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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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smk84 · 30/01/2012 21:32

Hi all , just popping on to say hi and sending lots of love to everyone. Don't have time to be on here as much as I was when poorly, but I never forget you guys. Will post properly again soon xxxx

horseynewmum · 31/01/2012 12:34

HI all. Had bit rough weekend as rverything I was eating now not agreeing with me and now back to step one on finding food that will stay down. least this time round plain water has been able to stay down YEAH!!!!
My DH has been abducted by aliens and swapped personalities so not going saying anything incase they return the real him LOL

From speaking to other people I know more people who have been ill whole pregnancy then had a comfortable one so why does the world act like it does that we ill. A mystary (sp?) we will never know

LucindaE · 31/01/2012 13:05

TheOnly I am so glad you are through that awful time and getting better.
Magnum I hope you are better today? Horsey Do you think it's possible the relapse is the stomach bug that is doing the rounds, but you know best?
SMK - Got it right that time - lovely to hear from you!
Lucinda
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horseynewmum · 31/01/2012 14:24

Luinda I never thought of that. as I rarely go out or see anyone I didnt think about it. I'll bare that in mind so hopefully it goes in a few days

seapie · 31/01/2012 18:02

Just to let everyone know that there is a life post-HG. Iona is a week old today and despite bleeding nipples, a caesarean and lack of sleep, I feel so much more like my old self. I had forgotten what it was like not to feel sick all the time. People keep commenting how well I am recovering, but a lot of it is just the relief not to be pregnant anymore.

Magnumwhite · 31/01/2012 18:33

Seapie so glad you are feeling better. Is this your first baby?

So hard when you get a vomiting bug when you have HG as you try to keep eating and of course if you weren't pregnant thats the last thing you would be doing!

Am much better now Lucinda thanks for asking, just tired and really hoping I don't go much overdue - desperate to have a normal relationship with food again! DS sleeping so well at the mo and I know that DH and I should take the opportunity to have evenings out together before the baby comes. But honestly there would be no point - I can't stay awake much beyond 9 and I can't wait for food once the nausea appears - it has to be right there immediately - not exactly conducive to dining out!

Haven't heard from Cosmo in while....really hope she is ok

LucindaE · 01/02/2012 09:51

Seapie That is good news! It's lovely in the Pink Castle, and the view...
Magnum Keeping fingers crossed for you.
Horsey OH could have brought the germs back, possibly? I do hope it is that.
Yes, Cosmo calling Cosmo come in please...
Lucinda
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MOH100 · 01/02/2012 16:39

seapie and champs belated new baby congrats. Iona's a lovely name, it was on my list but vetoed by DH, he didn't like any of my Scottish name suggestions! Enjoy the pink castle, as Lucinda says the view is lovely.

Sorry I've gone a bit quiet, I've been doing pregnancy sickness support stuff, I'm helping with the new website and I'm also working hard on collating the data from the survey that some of you filled in for me on www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. i mentioned it on the facebook group and got loads more responses. I don't know when I last mentioned it here, but anyone who hasn't filled it in, please feel free if you're feeling up to it. Pregnancy Sickness Support are having their conference on 21st June in Nuneaton and i've got a slot to present the findings. I'll also be putting the findings on the sos website bit by bit as I get the data on each question, so check in and have a look in the near future.

seapie · 01/02/2012 18:28

Magnum Iona is my second baby, so I have had HG twice. Never again! Glad you are feeling a bit better.

LucindaE · 03/02/2012 11:32

MOH Keep up the good work! Smile Seapie You and other twice veterans deserve a medal.
I hope everyone is doing as well as possible in the dismal circumstances?
Lucinda
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horseynewmum · 04/02/2012 13:14

JUst a quick pop on as still not feeling brill. I find laying down very uncomfortable at the moment as soon as I do I start to feel sick then start being sick which baby think is great and kicks me even more. Oh the joys of pregnancy. Seeing MW mon so I'll speak to her then about it.

Hope the new mums are enjoying post HG x

LucindaE · 05/02/2012 12:44

Oh, dear, Horsey Shockfeeling bad when lying down is unlucky. Does being propped up on pillows help?
Lucinda
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Magnumwhite · 05/02/2012 12:51

A plague is upon our house :-( 3 days after the horrendous d and v bug I get the sore throat from hell. 4 days later and its still no better. No sleep at night as can't take anything for throat, coughing up large green chunks of upper resp tract, couple that with heartburn and nausea. To top that DH gets the D and V bug on fri and is no use either......
DS remarkably ok though
cannot wait til not pregnant and immune system better and can take drugs again!
hoep everyone else ok x

smk84 · 05/02/2012 17:00

oh Horsey and Magnum I do hope things ease for you soon. As if the HG itself isn't enough to contend with . There is so much going around at the moment ! Hope everyone else doing as well as poss today. Waves to Lucinda and all you other lovely ladies.

needinstructions · 06/02/2012 10:08

Magnum, that is awful. I also went from d+v bug to cold/sinusitis and felt so sorry for myself to be battling feeling ill on all fronts. I was lucky that the HG was starting to ease off by then though and I much preferred the headaches, earaches and sinus pain to the nausea!

I haven't posted for a while as I have been feeling much less sick over the last couple of weeks (ignoring the other illnesses, anyway), but have still been logging on to see how you're all doing. Much sympathy to those still going through the worst of it - hope you are getting all the love and support to help you through as best possible. I am feeling immensely grateful for getting to the stage when I can function almost normally (still need quite a bit of rest to avoid relapses) and hope I never ever take being well for granted again. xx

LucindaE · 06/02/2012 11:29

Magnum How awful, that is so horrible, I suppose as you say due to your immune system being hammered you are vulnerable to any virus going the rounds. Do watch out if you become unable to cough up the dreaded green mucus, as then it becomes infected on the chest. A swollen throat is nauseating in itself, poor you. At least LO has escaped so far.
Horsey How are things today?
Instructions I am so glad that you are feeling a litle better. Have you reached fourteen /sixteen weeks? That so often seems to be the turning point.
SMK Smile
Cyber hugs to all.
Lucinda
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horseynewmum · 06/02/2012 12:34

Hi all. Feeling a bit better today after a good night sleep and some freshly home cooked meal my mum brought over with left overs tonight. I've spoken to MW as due to weather and roads out here I've cancelled seeing her but spoke to her and she thinks without examing me that I may be feeling sick when laying down could be where baby is a possible squashing my stomach so she advised lying on back rather then side so will try that with all the pillows lol.

need i rather have the cold and cough then HG too lol

LucindaE · 07/02/2012 11:37

Horsey That is good news! A good sleep makes so much difference, and hard to come by when suffering. Sad Pillows can be the thing. After the withdrawal of the other symptoms, I did find being propped up invaluable for the chronic heartburn. Chronic heartburn is infinitely preferable ot being sick or having abad cough with mucus or UTI's, though. Is there still much snow where you are?
Magnum I hope you feel not quite so bad today?
Thinking of all...Some haven't checked in for a while, I hope this is a good rather than a bad sign.
Lucinda
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horseynewmum · 07/02/2012 13:29

After two night sleep all way throuugh and not waking up till about 6/7am when my bladder cant take no more I've been sleeping through propped up so think that problem is minour now. I still have naursea but not being as sick so that is a bonus I think.
Still got snow but problem is where it is melting it turns to ice as temps drop and out here we don't see gritters as not on main county route.

How are you doing lucinda?

Hope everyone else is ploughing on ok.

Magnumwhite · 07/02/2012 14:49

hello all!
throat is finally less sore and congestion easing do getting a bit more sleep. But still knackered as on antibiotics and catching up from the last few weeks.
As have been breathless I thought maybe I should take some multivits as I got very anaemic with DS. Bad bad idea! an hour after taking vitamin yesterday I threw up - really embarrassing as was at a friends house for the first time with one of her other friends. Baby lying very low on bladder too so myself at the same time. Grim grim grim. You have to laugh or cry!

aaahhhBump · 07/02/2012 23:40

Is it possible to send the ginger hit squad to my work? Ginger biscuits are evil. They didn't work in the first trimester. Why do people think that they'll work in the third. Sorry having a rant. Anti-sickness tablets have become less effective in the last two weeks.

Glad to see all the survivors up in the pink castle.

MotherofPearl · 08/02/2012 11:59

Horsey and Magnum, sorry to hear you're still suffering. Vitamins are terrible for bringing on nausea aren't they? I really struggled to keep any down at all during HG.
Bump, the ginger hit squad sure has its work cut out for it! My condolences. I remember wanting to give several well-intentioned but extremely annoying colleagues a slap for suggesting ginger! Er, like someone with HG hasn't already tried every stupid worthless 'remedy' there is and found it makes no difference?! Confused
Waves to all! :)

MOH100 · 08/02/2012 15:14

If anyone's bored and wants something to read, I've started putting the survey results on www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. Its under the survey page. It's not all the questions, the analysis is still a work in progress. It makes quite interesting reading, next time someone tells you it'll stop at 12 weeks, tell them to have a look. And as for the ginger facists, funnily enough nobody said that ginger helped......

theonlyhb2 · 08/02/2012 18:58

i ate a cake at baby group yesterday, apple and ginger. nearly puked. I do NOT like ginger any more!

LucindaE · 09/02/2012 17:15

Magnum Poor you, Puking and Peeing is bad enough at home! Sympathies.
Horsey I am so glad that propping up has done the trick, or anyway, made things a lot better. Smile.
MOP Lovely to hear from you.
Aahbump Ginger? Crystalised ginger is another guaranteed to make me retch thing. How annoying of people with their ineffectual suggestions.
MOH I will have to have a look at that. More good work you've completed!
I hope Everyone is taking care in the remaning ice...
Lucinda
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