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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

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I know this has been done before......

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ohdearsillyme · 29/08/2006 09:52

but think i might be pregnant.

had unprotected sex and what i thought was the wrong time of month and now period due and no sign yet.However have pmt from hell and the most tender breasts imaginable.
Dh doesn't want me to test yet until i'm late and also until he's home from work.
Won't be a disaster if i am but not what we'd thought of.Already have 2 kids who drive us to distraction.
so what do you reckon? is af going to kick in later?

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MrsFio · 29/08/2006 09:54

oh i had the same this month but have luckily come on, but now feel sad that i have hormones all over the place

go and buy a test

Mum2FunkyDude · 29/08/2006 09:56

Oh dear silly you, ( not being pattronising)

Do you think if you hold out on the testing it might turn from a positive to a negative? .
All I can say is, it sounds suspicious, take the test tonight and you'll know for sure, that way you can relax and start planning the future.

flutterbee · 29/08/2006 09:57

Wooooo hooooooo another one of these threads.

The fact is you can never tell if you are or not until the test is done, go and buy one and do it as soon as you feel is right. Then come back here and put us all out of our misery.

Just adding this one to my watch list

flutterbee · 29/08/2006 09:57

So who is going to take the first guess at who it is then?

Some clues please.

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ohdearsillyme · 29/08/2006 09:58

yes if nothing by this pm am definitely testing.i am only due on today which is why i haven't tested yet.
got to admit , a little part of me hopes i am( but don't tell dh that!)

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ohdearsillyme · 29/08/2006 10:00

oh don't guess flutterbee.i wouldn't have namechanged if i'd wanted to say who i was.feel silly posting this and also i'm not especially well known and if you do guess you'll say "...oh"

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MrsFio · 29/08/2006 10:01

I know someone who has exactly the same cycle as me is it you?

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ohdearsillyme · 29/08/2006 10:01

lol! probably not!

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flutterbee · 29/08/2006 10:03

Spoil sport.

SpaceCadet · 29/08/2006 10:05

af may well still arrive..ive had months where ive been convinced i was preg..and wasnt.
theres no such time as the wrong time of the month, so there is every possibility you are preg, do a test, put your mind at rest.

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ohdearsillyme · 29/08/2006 10:09

i think i'm worrying because part of it is wishful thinking.i love the idea of finding myself pregnant without having to make the impossible decision of whether to go for number 3.

and in my pregnancies, i don't think i felt pregnant this early.just felt nothing -no af smyptoms at all.
so i'm probably not.

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colditz · 29/08/2006 10:12

There is no wrong time of month, trust me. I concieved the day before my AF was due!

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ohdearsillyme · 29/08/2006 10:13

well this was just after af had finished.

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SpaceCadet · 29/08/2006 10:15

you could easily get pregnany just after af, if you ovulated a few days earlier.
like colditz, with ds2, i conceived just before af was due, id obviously ovulated later in the month, hence why i had negatiuve tests fotr a week and a half.

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ohdearsillyme · 29/08/2006 10:17

have gone from being all 'oooh what are we going to do,to being all....
i think i should log off now and go and do something and stop thinking about because i am building myself up for a disappointment.

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SpaceCadet · 29/08/2006 10:20

go and buy a test, then you will know one way or the other

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ohdearsillyme · 29/08/2006 10:22

i said i would wait till dh came home.he wants to be here when i do it in case it's +.
so off to sainsburys later.
is clearblue still the best kind or those early respnse ones?

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SpaceCadet · 29/08/2006 10:24

you could always get 2!, then if its + just do another whewn dh is there.
i have always used clearblue, i think they are the most accurate, never used a fr im afraid so cant comment.

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ohdearsillyme · 29/08/2006 10:25

i think he wants to be here to mop up any fall out!!

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geordiemacminx · 29/08/2006 10:40

Go and buy 2 tests... do one, then dispose of all eveidence... and the practice your "OMG I'm so shocked that I'm pregnant face" before your hubby gets back!!

MINNIE1 · 29/08/2006 10:52

geordiemacminx

LOL every women does this dont they cause i know i did...

Best of luck ohdearsillyme

geordiemacminx · 29/08/2006 10:57

Yep, I did 3 tests before I told dp... sadly I miscarried but with this one I thought I was but it was too early to test - he made me promise that I would do it when he was there...I couldnt resist the urge to buy one about 5 days before I was due on, ended up testing at 5 am..... he wasnt best pleased... although it was his own fault for making me promise!!!!

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ohdearsillyme · 29/08/2006 17:24

still no af but lots of vaguely crampy, periody style pains. will probably come on this pm.

should have started by now though, especially with these aches.

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ohdearsillyme · 29/08/2006 20:05

have tested.it was negative

feel a bit

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flutterbee · 29/08/2006 22:29

Maybe now you know how you really feel about having another one you should sit down and talk to your dh about it and start trying properly.

I feel a little for you

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