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Oh bollocks. Can you see a line?

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Hurr1cane · 26/01/2015 10:05

Tell me this is some sort of false shit line please? I have been having regular periods, my last was around the 11th, but I've been slowly putting on weight around my stomach but I thought it must be because of christmas binging.

Anyway on Friday night I had a horrific pain in my stomach and it's all massive and bloated, I posted here about it and people asked if it was possible I could be pregnant and I said no.

I went to the emergency doctor who also asked this and I said no. I'm on the mini pill but do throw up a lot, but we don't DTD that often and we haven't been caught in over 3 years of being together so I just thought it must be fine.

But being a paranoid human I went and bought a cheap test from savers today 'clear and simple' and have just taken the test and thought it was fine but I looked closer and I saw this faint line. It appeared after 2 minutes.

It's very faint. Tell me theres other explanations for this? Please?

Oh bollocks. Can you see a line?
Oh bollocks. Can you see a line?
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magimedi · 28/01/2015 13:45

So sorry. Flowers

Momagain1 · 28/01/2015 13:51

Huh, i am surprised the doc didnt do a test before prescribing. Is that normal in the UK? To my American mind, that many symptoms, the fact the minipill can fail (have you taken over the counter cold medication? Or taken it not at the usual time? That's enough) would dictate they hand you a sample cup test before prescribing anything.

ChatEnOeuf · 28/01/2015 13:51

Oh, how sad for you. Take care of yourself

willitbe · 28/01/2015 13:52

So sorry to hear your news, no matter that the pregnancy was unplanned or would have been difficult, it still hurts to miscarry. Please do whatever you feel you need to do to get through this. Will be thinking of you. Sad

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Hurr1cane · 28/01/2015 13:54

Mom I throw up a lot. I'm coming off it.

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Hurr1cane · 28/01/2015 13:56

I feel so strange. That was my only chance.

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craazyperson · 28/01/2015 14:03

So sorry for you hurr1cane I had a miscarriage when I was 18, I didn't know I was pregnant then another one when I was 24 and the grief is just the same Flowers

BauerTime · 28/01/2015 14:04

So sorry OP. Take some time and leave your brave face off for a while.

craazyperson · 28/01/2015 14:05

Another one where I did know at 24 that should say

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Hurr1cane · 28/01/2015 14:05

I'm going to go with DP and get DS and just cuddle him forever. DP says I'm not supposed to just decide I can do loads of things again now and that I have to rest.

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GilbertBlytheWouldGetIt · 28/01/2015 14:05

So sorry Hurr1cane. Take care of yourself, you deserve to be looked after after all you've been through.

Thurlow · 28/01/2015 14:06

I'm so, so sorry Hurr1cane xx

nevergooglebrandybutter · 28/01/2015 14:07

Flowers so sorry it wasn't good news.

GoldfishSpy · 28/01/2015 14:08

:(

So sorry.

Thinking of you all.

CiderwithBuda · 28/01/2015 14:08

Oh bless - you poor thing.

DP is right. Rest and lots of TLC.

orangepudding · 28/01/2015 14:08

So sorry hurr1cane, look after yourself and take time to grieve x

lougle · 28/01/2015 14:13

Hurr1cane Thanks

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Hurr1cane · 28/01/2015 14:14

They said I'll need a scan soon or something. She was saying it like it was good news so I just wanted to get out of there and didn't really listen properly. What is the scan for? How long can I expect to feel so shit?

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InanimateCarbonRod · 28/01/2015 14:27

So sorry for you loss Flowers

DishwasherDogs · 28/01/2015 14:31

I'm so sorry hurr1cane Thanks

fattymcfatfat · 28/01/2015 14:33

Aww darling im so sorry for you and your loss. Your dp is right, you still need to rest and take as long as you need to grieve xFlowersx

sillymillyb · 28/01/2015 14:37

I am so sorry for your loss Flowers

Go home and hug your son and your DP, and just be kind to yourself. There is a lot for you to get your head around x

SoonToBeSix · 28/01/2015 14:38

So sorry hurricane Flowers

ouryve · 28/01/2015 14:40

Oh what a rollercoaster you've been on, Hurr1cane. I'm so sorry it's ended in such sadness Flowers