Pregnancy after miscarraige.........POWER to the Beanies!!!!

[oinker]

Ermmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..

Hope this is OK.

Please feel free to change it to something else if not totally satisfied.

Oinker {{{hugs}}} to you sweetie x

Oinker, so sorry that you are going through this again. I really hope they discover a reason why. Still sending vibes and hugs.

oh oinker I'm so, so sorry. It really does seem very cruel. (((((hugs)))))

Oinker-
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God darling I'm so, so sorry. I can totally understand about feeling a sense of relief and it's great they're seeing to you so quickly. Still does'nt stop the fact that this is bloody cruel to be happening yet again to you hun.
Interesting about your heart-shaped womb and fibroids. Are they going to remove the fibroids or wait to see if they shrink?
Anything you need hunny let me know.
Thinking of you & dh, love to you both xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Oinker, am so sorry you are going through this again. I am sure one day it will work out for you. All my love and best wishes xxx

Well, I had my pre op assessment at the hospital today. Baby still not engaged at all, and signs of it happening, so barring some act of god I am all set for my ceaseran tomorrow. I am obviously feeling a bit sad about this, I had hoped I would at least go in to labour, but its not to be and I really dont want to wait another week. I am already as big as a house and it is difficult to walk anywhere. So all in all feel quite excited. I know by this time tomorrow I will have met the newest man in my life. DS is over the moon he keeps kissing my tummy and saying 'i am so happy you are having a baby mummy' .
I have to contact the labour ward tomorrow morning at 7.30 am to find out what time they want me in. There are two other elective sections going ahead tomorrow. There is a lady with twins first and then me probably me unless there is an emergency.
I will probably get DH to post an update tomorrow night.

Oh oinker - i am so very sorry you are going through this again. Hope you and Dh are taking it easy. I wonder how much of an effect the fibroids could have had. what will happen now??

Cori - any developments???

how exciting, a birth is a birth doesn't matter how baby gets here, the main thing is that he will arrive tomorrow. I can understand your dissapointment, but tomorrow will be such an exciting day, i'm excited for you.

Good Luck Cori

oinker, im so sorry hun, this is so unfair:( im glad you know and its not dragged out any longer. Will be thinking of you friday, what are they gonna do with the fibroids?
have you still got appointment for LR clinic?

cori- wow tommorrow is babys birthday, will mr-cori post the good news for us? i assume you will be in for a few days, i hope all goes well. I will be here first thing to find out what time theyre doing you:)

I'm so very sorry Oinker for what's happened. I really hope they find a reason for these recurrent miscarriages. Wishing you all the very best.

Cori - my best wishes for tomorrow. I hope everything goes as well as you expect.

Oinker-so sorry about your news.

I will ask Mr Cori to post an update tomorrow night or I will send a text to those whose mobile numbers I have if i get a chance.

Thanks to everyone on this thread for all your support over the last 9 months. I have finally made it and it feels surreal. DH and I are pottering around with last minute preparations,packing bags etc, still cant get our heads around the fact that
tomorrow we are going to meet the new member of our family. Wow.

Petunia, we need to think up a suitable name for the post natal thread. Any ideas.?

Good luck Cori. Take plenty of arnica with you and enjoy the morphine! Come back soon and tell us everything.
Love to you, DH and DS (soon to be DS1)

Will try and have a think about a post-natal title.
Good luck tomorrow.

Oinker- so so sorry love. I really really thought this would be it, you would have your baby. Feel free to have a good old rant about it if you get angry. As slink says I hope you have apt with LR and she can work her magic.

morning everyone:)
good luck cori happy baby day - what time you in?

good luck Cori!!!!!!! how exciting

cori - so exciting to think you will have you will have your baby soon!

Good luck Cori...........x

Just a quick update on me....

First off...Went out last night and had a medium rare steak and shared two bottles of Red with DH.. Naughty but nice....
Don't worry most of you can join in soon.

I still have my appointment with LR on the 6th.
I have sent them all my previous blood test results which will speed things up.

Apparently, what they do is collate all the info i give them and they carry out a few extra tests bloods and Ultrasounds. They then take about 10 weeks to result everything and come up with some sort of solution to all of this. Hopefully there is one. Until then we have to be careful not to get pregnant.
The fibroids seen yesterday will not be removed as they are of a normal size. Apparently pregnancy hormones make them big. When not p/g they are smaller.
The heart shaped uterus is not really a major factor either. I will mention it at St Marys.. I was told yesterday that they would carry out some tests where they would inject some dye into the uterus and check that everything is free flowing. The scan showed no blockage but they would want to be 100%.

They will not be carrying out any tests on what is removed on Friday...???? I did ask. I am going to speak to my GP about this tonight and see if he can phone them to get it done.

That's all there is ...
Thanks again for everything...
Whooooooooooooooooooooooooosssssssshhhhhhhhhhhh
(that's me off to the TTC thread...AGAIN)

oinker, just caught up with your news. I'm so sorry things haven't worked out. Hope one day soon it will all go smoothly for you. Will be thinking of you. x

Cori, good luck!

Gosh, not long for some of you now.
I find out on Tues if baby is big for dates and also when the stitch comes out. Am i wrong to not want to go to my Sil to be's hen day three weeks before baby is due? She is making me feel like i'm being selfish for putting baby and me first. Consultant initially said stitch will be removed around this time too so i'm feeling very stressed with her. Her sister has paid a deposit for me and is demanding the full amount when i didn't even confirm i could make it.
Sorry if none of this makes sense, have cold, chest and ear infection

SnowBoo tell her you'll see how things go, you might feel like it at the time but if you don't feel like it now and she wants a deffo answer say what you think. Either way tell her that you never confirmed, and that yes baby does come first, esp with needing stitch and prev. stillbirth. Sorry to be blunt but I think it's her being selfish!

She does sound a little insensitive. Of course you should do what's best for your baby and yourself. She's organising a hen night, not a UN conference, fgs! (and even if it WAS a UN conference, your baby's needs are paramount).

Thanks. She was insensitive when i lost baby last time, said having a baby in SCBU was actually worse than not having baby alive! (Niece was 9 weeks prem but is healthy and happy and ALIVE! Also 15months old now.) She can be a right bitch and seems to get worse when i'm pg. Makes me think maybe i'm a hormonal cowbag.