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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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LucindaE · 14/10/2011 10:56

Pearl and Vampire Never apologise for tmi on here,grotesque details must be the order of the day. But it is bad, Vampire that you can't face crisps,
they were my staple diet for a short while, with flat coke. They were nasty enough as they reappeared, it's true, but somehow that didn't put me off. so agree about jelly, especially with tinned fruit in.
I was just coming back on to say that we haven't heard from Helibee Spannermary and Civilfawlty and a couple of others for a while. I think Helibee was bedridden at that time, while Civilfawlty was hoping to get Ondansetron...
Lucinda
xx

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Cosmogirl · 14/10/2011 11:36

Hi everyone,

I've not posted for a while but have been lurking now and again. Welcome to the new posters and my sincere condolences that you are going through HG. Butterfly - you are so correct about HG awareness in the UK - it is so so patchy and so many MW and GPs are really badly informed. I'm sorry you've had a rough road but hope things start to improve soon.

For those that don't know, I have one DD 2.5 and am wanting to TTC but after my HG experience am very scared so have been trying to get a consultant appointment to give me the confidence to go for it.

I spoke to the consultant's secretary and am waiting for an appt letter. If she is happy to see me I hopefully will get a meeting Mid November. I have a MW friend who used to work with her and says she is very experienced in caring for HG patients.

xx

spannermary · 14/10/2011 11:57

Hi all - how lovely to be missed! Feeling particularly sorry for myself as had a pretty horrible session last night. Having been reliant on salted peanuts for a couple of evenings, as something that was staying down, last night I made my very own version of satay sauce in the sink. Grr. Not touching them for a while. I'm 14+5 and hoping and praying that I'll be

spannermary · 14/10/2011 12:03

Grr - damn iPhone!

...hoping and praying that I'll be one of the lucky ladies who improves from 16 weeks. Have also decided that I'll go on mat leave from 32 weeks, which coincides with Feb half term. Not messing about with trying to work in last 2 weeks. Not that I've been to work for the last 4 weeks... Seeing doc today and will get signed off this week, then half term next week.

Another massive anxiety is that we are meant to be flying to holland next
Friday to see our best friends who live there. Trying to figure out how I'll cope with hour drive to airport, hour flight, 2 1/2 hour train at the other end. Desperately don't want to cancel - but it's a seriously daunting prospect: I've not even made it to the post box lately: let alone holland! And even though DH will be driving, I'm not best thrilled. Would love to see friends, though... Any survival tips would be most welcome! Xx

spannermary · 14/10/2011 12:04

...and ps - EDD 8/4/12 :)

SheRa76 · 14/10/2011 12:37

Hi LucindaE yep it's not as severe as before but it's still 4/5 times a day and nausea. Tried 3 different meds and combo although it helped a little the meds actually made me feel unwell so i took them for 2 weeks.
Thanks MotherofPearl yeh being this far along definitely helps mentally. Actually for me the scan helped a lot. Seeing the baby helped me stop feeling totally miserable!

Magnumwhite · 14/10/2011 13:47

Vampire could you stomach snack a jacks?

I can't mange anything potato based either.

Cosmo such good news that you are going to get your appointment!

Spannermary it really doesn't sound like you are up the trip - please don't push yourself unless you feel you can enjoy the trip.
I cancelled so much stuff when pregnant with ds - sobbed down the phone to very good friend on her wedding day from hospital bed that i was going to miss her day...but honestly I had to make those decisions (sometimes have those decisions made for me)

Magnumwhite · 14/10/2011 13:48

Incidently this week has been getting progresively better so the magic 16 weeks may be happening for me! no ondansetron since mon

grandmaagain · 14/10/2011 16:46

MMeButterfly
so glad you have found everybody here I replied to your last post on the other thread in the hope that you might find the help and support you need here x

caramellokoalalover · 14/10/2011 18:20

Cosmo, big wave, I remember you from the past thread. Glad you have got an appt to see someone who is good at treating HG patients. Made the world of difference in my 2nd pregnancy to have a supportive GP who would prescribe the meds I needed. Good luck.

Magnum potato is one of the final frontiers on the food front. VERY bad coming back up. Shudder. Glad you've managed since Mon without the ondansetron. That's brilliant news.

Spanner re your trip. It's tricky. I'd say if you think you'll get a mental lift from seeing your friends, and they are very understanding about HG. I.e. don't mind you vomming around the place. Then I'd say to go. Plenty of people get travel sickness so the vomitting on the plane won't be noticed. In the car, you can be prepared with plenty of sick bags. I've done a couple of flights with HG and whilst there was plenty of having to stop immediately to be sick along route I got through, and I'd say it was worth it for me. I think only you can make the decision though. If the idea is too stressful then maybe it's a no?

Gosh, I've been no help there, have I? Grin

Not to make any of you sick, but it's cocktail hour in the pink castle. Hope you're joining me, and those not here yet, here's one in spirit Wine

theonlyhb2 · 15/10/2011 20:53

after my 16 week check when we first heard baby heartbeat, we went to little chef for full fry up and tea. Halfway thru eating i realised what i was doing! The mention of bacon used to set me off retching and there i was stuffing it in my face. It wasnt til i was 26 weeks i went a week without being sick (i stopped counting the morning bile runs as being sick, they were just the norm! Don't miss those wake up calls).

I had to cancel lots of trips too....30th birthday to Amsterdam and Glasto being the most heart wrenching but i just couldn't cope. Even when was better the tiredness i got was a killer and the more i did the more i puked. So less deffo more!

feekerry · 15/10/2011 22:24

Hi all. And hi to the newbies. Sorry to hear some of you are having it so rough. All i'll say is push for ondanestron if you haven't tried it already. Its the only thing that works for me. . . Now 19 weeks and still sick most evenings. Even on the meds. But actually its quite bareable now and I can eat and drink normally. Wouldn't dare try reduce the meds yet. I see someone mentioned potato. . . Omg. I will never look at a potatoe again. Ever. Its possibly the worst food to bring back up isn't it. I had a terrible incident involving potatoe, vomit, and my nose. I shall say no more. . .. X

LucindaE · 16/10/2011 10:41

Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
MMe Butterfly 12/05/12
Vampire Empusa 6/4/12
Spannermary 8/4/12

Spannermary I've added you - I shouldn't have put the old list at the end of the unchangeable stuff in blue, it changes so quickly. Sympathies for the peanuts - 'The Horror, the Horror...'. It is unlucky that the meds make you feel bad too. Sympathies, and to SheRa76. Four times plus a day is pretty horrendous. It shows that meds have a long way to go! I do hope things ease a bit soon.
Grandma Thanks for pointing Butterfly this way.
Feekerry Oddly enough, potato, although unpleasant, didn't horrify me on the way up as much as pasta, or cooked cheese Shock or muffin. I'm glad things have improved for you generally and for Magnum.
Caramel and TheOnly [Waves face}. Sensible news about travel etc. TheOnly The bile run is such a dismal thing to wake up to...
Pearl Is the scourge still hanging on?
I hope Vampire Helibee and Butterfly are not too bad this weekend.
I wrote notes and guess what I did? Absent mindedly (I'm getting worse) tore them up aft er pasting that update, what made me do that? So if I have left anyone out, sorry...
Lucinda
xx

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LucindaE · 16/10/2011 10:46

Rest of message: -Bump How are things? I hope no more gasping and blood horrors? Cosmo I am so glad you are pushing for adequate treatment!
Who was it who was confined to bed largely, was it Helibee? I am going back on the old thread to see...
Lucinda
xx

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TheVampireEmpusa · 16/10/2011 11:06

I'm doing much better, still throwing up now and then, but not like before. Actually eating full meals again!!

LucindaE · 16/10/2011 18:40

Vampire More good news, eating?! [hsmile].
Lucinda
xx

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Cosmogirl · 16/10/2011 20:13

Evening all,

Vampire - so pleased things are improving! Makes things so much more bearable when you can get something down and keep it down. Long may it continue for you.

Lucinda - hi, hope you are well. I am obsessively checking the post for my letter! Am worried that they won't bother to see me. Not sure what I'm expecting the Consultant to do. I guess to guarantee me Ondansetron! Which is probably not gonna happen.

Potato - yes I am with you on this one ladies. I had a very unpleasant experience after fish and chips.... Actually HG made me realise how bad I am at chewing my food properly. Lumps hurt...

Not sure if I mentioned before that I had emetophobia (vomit phobia) before I got pregnant and I'm not sure I am properly over it even after 9 months of HG. But then, no one really likes sick I guess...

TheVampireEmpusa · 16/10/2011 20:18

cosmo Oh christ, emetophobia and HG?! What a combination!

MamaLucia · 17/10/2011 11:33

Can I just say hello & I love you all already -- just for having gone through HG too. At 21 weeks I was really hoping this little trend would have faded into a distant memory by now...but alas, no such luck!

LucindaE · 17/10/2011 13:41

MamaLucia Welcome, lovely to meet you. That is bad luck that it refuses to go past twenty weeks. Is it any better at all? How are meds helping you?
Lucinda
xx

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grumblinalong · 17/10/2011 14:33

mamalucia It's the pits when it doesn't tail off at 20 weeks. I got quite Envy when others stopped the vom...imagine being jealous of anyone with HG. Hope you are ok?

cosmo emetophobia & HG. Lordy! A lady who used to give me a lift to work was an emetophobe. I was pg with DS1 and was sick next to her car. I nearly ended up phoning an ambulance for her.

waves to nitnat, caramel, lucinda, theonly,grandma, MOH, mop and fluffy how are we all my lovelies? Nitnat - how are Matilda's heart problems. Hope you are ok with it all?

HUGE CONGRATS to elliottsmummy and boo on the birth of chloe & emilia. Sooooo many girls born recently :-)

Cosmogirl · 17/10/2011 14:56

Afternoon,

I received my letter today!! Got an appt the week after next - much sooner than I thought. Need to gather together my thoughts and figure out what to say to consultant. Any advice? Will tell her about the emetophobia too! Hopefully that will help her realise why I'm so scared.

Welcome Mama lucia - I was vomiting until 27 ish I think - then constant nausea from there. You have my sympathies x

MotherofPearl · 18/10/2011 09:39

Great news Cosmo, so good that you're taking preventative action. Sometimes when I look back on the last 8 months I sort of can't believe that it's humanly possible to endure so much sickness, and that mainly we're just expected to 'get on with it', so seeking proper treatment upfront is definitely the way to go. Good luck!
Thanks Grumblin and Lucinda for asking, doing OK. Sadly still sick (on Sunday had a lovely puking-into-plastic-bag-in-car while DP driving on motor way moment!), but fortunately will be 36 weeks on Thurs so really feel like the end is in sight. How are you feeling now Grumblin? Hopefully a little better as the memories of your terrible time begin to fade. x
Welcome to Mamalucia and sorry to hear you've still suffering. Are you 21 weeks now? Have you found any meds to help?
Glad to hear Vampire is feeling a bit better and able to eat a bit - long may it continue.
I wonder if some of the people at the top of the EDD list who don't come on the thread very often have had their babies yet? Mancbird? AgBag? Any news? I'm keen to get higher up the list is all! :)

MamaLucia · 18/10/2011 10:59

Thanks for the welcomes & sympathy everyone. LucindaE & MotherOfPearl - I did start to improve around the 16 week mark so went back to work but now that I've been back a few weeks(with a few sick days in between to add to the months off work - have had HG since 5 weeks) it seems to have come back with a vengeance. I love my work & I'm really fortunate as my boss, most colleagues & my friends & of course DH most of all have all been wonderfully sympathetic even if they don't quite understand (don't think you can until you've been there like you amazing ladies) but I just hate feeling so useless! No oral meds seem to work - the latest we tried was buccastem + metoclopramide + cyclazine but cyclazine only works in IV or injection form when I'm in hospital -- feels like my second home now! Was so relieved though to hear that others' babies are also growing in-utero on a diet of crisps & coke. Was feeling like a terrible mother before my baby's even born!!

LucindaE · 18/10/2011 11:35

MamaLucia It seems overwork can make it come back with a vengence, and at work these days,most people overdo it...They didn't try you on Ondansetron t hen? Many swear by it - my treatment was unorthodox so I can't say I tried it myself but many swear by it.
Cosmogirl I think the info on Moh's website might be good ammunition. She has it well backed up by research, I know. Horrors, emotophobia and Hyperemesis! [hshock] What is interesting is that having to confront a fear is supposed to make it go, and that evidently isn't always the case. I haven't ever been cured of my claustophobia, for sure...
Grumblin Lovely to hear from you, esp. when you must be so busy with baby, other kids and job, oh and forgot O/H! I h ope your health generally has improved a lot? How is the PTSD? I do hope going or gone? After what you endured, who wouldn't get that...
Pearl I must check when I have a minute, send a message. You deserve to be near the top of the queue! Sympathies, cyber hugs about Puking in Plastic Bag incident, though you showed good foresight in having it ready.
Thinking of you all.
Lucinda
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