrigalElectromotive · 28/02/2016 22:13

Evening all, I'm here to moan I'm afraid. After finally starting to think I was feeling better from the HG, I think I'm developing SPD Angry Sad. I feel like I've been kicked in the crotch and my hips and pelvis click and grind when I walk.

Going up and downstairs and turning over in bed is particularly painful. I am so frustrated! Thought I might finally be able to get on with life a bit, and stop being virtually housebound, and now this! And to top it off, we went out for lunch today and I threw it all up when we got home. What a waste! I feel really fed up this evening.

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squeezed · 28/02/2016 22:47

reebok I found that the apple flavoured spar tone were OK to drink. Without flavour wasn't very tasty.
special Take it easy tomorrow is the best I can suggest. I think some people never quite appreciate how awful HG is. However, I can say most of my colleagues have been great, they do like to tell me how awful I look and praise my stamina Smile.
eallison Might give a chiropractor a try if tomorrow doesn't do the job.
madrigal Sorry to hear you might have spd. If you want a physio appointment, it's best to let doc or Midwife know asap so they can refer you. I was told to take paracetamol every day as cumulative benefits for pain relief. Don't know of it works as I was stuck in the car today!

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icklekid · 29/02/2016 06:32

special good luck back at work. To be honest part of the reason I'm having my 2 quite close is because then I can get back into my career and focus on that where as with a big gap I would always have hanging over me that I would be off another year etc. Also DO NOT tell me if 16 weeks shows no improvement am desperately clinging onto that as a possibility at the moment!

squeezed my colleagues said the same when I dropped sick note in last week...at least they aren't expecting me back any time soon now!

madrigal I used to go out for nice lunches last pregnancy as only meal I could stomach but would always get carried away and eat too much so be sick! Hope spd isn't too bad.

Well I slept beyond 4! Hooray!

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LucindaE · 29/02/2016 11:50

amysmummy Oh goodness, a "12 mile round trip' for carpet cleaner'-on top of the rest! Me, I'd have used diluted washing up liquid. But I'm a sloppy housewife.
Special All good luck for today.
Reebok So glad that was your last Sunday of dreading work.
Icklekid Sorry to hear of the re-appearing lunches.
I can't better eallison's advice, which I will quote:
'Peaceful night to all. Sucky OHs are to be ignored. Productivity is to be admired. And simply getting through today is to be congratulated. Another day closer ladies.'
As ever, thinking of you all and apologies if I've overlooked anyone.

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SpecialStains · 29/02/2016 17:49

Thanks for all the time well-wishing. I survived first day back, and it was so much better than I could have hoped for! I did scare them with the gagging, but no vomits. Had to eat my cheese sandwich for lunch in an empty office as the tearoom was just a bit too overwhelming, but otherwise fine.

I am absolutely exhausted. Trying to muster up the energy to go to choir tonight. :-/

ickle It is improving around 16 weeks. I'm having more good days anyway!

madrigal Flowers

squeezed my colleagues were lovely too.

Waves to everyone else. Too tired to type more.

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LucindaE · 29/02/2016 20:00

Glad to hear it Special, and guess what, re choir, Mother Hen says ''Don't overdo it'. Grin squeezed and Special, I'm happy to hear about nice, supportive workmates.
I hope everyone has coped today. Very quiet on here. I hope that's good sign, not one that everybody feels too bad.

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squeezed · 29/02/2016 20:08

special Glad it went well today.
Voms are back again and I think it's the combination of overdoing it and spd reducing my sleep. I'm now on crutches and physio has suggested a bit of time off work or bringing mat leave forward. I don't think I'll need to bring mat leave forward because I've got enough leave. The idea of being off for 11 weeks before due date seems a bit mind numbing but hey how. Crutches work well but I think they'll slow me down getting to the toilet to vomit!

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spandau1980 · 29/02/2016 21:11

Madrigal sympathy
I m in same boat I've literally been ill and house bound for 7 months now HG spd low iron flu
Fun fun fun
The pain u describe is bang on spd I'm afraid and will only get worse :(
I was crying with tears towards the end it was awful
So looking forward to that again not
I have crutches now but use them when I'm getting up in night and in the am to free things up .. otherwise it's unbearable and impossible to move without help :(
Xx

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icklekid · 01/03/2016 04:07

Hooray special so glad it went well and reassuring that there might be a tiny light ahead!

So much sympathy for madrigal and spandau hope spd doesn't get any worse

Soff day 1 of resting this week and I spent the whole day feeling very sick but not being so (just retching) until the evening where other was non stop and thoroughly unpleasant. I'm so hungry all the time. We've also got building work about to start in a couple of weeks and I'm terrified how I will cope once they break through. So much dust and no energy to clean seems like an awful combination. Oh and to male me feel worse I snapped at dh last night about nothing so wide awake at 4am again feeling guilty!

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LucindaE · 01/03/2016 14:39

icklekid Don't be guilty, you're coping very well. That session sounded awful,and combined with insomnia is enough to make anyone snappy.
Madrigal You poor thing; I missed that you are getting spd too.
Much sympathy for you, squeezed spandau Reebok and all suffering from such a horrible condition on top of the other. Having to use crutches to get to the loo in time must be truly dismal.

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MadrigalElectromotive · 01/03/2016 16:28

Thanks for the sympathy everyone. I spoke to the GP and he has referred me for physio, so I'll see if that helps.

I'm thinking of taking maternity leave at 35 weeks, if the sickness doesn't improve any more by then. When I am at home, it is pretty manageable now - I usually have a bile run first thing, but it will often settle and I am not sick any more after that. When I am at work, it is much less predictable, and I often find that I can't stomach dinner when I get home. I think it is the exhaustion of it all. Anyway, if I go on leave at 35 weeks, I have 9 more weeks to go! Single figures!

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SleepymrsE · 01/03/2016 16:47

Hi all, I hope you don't mind me joining. I've been reading this thread hoping to find comfort that others are suffering this awful condition too. I am currently 8 wks with DC2 and really struggling. I suffered quite badly with DS but managed on promethezine from 7wks til the end of my pregnancy. Only had the occasional day off work when I couldn't keep anything down. DS is now 20 months.

This time nausea started before I got my BFP and sickness kicked in at 5 weeks. I am now on my 3rd week off work. I have been taking odansetron since yesterday having already tried promethezine, cyclizine, and two others. Thankfully I haven't been sick yet today but evenings tend to be worse. I am feeling very sorry for myself having not left the house with the exception of the hospital for an early scan for over 2 weeks. Mostly stuck in bed with a bucket for company. Feeling guilty about lack of time with DS but I don't even have the strength to pick him up at the moment. Luckily DH is amazing and grandparents are mucking in to help lots.

Anyway, I just wanted to say thank you to this thread to know I'm not alone, it's really helped at times. I don't know anyone in RL that has been this sick in pregnancy.

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squeezed · 01/03/2016 20:17

Welcome sleepy but so sorry that you need to be here. I'm glad that you've got medication early and I do hope that you start to see an improvement. Try not to feel guilty about DS, they really do survive it. The most important thing is that you rest and look after yourself.

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eallison88 · 01/03/2016 21:13

Sleepy welcome, congratulations and commiserations. Stick around for understanding and support and encouragement. I'm sorry you're finding this pregnancy so much worse than your first, but very glad you've been moved hrough and up medications with some haste it would seem. Are there any fluids/foods that you consider safe? Sugary drinks are better than water, if you can manage them. Try not to worry about your little boy, it would seem from this board that little ones are very resilient and adapt and cope admirably.

madrigal I'm glad youve made a decision your comfortable with re mat leave. Well done! Hoping you dint need to start it then tho, cos that would mean you're feeling a load better!

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icklekid · 02/03/2016 05:08

madrigal hope the physio makes a difference. Get counting down until mat leave so you can focus on a proper rest

Waves to sleepy this pregnancy is much worse than my last too so can totally relate to that. Also signed off at the moment and feeling useless and fed up

My biggest concern at the moment is normally by now I'm feeling better thanks to weekend +2 days resting ready to cope with ds thu /Fri however I feel atrocious and constantly nauseous with lots of retching. My cousin is coming to help on thu and my mil on Friday but still scared of not coping. Fed up of sickness getting worse not better

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SleepymrsE · 02/03/2016 09:24

Thank you all for the warm welcome.

I think because the medication worked so well last time I just assumed it would be the same this time. Food wise, I'm surviving on ready salted pom bears, and the occasional ice pole. Crunching on ice definitely helps. As for fluids, I have been through many phases from fizzy orange to strawberry crusha. The end result is the same after a bad vom session I have to move onto something different. The good news is no ketones in my wee on Monday. Despite only going once a day, I must be keeping enough down.

ickle not sure how you've managed looking after your little one while feeling so rotten. You need a medal. I don't think I've done any childcare for at least 2 weeks. I hope you manage to get lots of rest today before tomorrow and Friday. I definitely notice I feel better the more rested I am. Not sure how I'll ever get back to work.

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LucindaE · 02/03/2016 10:34

SleepymrsE Welcome.Sorry you are suffering so badly this time. I'm glad you are getting the best meds. Is flat coke or soda water any good, or the that standby, the juice of tinned fruit (pear was my own favourite; eallison swears by peaches). Do you find cheap ice cream bearable or jelly? The terrible diet one has with this. Glad that you are keeping ahead of the ketones. Sufferers tend to get constipation with Ondansetron and often limited fluid intake. Has the dr mentioned that and any remedies?
icklekid I so agree, all of those looking after lo's deserve a medal. Here's one, though I couldn't find one that mentioned childcare!
I'll come back on to create a new thread soon.

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curlywurly4 · 02/03/2016 14:48

Hi everyone just wanted to pop in and say thank you for the welcome. Sorry it's taken so long to respond, I've been feeling so, so awful. GP has started me on Domperidone too, so hopefully that will improve things. Had a UTI too so that's not helped.

Huge sympathise to all those suffering, especially those with SPD also. Seems utterly unfair to have both Thanks

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Colabottle10 · 02/03/2016 15:23

Hello everyone - a good update for once!

Had my 16w midwife appointment on Monday and cried all the way through after she asked how I was getting on....oops! Once I started, the floodgates opened up and i couldn't stop. She was great, very sympathetic and got me an emergency appointment with the GP......

I had a sneaky feeling that all my moms and gaging where being caused by heartburn/acid reflux. GP agreed to try me on ranitidine mega strength....I've stopped the Ondansetron as I was getting headaches, so currently on the cyclizine and the ranitidine.

An hour after the first ranitidine and I felt normal. Actually normal. I've now had 2 'normal' days and I even managed to cook a risotto last night which is the first time in 16w.

Nausea still comes and goes but I'm no longer as debilitated as before....fingers crossed this continues.

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spandau1980 · 02/03/2016 15:39

Glad ranitidine helps .. it will.probably stop being so affective as baby grows and takes over your stomach.
I'm 30 plus 6 now and I feel like I'm on a boat as baby kicking and wobbling I've no space for a stomach and acid reflux is ew
But the ranitidine is a massive help

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