Morning sickness rows - feel so low

[LoveLetters]

After 4 weeks of awful morning sickness my Dp has said he is fed up of doing everything, and I need to fight this and get over it. That he would be fighting and not letting it defeat him. How the hell are you supposed to fight severe morning sickness. He says other women have it and battle on.. Why am I so pathetic? Bearing in mind I was admitted to hospital with a suspected blood clot in my lung but turns out I've severely pulled muscle in my chest from all the throwing up I'm doing. I usually shout back but I'm so Unwell I can't even do that. I'm just sat here crying. Am I really that pathetic? I'm on the verge of 11 weeks.

Loveletter at the very least, please have a plan - a bag packed, some essentials, somewhere to go, so you're ready to run if you need to. Keep your keys/wallet/phone handy.

He is emotionally abusing you just when you most need support. It is not your fault you are suffering. I have been too, but have coped because my DH has stepped up to do everything without a word of complaint, and dried my tears when my hormones have got too much, and bitten his tongue when I've been crotchety.

Thinking of you and hoping you're safe.

It's not just every woman in your country who would think he is behaving unacceptably. There's an international consensus.

Oh dear I came on here to post on morning sickness as this is my second pregnancy and I am suffering big time. I have felt unsupported a little by my husband, but he wouldn't dream of saying anything to me and has put up with me being really narky and kicking him out of the bedroom etc.

Your thread is so saddening but I agree with others here you are best off out of it, he sounds like a self absorbed p#%*k who has his nose put out as he is having to do a bit. Good luck, going through this and the sickness must be hell on earth. Hugs.