just need to offload had early scan

[pnutter]

Hello this thread is purely for off loading purposes as I've no one in rl.
Today I went to a walk in early pregnancy clinic as im preg I thought five weeks ish and having major cramps. They were so marvelous. Did me a scan which showed gestational sac and egg sac all looking good. They've made me an appointment for 2 weeks to check for heartbeat. Thank god for nhs.
I'm in a tricky situation with this pregnancy as im 44, my husband left a while ago and I have also had gynaecological cancer .
Ex h wants abortion. Best friend thinks I should terminate. But..something is telling me to stop and just be for now..i see my cancer consultant this week for a post op check up so I shall ask his advice.
Thanks for listening and again I would say the nhs is amazing. Even though I've had no bleeding they did everything they could to make me feel totally relaxed (wwas worried I might be time wasting)
Thanks for reading x

pnutter if you pm me your e mail I can add you to the Facebook group. I was just made an admin. I've never added anyone before eek!.

Hi Gaggia i cant seem to pm from my phone..dont have pc access at the moment :-(

No problem. Im struggling to keep up with the facebook group it moves so fast!
Im 11+1 today and i finally got booked in by the midwife!

Hi OP. Ignore GP. I'm 44 and 20 weeks. Midwife is obsessed by my age! Told me I'd likely be high risk for chromosomal disorders because of my age. Told me I would need extra growth scans because of my age. You get the picture. Came back low risk and 20 week scan revealed healthy little girl with all measurements at/about 50th centile.

Good luck.

Yippee resipsa that is brilliant. Congratulations.
It seems everything is against me but this pregnancy seems to feel 'strong'
When i had dd 8 years ago i had bleeding low waters the works and was even told at 20 weeks that her head was pointed . Its not :-)

Had scan they think Mmc as no hb. Home now to decide on options

oh no.

Oh, pnutter, how are you after that news?
Are they going to scan you again?
Thinking of you

Feeling rather crap. Have to go back for a rescan as embryo was borderline ie not too small . Then it's the surgical op.

when are you back?

OP if ex is the ex and left a while ago it's none of his business. I'd talk to the consultant and take it from there.

Hopefully Friday or it'll be next week. Thanks X

I can't imagine what you are going through but hoping things aren't too difficult for you x
I really don't know what else to say, im shit at this

Thanks , im ok. Got all my crying done earlier. Not looking forward to the next couple of weeks but it has highlighted certain things I need to change in my life . And, I have two wonderful kids. Love to you all!

Take care pnutter