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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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Boosaphena · 11/10/2011 20:49

Hi all
I haven't posted in a long while. I got really quite down about all the sickness.
I just wanted to let you know that I have come through the other side now. I am currently sat cuddling baby Emilia and looking forward to eating some dinner. I had a planned c section booked for 38 wks but she decided 36+5 was a much better time. Still a c section but an emergency one after going into natural labour in costa!
I now enjoy coffee frequently, and can eat several types of food without throwing them straight back up! My last bought of sickness was when I was in recovery and I really haven't missed it!
On a plus side if it wasn't for my scar I'd be back in pre preg jeans. Every cloud and all that!

I hope for the rest of you, you have found a coping mechanism. And remember the end is nigh! X Grin

caramellokoalalover · 11/10/2011 21:55

Lucinda yes pls for the jam recipe! I love a good jam. And now you can induge in lots and lots Elliotts - huge congratulations!!! Love the name! Welcome to the pink castle, sit on the lovely soft cushion Fluffy has brought and start eating whatever you fancy Grin

Magnum hope your feeling much better now after your fall and that the bruising is easing.
seapie the fainting is really scary. I had low bp with the HG with both pregnancies too but I didn't link it with ondansetron, maybe there is a link?? I remember parking the buggy and sitting on a kerb one day because I thought I was going to faint and had visions of the buggy continuing into the road or something horrid. so frightening.

Congrats too to you Boosaphena. So glad the HG is over for you as well. And starting labour in Costa will be one the tell the grandchildren about! Hope you're getting plenty of lovely newborn cuddles!

LucindaE · 12/10/2011 10:00

Boosepheena It's lovely to hear from you again, and congratulations! GrinGrin on your prize, another lovely name...Thanks fo r your encouraging post.But you should have come back to moan, that is the point of this thread, not to put a brave face on it and suffer in silence. It's so unfair that sufferers have got every right to...
Caramel When I next see mother, I shall find it out...
Feekerry Some women find it goes after sixteen weeks, say round nineteen or so...That must seem ages, but don't despair that it won't vanish entirely!
Pearl and Magnum Helibee Seapie and everyone, I hope doing OK?
Lucinda
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SheRa76 · 12/10/2011 11:50

Hi
New to forum. Thanks to louby86 for telling me about this thread! almost 23 weeks. Had HG from 6 weeks and managed to get almost 2 weeks without being sick but started being sick again yesterday.

LucindaE · 12/10/2011 19:22

SheRa76 Welcome, and I am glad Louby pointed you this way. Twenty three weeks and still suffering is bad indeed Sad I do hope that the fact that it lifted for a couple of weeks means that it is lessening its hold? How are you doing for fluids and solids and meds?
LucindaE
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MmeButterfly · 12/10/2011 20:17

EDD 12/05/12

MmeButterfly · 12/10/2011 20:24

Sorry i was trying to add my EDD to the list! I've been in hospital twice now for IV fluids and potassium and i'm on my fifth anti emetic ondansetron which is making life a bit more bearable. I'm still being sick 4 or 5 times a day but i can kind of move on from it without progressing to the dry heaves and then being left a dithering wreck while my toddler jumps on my back! I've started being able to keep some foods down and i was really pleased to hear that some women find they can only eat really salty foods as this is what i'm finding too.
I'm getting a bit stronger but i am really quite down about it especially because i know this could go on and on like it did in my last pregnancy.
I've vowed not to get pregnant again and my DH has valiantly offered to get the snip which is great. Can't help feeling a pang of sadness though as i originally wanted about 4 children.... just can't go through this again though.
Nurses in hospital have been really patronising and diminished the whole thing whereas the drs have all been really sympathetic and encouraging and willing to try new things out. I'm grateful for this but disheartened that most of the nurses still can't empathise with this. We really have a long way to go in raising awareness about HG in this country.

LucindaE · 13/10/2011 09:57

Mme Butterfly Welcome. I do hope Ondansetron (I always forget spelling) does the trick. Five anti emetics and two admissions, oh dear. I am glad you can eat something now. It is odd about salty foods, and sweet ones, too, crisps and coke were two of my staples. Unfortunately nurses' education about Hyperemesis sounds as if it still has a long way to go, but I am glad the doctor's understood; at least you didn't have trouble with a dismissive GP, then?
I'll try to add you to list by c and p but I ma pretty bad at IT myself (I had to be taught about links by Cocounuts while she was still suffering.

Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
MMe Butterfly 12/05/12

Recent Pink Castle arrival: ElliottsMummy!

We call arriving at the end T he Pink Castle and it's lovely...

Lucinda
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MotherofPearl · 13/10/2011 10:51

Welcome SheRa76 and hope the return of your sickness is only temporary. At least you've passed the halfway mark, I think it helps mentally.
Welcome also to MmeButterfly. Poor you, it sounds like you've had a very rough time. Salty food was also very helpful to me when I was at my worst. I confess at times I ate a few flakes of salt on their own! Blush Interesting to hear about the different responses from doctors and nurses. I think there is a lot of ignorance about HG as you say. Whenever I have a midwife check-up and they ask how I am, and I tell them I'm still being sick, they look at me in disbelief and I can tell they think I'm making it up!
Lucinda, thanks for asking after me, I am doing OK. 35 weeks today, so starting to feel the end is in sight. Also, over the last 10 days or so I have, for the first time in this PG, had a few puke-free days (about 3 out of 10 days), which has been great.
Hope everyone doing OK today. :)

theonlyhb2 · 13/10/2011 10:54

well done Elliots and Boo! Lovely names :) soon you shall be fatter than ever now you can eat. Pls avoid fudge, it becomes an addiction ;)

everyone be careful! No falls or fainting and wear sensible foot wear. Thank you x x

MmeButterfly · 13/10/2011 15:24

Thanks Lucinda and MotherofPearl. Me and DH had a massive row lastnight can you believe?! I think he's stressed out about things and i just got so angry that he would start playing up at a time like this. We've patched things up now but I just couldn't believe that he would pick a fight with me when I'm so sick. I was so upset that I puked all over the duvet. He took pity at that point and said he was sorry.
Why is it when you're at your lowest ebb that your DH seems to shove the boot in too? Anyway, my hormones are making me weird too so i guess it could have been more two sided than i'm letting on.
I'm just so down and worn out with this that i can't see anyone elses pain. I'm so gutted that i can't take my DD out anywhere too. Me and her are usually thick as thieves and have our own silly private jokes that nobody else gets but now i'm having to ask other people to take her out and although wider family are really enjoying this, I really really miss her.
Sorry for the mega whinge, just really pleased there's so many people on here who understand.
Loving the idea of eating pure salt by the way!

TheVampireEmpusa · 13/10/2011 16:56

Room for another?

Was in hospital over the weekend, on a drip. After weeks and weeks of doctors telling me it was normal sickness, despite not being able to eat anything and losing 2 stone, I finally saw m midwife and she sent me straight to hospital.

Feeling much better now on a combination of stemetil and cyclizine, though still vomiting occasionally. Can't believe it was allowed to get so bad, even when I was begging and crying for help.

My EDD is 6/4/2012

LucindaE · 13/10/2011 17:40

Vampire Welcome, and it is awful that you got told it was 'normal' for so long - losing two stone isn't normal! Losing half that amount isn't! I am glad you are feeling a bit better. I hope these meds do the trick, but just in case, make sure you get some kesosticks from a chemist just in case vomiting comes back (hopefully it won't) to make sure you aren't too dehydrated. Sounds as if you must have been before to have to go for immediate IV. I'll try and copy and past you onto the due dates.
Butterfly Oh dear, I think men find it very hard to understand just how bad you feel, though they think its terrible if they throw up a couple of times with a hangover...Cyber hugs. Never apologise for moaning, that is why this thread is here! For DD it will be worth it in the end to have a companion.
LucindaE
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LucindaE · 13/10/2011 17:44

Re my post below: -

Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
MMe Butterfly 12/05/12
Vampire Empusa 6/4/12

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TheVampireEmpusa · 13/10/2011 18:37

"Sounds as if you must have been before to have to go for immediate IV."

My ketones were +4 [hshock] which was pretty bad

LucindaE · 13/10/2011 19:45

Vampire That sounds like a staggering level. Awful that they are still letting things get to that point Shock. How are you managing with food and liquids now?
Lucinda
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aaahhhBump · 13/10/2011 19:50

TMI........................................................................................................Just had a scary bout of vomiting. Couldn't breath, think I asperated, started to panic. Lucky hubby came home and whacked me on the back. Still continued to vomit and there was fresh blood in it. Feel awfull head's bursting and I've no voice.

theonlyhb2 · 13/10/2011 19:51

Mmebutterfly my other half went to get me chips from the chippy....."no more salt than that" he says to the lady. "Ahhh, yours in that pregnant girlf isn't she, the one that likes LOADS of salt" and proceeded to practically empty the container onto my chips :) the salt craving lasted for ages after birth too.

its so difficult when you are so ill plus hormones making you crazy. not sure how my OH survived me for so many months. Only now he dares to tell me how terrible I was, and then my mum & best friend back him up. But I got away with it cos of the constant puking....and to think I was biting my tongue some days ha ha ha

hope yr eating more now x

TheVampireEmpusa · 13/10/2011 20:52

LucindaE Seem to be doing better now, keeping most food down. And all fluids. Still not got my appetite fully back though, unsurprisingly food scares me a little now.

aaahhhBump Hope you are feeling a little better now!

MotherofPearl · 14/10/2011 08:39

Vampire, welcome and condolences. 4+ ketones sounds horrendous. I was 3+ when I was admitted in week 7, and that felt bad enough. RE eating, I tend to think carefully about what a particular food might be like on the way up, iykwim? So smooth things like jelly, yoghurt etc aren't too bad. Nothing lumpy. Sorry if TMI but maybe it will help!
Bump, are you OK? That sounds scary and the fresh blood awful. As I'm sure you know, it's dried 'coffee grounds' type blood that is v serious and needs medical attention. Hope you're feeling a bit better today.
MmeButterfly, sorry to hear about your row with your DH. I think it's hard for anyone who hasn't had HG to know how horrific it is, both physically and mentally. I have found it's made me turn quite inward, and I know my relationship with my DP has suffered. He's just had to sort of get used to being pretty much ignored for 8 months! I only have just enough energy to get through the day.
SheRa76, how you're doing today?
Gosh, I am wittering on with this long post. Best I try to get some work done - only 2 weeks until mat leave, hurrah! Grin

LucindaE · 14/10/2011 08:53

Bump That is horrible, I still get that with migraines (my body seems to have learnt how to vomit spectacularly ever since my run-in the scourge) that frightening gasping so that you fear that you will inhale vomit,and often blood appears around the same time, apparently from the throat asPearl says, but it looks alarming.
Vampire I'm glad you can actually eat something and drink things, what a luxury!
Pearl Hurray for maternity leave coming up, I bet you can't wait. I so admire people who are able to keep working, I had just been made redundant so didn't have that problem, but I don't believe I would have been able to at all. 'Working' extends to looking after a toddler too, of course...
Hope everyone else is coping today and O'H's behaving well...
Lucinda
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LucindaE · 14/10/2011 08:59

TheOnly Sorry, I forgot to add, you had every right to be 'terrible'. I think O/H would have been worse to the power of ten if it had been he who suffered...
Lucinda
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TheVampireEmpusa · 14/10/2011 10:13

MotherOfPearl No need for an apology, I already learnt to think carefully about what I eat (crisps are a big no-no)

Magnumwhite · 14/10/2011 10:36

DH had norovirus about 6 months after DS was born. He was terrible to look after. In the midst of it he said
'I don't know how you did this for months'
Quite!

Makes me really cross when HCPs don't take HG sufferers seriously. When I was admitted for IV fluid with 1st pregnancy, most of the nurses and doctors were great (inc those in A and E who are my husbands colleagues and first met in my dehydrated hair plastered to head state - oh joy!)

But there was one particularly mean night nurse I remember...
and MW this time round just made me feel very pathetic when I crawled to first appt

Welcome MMe Butterfly & Vampire Empusa welcome and :( that you are feeling so rough

Magnumwhite · 14/10/2011 10:36

Welcome MMe Butterfly & Vampire Empusa welcome and that you are feeling so rough