im scared im pregnant again

[starshaker]

on christmas night dp and i did it without protection (i know stupid) it was just after af so its prob ok but ive felt different with light crampy feelings. i really couldnt deal with another baby at the mo even though i would love 1 does that make sense. i have a great job that dd comes with me to and i couldnt do it with 2. im prob just worrieing about nothing but i cant help it

Why worry before it's necessary honey?

It's probably fine. You're probably far more sensitive to your body because you are worried.

I had a similar thing when DD was about 6 or 8 months old. The test was neg but I panicked myself stupid for about 3 weeks beforehand. Given that you've got a few weeks until you can find out for sure, there's not a lot you can do. From what you say, I assume that you'd keep it if you do turn out to be preg, so I'd just sit tight and try to keep calm, extra stress is very likely to postpone your period even further. Good luck !

its weird 1 sec i think its great and i love a bro or sis for dd but the next i think god id need to give up my job we would have less money. yeah i would keep it i dont agree with abortions (although i dont judge people who have had them its personal choice) and i dont think dp would be very happy about it

Like Mars says, I'd try not to panic about it (easier said than done)

i still feel weird peeing all the time i so want another eh i mean nooooooooooo ok my head hurts im gonna stop thinking (not that that will be hard lol)

how early can i test. it was xmas night which was 2 weeks ago how long do i have to wait

The most reliable test will be 2-3 days after your period was due, although you can test from 2 weeks after the unprotected sex- whichever is sooner. Just to warn you for the future though - unprotected sex just after your period is a really dodgy time in terms of fertility - you start to become more and more fertile after your period and as sperm can live for up to a week, I wouldn't recommend it. Don't forget about emergency contraception if you slip up in the future and want to avoid pregnancy at all costs! I hope you get the outcome that makes you most happy though. Take care.

Also, to add to the doom, I concieved the day before my period was due!

thank GOD we didn't 'play w/fire' this afternoon!

here's hoping you're not if you dopn't want to be.

Colditz - you DP / DH must have super sperm!!!

Periods - what are those!!? - I didn't have one AT ALL between DD1 and 2 - Whoops!! Hope all's ok starshaker - thinking of you - keep us posted!!

its weird i had a period 8 wks after i had dd then nothing till the end of nov which lasted about 2 weeks and it was the day after it finnished we had sex

I fell pregnant after having unprotected sex in the week after my period its the most fertile time.

What is your age gap gonna be lockets? How's it going starshaker - done a test yet????

nope have resisted so far cos even if i am pg it would prob come up neg anyway.

test?

lockets - There's 15 months between my 2 DD's - it is not so bad - but it does have it's moments!! starshaker - Test!!?

how soon after AF was it?
You are most fertile (genrally) around days 11,12.Remember sperm lives for 5 days. so ok ish upto 5-7 days. this is only a vague outline and dont take it as red! Saying that I use it and have had no unexpected aditions!!

18 months between my 3 (then 2 years between 3 and 4)
It fine.

torn really want another baby but dont want to give up my job even though we will prob have the same amount of money thinking about it. i just like getting out the house and doing something. aaarggghhh i dont know how i feel.

still crampy sore boobs now (although may be because alana kicked me lol) and peeing more than normal. im probably just noticing things more cos im worried but thats how it seems iykwim

anyone else centred?

I did Lockets