missbone don't take it to heart too much. It's hard to understand just how emotionally straining it is to be struggling to ttc. I have fertility problems and platitudes from people who conceived easily did tend to make me see red, though I tried to bottle up the hurt and my only outlets for my frustration were internet messageboards. As far as I was concerned, fertile people couldn't possibly understand what I was going through and their 'advice', however well intended, came across as patronising. They didn't have to monitor their basal body temperature every morning, analyse every minute change in their cervical mucus, spend shedloads of money on ovulation kits, alter their diets to give them some tiny extra shred of false hope that it would make a difference, have professionals poke about their lady parts, undergo endless scans, blood tests, follicle tracking, mood-altering hormone treatments and even sometimes resort to alternative therapies month after frustrating month to get where they were. Not to mention timing sex til all spontaneity is a thing of the past.
I found that IRL those who have really struggled often say far less, as they are aware of the need to tread carefully, and often they have tried everything already and nothing works. Those who knew I was ttc would make unhelpful suggestions (believe me there was nothing I hadn't tried) and those who didn't would often make insensitive remarks. As a result I am uber-cautious about what I say with regards to ttc. When people ask me I am very open about my struggles, about the fact I don't ovulate without medical help, but it took 6 years of struggling and 2 children to get me to the point where I could calmly discuss it. Before that, when I was in the thick of ttc, if anyone pushed the issue it upset me greatly. I know first hand how TTC for a long time and fertility problems can have an incredible impact on your emotional wellbeing, so try to just forget about things they have said to you. Most importantly remember, it's just an internet forum, you can step away and turn off the PC! :)
Wow, what a rant. Clearly I'm more scarred by my experience of ttc than I thought I was! Sorry! 
On the lighter side, I have had such a manic day today, I have been busted by 2 people in the past two days who have somehow worked out I am pregnant. The weirdest was today - at the doctor's surgery I bumped into my (nosy but lovely) next door neighbour who took one look at me and said 'So you're expecting again are you?' I was 
- how on earth did she work it out. I thought I was being clever deliberately wearing clothes with no waistline so as to disguise my bloat, but evidently she saw straight through my plan. Or she's psychic. Or years of working in the NICU have given her some strange ability to sense a tiny bean. Who knows. I am mystified, but by the time I am ready to announce this pregnancy, it'll be the world's worst kept secret. 
DH then informed me that I do look at least 4 months pg in this outfit (and he couldn't tell me that this morning, before I went out??? Numpty)
Thrush is driving me to distraction, over the counter stuff that's ok in pregnancy doesn't seem to help - hardly slept at all last night, I was in so much discomfort. Doctor has prescribed me something but the pharmacy didn't have it in stock so I have to go back tomorrow. Annoyingly I also seem to permanently have a pressing headache - not severe but just constantly there, irritating me and making me highly intolerant of my noisy 4 and almost 6 year old boys.
I am still craving junk, I so badly want to have a massive McDonalds meal but instead have just made a healthy Slimming World spinach, potato and chicken curry (actually very tasty but just didn't cut it for me). DH is doing so well losing weight I don't want to sabotage his efforts!
Having my early scan a week tomorrow. So excited!
30, 7+6 with DC#3