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5+5 Week scan.

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RileyTheLittleMonster · 10/12/2012 18:26

I'll write this shortly.

I had a big bleed on Friday at 5+3, i went to my EPU and they checked my HGC it was 9000. The bleeding has stopped since i've been in and i'm now discharging again like i was before.

They scanned me Sunday when i was 5+5 and said they could see a 6+ week baby, just no heart beat. The wardnurse said i will more than likely start bleeding and miscarry. But she said the baby's heart may not of pushed forward but thats probably not the case.

I just feel so positive and i've read on the internet about so many woman having a 6 week scan and there being no heart beat then going back at 7-8 weeks and its on the screen thumping away. Something inside is making me feel so positive about it!

EPU booked me in on Christmas Eve... Which is a long wait.
But i got a letter through today saying my local hospital has got me a scan for next tuesday (18th) I should be 7 weeks.... I was wondering whether i should wait until Christmas Eve? and if anyone has experiences this? Xmas Smile

Sorry that wasn't short after all Blush

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woose · 17/12/2012 16:55

Best of luck for tomorrow Riley xxx

RileyTheLittleMonster · 17/12/2012 17:31

Thank you woose, I'm not expecting anything on scan tomorrow not even a baby. Bled alot. x

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beckie90 · 17/12/2012 17:37

Aww bless you riley, good luck and let is know. Thinking of you xx

RileyTheLittleMonster · 17/12/2012 17:43

Thank you beckie, it's been really nice talking to you. I'll let you know what happens, not long now!xxx

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beckie90 · 17/12/2012 18:21

It's been nice talking to you too, think I'd go insane if it wasn't talking to people in a similar situation, cause my partner certainly dusnt understand. Not long at all, what time do you have to be there? Xx

RileyTheLittleMonster · 17/12/2012 18:38

Same! Half 11, so going to have a little lie in to speed it up. What time is yours on christmas eve? Xx

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beckie90 · 17/12/2012 19:25

Yea thats best thing. Mines at 10am so once I've sorted kids etc its come already its just such a struggle fitting a litre of water in at that time cause its so hectic lol xxx

beckie90 · 17/12/2012 19:45

So now I'm bleeding again, just been toilet and its red blood mixed with a stringy mucus :( not looking good xxx

RileyTheLittleMonster · 17/12/2012 19:49

I don't have to drink water as im only 7 weeks. Atleast your scan is early morning! I got my boyfriend a Sid the sloth beanie (ice age) as he nicknamed baby Siddy after it (because baby and me are lazy) . So I decided if its bad news I'm going to give it to him to cheer him up after scan, even though it was for christmas. Smile xxx

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RileyTheLittleMonster · 17/12/2012 19:51

Oh beckie, remember to think positive! Many woman have told me positive stories, remember you had bleeding in your first pregnancy which resulted with a beautifil baby. Xxx

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RubyrooUK · 17/12/2012 20:00

Hello. I remember replying to a thread you posted quite recently about this pregnancy. Sorry to hear you've been bleeding, especially after your horrific year. Will be crossing my fingers for you tomorrow and hoping you have good news. If not, so very very sorry. X

beckie90 · 17/12/2012 20:08

Me too riley so wonder y they told me to drink a litre of fluid Hmm I swear my hosi don't know what there on with, I know I think its just the pains that worry me most xxx

RileyTheLittleMonster · 17/12/2012 20:22

Thank you rubyroo need all the fingers and toes possible! Don't be sorry as angry as I will be if it ends badly, I still somehow believe everything happens for a reason. X

Beckie, You can easily empty your bladder, i only had pain this morning none since then just bleeding. I hate being so negative but i know its not good news! Most hospitals dont know what there on about Smile xx

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beckie90 · 17/12/2012 20:29

I know lol. Are u still bleeding? I've still got pain, no more blood as yet. It's so strange, its in my back mainly very much like start of labour. God its awful not knowing what's happening.

And that's a good way to look at life riley I've said that also, the bad things in life make us a hell of a lot stronger and I take my hat off to you I really do x xx

RileyTheLittleMonster · 17/12/2012 20:41

The 3 times ive been today I've had to change my pad and it nearlly filled toilet with bliod but just then pad clean and feesh toilet water, let's hope it stays that way! Pain could be from constipation?

I think thats how every woman having a difficult pregnancy sees it that way, i think the worst thing to see is bloody knickers in pregnancy! Xxx

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beckie90 · 17/12/2012 20:55

No not constipated am still quite regular luckily lots of foods don't agree with me so they send me to toilet lol.

Thats good that its stopped now, has it been clotty at all. And yes it definatly is even the smallest bit of blood is enough to scare you xxx

RileyTheLittleMonster · 17/12/2012 20:58

No, haven't had any clots luckily enough. Very true only takes a smidge! Xxx

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beckie90 · 18/12/2012 12:12

Just seen this didn't realise you had replied, how has the scan gone hun xxx

RileyTheLittleMonster · 18/12/2012 13:28

Bad news, baby is still in there hasnt grown much and had no heart beat. Having a d&c tomorrow and will be reffered for tests in 3 months. Thank you for all the support and Beckie keep me upto date with your baby :-) x

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RubyrooUK · 18/12/2012 13:58

So sorry. Sad

I hope the tests throw up some answers that help. And I'll be crossing my fingers that 2013 ends up being a very good year for you. X

cynnerthenaughtyreindeer · 18/12/2012 14:03

Ohhh.Riley..am so sorry! I am sending tonnes of hugs to you..xx

RileyTheLittleMonster · 18/12/2012 14:15

Got to wait for 3 months to have tests and probably a further 3 months for results. do we are waiting for them to get back and try again.

Thank you, i hope 2013 is a better year for everyone who had gone through the pain of loosing a baby. It's defiantly made me stronger loosing 3 in 8 months. Thank you. X

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cynnerthenaughtyreindeer · 18/12/2012 17:30

Yes! I shall send sticky bean vibes to you for 2013! You sound like a very loving, very strong woman..only the best for you and your family this coming New Year..

RileyTheLittleMonster · 18/12/2012 17:51

Thank you Cynner
Haha, yay lots of sticky vibes! I think there needed by many woman next year!

Wishing you a good ceistmas and tge best new year! X

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beckie90 · 18/12/2012 19:06

Awww no riley I'm so so sorry that's awful :( sending hugs your way hun.

Don't thank me you have been a great support to me.

Hope everything goes ok for you tomorow riley xxxx