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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

I can't sleep!!! :(

41 replies

Lilimum2be · 25/02/2014 07:25

More often I am finding myself checking the time in bed and it being past 7am and I haven't slept yet! I'm 17+3 and just wondering If this is common or others have experienced the same? Please let me know, thanks x

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MissSlackPants84 · 25/02/2014 09:23

Im 19+3 and haven't slept in weeks. I can't get comfortable no matter how many pillows or cushions I use to prop myself into position.

I hope you manage to find a cure for your insomnia

flymo79 · 25/02/2014 09:23

I'm exactly 17+3 too! and also having trouble sleeping - have tried all sorts of pillow solutions but nothing much helping.... will lurk around to see if anyone else comes along with some tips!

Bootoyou2 · 25/02/2014 09:28

I'm 12 weeks and have pregnancy insomnia. Wide awake 2.30-5 every day. Am totally shattered with 2 year old who has never slept and she has just started going through til 5 but now I am awake!,

I remember it from last preg but thought I was so tired this time I would just sleep . So annoying!

BeccaBrkr7 · 25/02/2014 09:59

Yep wide awake and staring at the ceiling all night!! 14w3d!! Hmm

x0gawjus0x · 25/02/2014 10:22

I'm 39 wks and find myself awake atleast 4 times a night :/ can't seem to ever get into deep sleep stage!

Lilimum2be · 25/02/2014 10:35

O yey flymo79 we are due date twins! :) sorry to hear you guys are suffering too but at least we know we aren't alone Hmm
I find myself sticking pillows everywhere and trying to make sure I sleep on my left side! I used to always sleep on my left side but now it's the most uncomfortable thing in the world lol!
I'm a big girl anyway and baby too is making sleep a thing of the past ;( are this preggo pillows any good or waste of money?? Feel free to pm me or post on here if you can't sleep chances are I'm awake too!Wink

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Aaliyah1 · 25/02/2014 10:45

Unfortunately it dosent et any better Confused 33 weeks and I'm still suffering. Lack of sleep is making me grumpy and irritable.
I've found that having a massage relaxes me and I get a good nights sleep after one. Helps me 'catch up' in a way. May be worth splurging or asking DP/H?

flymo79 · 25/02/2014 12:56

ooh, massage, that's a lovely idea. I will see if DP is prepared to give that a go!!

Kellyjdancer · 25/02/2014 13:07

I really struggled with sleeping and my friend told me to get a pregnancy pillow. I thought it was a bunch of talk, but finally broke down and bought a Dreamgenii. I can't believe a pillow could change my life! It has made such a difference. I was a tummy sleeper and it somehow has made it possible to fall asleep and stay asleep. I read a bunch of mixed reviews before buying it though so it's not a cure for everyone.

Bootoyou2 · 25/02/2014 13:50

Later in pregnancy it is obviously discomfort and sleeping positions that keep us awake but why now!! I can still happily sleep on my tummy...it must be the hormones?

EssexGirlLottie · 25/02/2014 17:26

Ditto for me - 15+6...

I'm on a waiting list for pregnancy yoga and someone else on here said it really worked for them. Have you thought about that? Or hypnobirthing relaxation CDs?
Good luck

Lilimum2be · 26/02/2014 01:11

Guess what.... I'm still wide awake! Thanks for all your suggestions and advice. I'm thinking of getting a preg pillow hopefully that will work! I will ask midwife at my appt if she knows of any miracles!
Already tried warm drink, smellies, yoga, meditation/yoga and soothing music Hmm what's wrong with me!?!?! Hmm

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AngryBeaver · 26/02/2014 01:14

Nope, sorry! I'm 32 weeks and haven't hada. Full nights sleep for ages (well, 7 years actually ;) )
I think it's natures way of preparing you for what's to come.
Gradually building you up to get used to little or no sleep!

It would be a bit cruel to have you sleeping soundly for 8 hours right up until the birth!!
Just nap when you can Smile

Bumpiemalumpie · 26/02/2014 01:34

Hi I am currently nursing my lo who is 4 weeks old! It does get better, have hope. I had awful insomnia at times. i found a mug of hot water before bed, white noise and preggo pillow did the trick!

Good luck and learn to nap!!

icklekid · 26/02/2014 03:07

20+4 and not slept well for weeks :-( if I make it to 4am I call that a success, obviously not tonight!

HeavenK76 · 26/02/2014 20:30

nearly 18 weeks and having the same problem, can't sleep!!!
7th pregnancy and first time this has happened to me
I wake up at the strangest times and fall back to sleep after 4-5 hours.
I can't seem to find any position to feel good enough and fall asleep. Keep tossing and turning!

Vikkijayne2507 · 27/02/2014 01:37

Im afraid it get worse im 34 + 1 weeks and my sleep has got a lot worse last 3 weeks I hope yours gets better before t gets worse :)

Barbsta · 27/02/2014 04:15

I haven't slept a wink either :( with me it's completely because of stress from work tho

MummyPig24 · 27/02/2014 04:31

I'm 37+4 and had some insomnia around 20 weeks and now have it again. I have a cold which is not helping as my left sinus and side of my jaw is painful when lying down. So I've been awake since about 3 and have given up and come downstairs. I know I'm going to be exhausted later but it's too late to go back to sleep now as my other two children will be up in two hours.

ClearlyMoo · 27/02/2014 04:35

Waves

Sympathy to you all! Hello 4 am again!

MummyPig, surely it's never too late to go back to sleep? I often pee at 5.15 and our alarm is set at 6... My biggest period if awakeness is in the 3-5 zone... Then sometimes if I'm lucky I can drift off for 45-1hr before alarm.

MummyPig24 · 27/02/2014 04:37

I will never be able to drag myself out of bed if I fall back asleep now and I will be in a foul mood which isn't fair on the kids.

icklekid · 27/02/2014 04:40

clearly I'm with you will always try and go back to sleep even if just for 45mins! Made it till 4 this morning :-)

inmybelly · 27/02/2014 06:03

I'm the exact same. Only 5+2 but waking at 3.30am every night. I'm blaming it on needing to wee, or feeling hungry or just all the various worries going around my head.

ClearlyMoo · 27/02/2014 07:47

Inmybelly congratulations on your pregnancy! Is this your first? I couldn't sleep (or focus easily at work) in the very first few weeks after finding out my brain was working overtime! I initially found the whole concept completely bonkers!!! It gets easier though mentally! I was lucky(?) my first trimester sickness was sleeping so I was averaging 10+hrs/night from about 7-17 weeks!

MummyPig24 · 27/02/2014 08:03

Congrats inmybelly!

I started to nod off around 6 so I got some breakfast. Fed up of heartburn, can't wait for that to end.