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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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fleurelise · 28/11/2011 13:22

an aside on loo designs... any of the blokes from TOWIE would be fine, particularly the oh so smug Mark Wright! Apologies for my poor taste in telly..

diddygirl · 28/11/2011 14:21

Hi all
Sorry for not posting for yonks! Just to let you know Heidi Florence arrived last Thursday by emergency c-section at 37 weeks. She's doing well and we are chuffed to bits. It feels great to be finally rid of sickness and heartburn and I am looking forward to tea and cakes at the pink castle.

Thanks to everyone who advised me in the very early days - it's funny how a second time round sufferer still needs the support even tho I'd been through it once.

Thanks again and best wishes

xxx

LucindaE · 28/11/2011 15:10

Wonderful, Diddygirl! Thanks Wine Grin BrewCongratulations! What a nice name, I hope the emergency c section wasn't too alarming. I'll spread the cloth in the dining hall in the pink castle; there's a lovely view from here!
Fleurliese Thank you for thoughts, lol about loo decoration! Grin
Is everyone coping?
Lucinda
xx

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LucindaE · 28/11/2011 15:14

Apart from more hugs and congratulations to DiddyGirl Grin Fleurliese You poor thing - Sad spraying the walls? Have the meds stopped helping? This sounds like a miserable relapse, how areyou todaym, any better? Sorry to hear about OH's surgery, do you think worry was making the Hyperemesis worse?
Lucinda
xx

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spannermary · 28/11/2011 15:18

Congratulations, diddygirl - that's great news!

Well, you guys are right again regarding me...the doc saw me today and took a look at my phased return.

He had a couple of comments. Firstly, he thought the phased return was a little intense (it had me in 4 full days in 2 weeks time, and 3 full days next week). These things usually take longer...

Secondly, he said that he really thought I wasn't ready. Even though I'm not throwing up so much, the stress of having had HG for over 2 months meant that I needed to take even greater care of myself and my little one.

So he's written on my note: "I have advised patient NOT to go back to work until after Christmas. I feel this would be in the interests of the patient and unborn child."

Ah - what a sweety. :)

I'm allowed to do some light paperwork/emailing/school contact from home if it'll make me feel better though!

And I'm determined to help myself feel better. Light walks when I'm up to it, leave the house each day, less mooching on the sofa with a duvet. All if I can - and not if I can't!

Thank you all so much for your loveliness!!

On an aside, when I got out of the doctor's surgery I found I had several missed calls from my line manager. Apparently school are being Ofsteded tomorrow. It would've been my first day back in...and I'm going to miss it.

I really dodged a bullet there!!!

fleurelise · 28/11/2011 16:09

Congratulations diddygirl Thanks Wonderful news - best wishes to you all xx

Lucinda Thanks not to bad today so hopefully it was just my body telling me off for overdoing it. The travelling Thurs-Fri really knocked me for six. Have been worrying a lot too so can identify with those who found HG worse when they are trying to get on and do things. Fortunately I'm not expected to travel for work this week but next week... different story. Being home all day today has really helped, but this is because I literally did.. nothing. Answered a few work calls in the morning but that's it. Only just got up to have some toast, first time I've really moved all day :)

Spannermary Now that makes sense!! Thank god. It didn't seem to make sense to have to worry about a 'phased' return to work when you are clearly not back to normal, and at least you will have a chance to get on top of HG rather than it getting the better of you and then having to worry about work's response.

hope everyone else is having an okay-ish Monday

xx

MotherofPearl · 28/11/2011 16:25

Hello everyone,
Sorry have not had time to read any recent posts (although have seen diddygirl's great news - many congratulations!) but wanted to let you know that I too have finally entered the pink castle! Abel Leonard was born on Sat 26 Nov, after keeping us waiting 10 days after his due date. He weighed in at a gigantic 9lb 4oz, so any sufferers in the early stages, do take heart - I was sick everyday right through the PG and still produced a healthy sized boy!
It's such a huge relief not to feel nauseous anymore, and not to be sick everyday. I did a horrid farewell-to-HG mega vom in the recovery room after he was born, but nothing since, thank god. He was born with forceps in the end, which I really wanted to avoid this time, but after a very long 2nd stage and 4 hours of pushing to no avail, I was too tired to get him out on my own.
Have been celebrating by enjoying lots of favourite and long-avoided foods. So happy to finally be in the glorious surrounds of the pink castle. Thanks so much to everyone on here for all your support, especially lucinda for her amazing dedication to all of us. I will carry on popping on from time to time, and hope to offer support to others. :) :) :)

horseynewmum · 28/11/2011 19:03

Congrats Pearl and diddy for reaching the otherside. Bet the non-nausea feeling is a breathe of fresh air.

spannermary it sounds like you do need to slow down a bit and your GP is right.

Lucinda hope the margine hasnt re-surfaced.

Had a shit night and morning of vomiting and slept all afternoon then had to put up with in-laws for an hr this evening while trying not to move incase I was sick for them to say I look rough and need to eat more. No shit sherlock. Why did DH invite them over. I told him i wasn't up to vistors.

Hope everyone else is ok and newbies have found medications that are starting to help

Clandy · 28/11/2011 19:19

Aww horsey sounds rubbish, I know people are only trying to be nice but being told how rubbish you look doesn't help!

Congratulations on your babies ladies and glad to hear they are both healthy Smile

Glad your doc was so understanding and helpful! And no Ofsted for you, you lucky thing. Can just imagine what they might say if you have to run out mid lesson to be sick.... Grin

Another day being sick but the tablets are making it more manageable and am keeping food down its when I start to get hungry so nibbling every hour to see if that helps. Thanks for the support!!

fleurelise · 28/11/2011 19:38

Congrats Pearl ! Hope the cakes, muffins and other delicious treats taste good in the pink castle! :)

Horsey ugh having in-laws around can't help - glad you survived, I don't think I'd have had anything nice to say to DH after that!

Question for the ladies who are further along than me (12 wks):

Did you all have 'normalish' first scans? ie. normal size baby despite losing weight during the first trimester? I lost about a stone - scan is on Thursday, and I am a little worried about whether I should expect the baby to be smaller?

horseynewmum · 28/11/2011 20:03

i've lost 1.5 stones and at 13 wks my baby measured 6.5cm which seems average. it was a right mover and shaker lol don't worry fleurise

fleurelise · 28/11/2011 20:45

Thanks Horsey - I know worrying isn't helpful, but seriously even when I do eat, my appetite is so fussy, that I only feel like eating crap. I know I need to try harder, especially now, but it's so hard to face 'real' food after some of the vomiting 'moments' I've had.

toomanydinosaurs · 29/11/2011 12:06

Congratulations to the ladies that have now had their babies!!
As for me I've been on Phenargan for a few days now (after switching from Stemetil) and I can say it has been an improvement as I haven't really vomited though I do retch quite a lot still. Unfortunately the nausea is still there to varying degrees, especially if I move around too much. I'm never ever hungry and don't fancy anything to eat. I have to force myself to eat most of the time and the thought of food makes the nausea worse. Is this as good as it gets? I don't want to waste the doctors time and keep changing meds but wanted to know how 'well' I should expect to feel?

smk84 · 29/11/2011 13:33

Hi all, hope everyone is doing ok today.
Massive congratulations Diddy and Mother !!!
Clandy glad things are a bit more manageable. Are you still working?
Horsey it's so strange how pregnancy seems to make people think they have the right to pass comment ! If you don't mind I am gonna use your 'no shit sherlock' if I get any grief (it really made me laugh !) and am feeling brave enough.
I had my 12 week scan yesterday, was so emotional as all was fine and I had been so worried about effects of sickness and meds. They have given me an earier due date than I expected, which I don't think can be right cos I know when I ovulated, so can only think that the baby is a little bit big for its age, which is again reassuring. Fleur I hope this reassures you a bit. I have lost half a stone, which I know isn't drastic, but the doc keeps telling me that the baby will always take what it needs, and there are plenty of ladies on here who have said that HG has not affected the weight of their babies.
Too many I can't really help much with your question, as I have stuck with cyclizine, and I feel similar to you (I do still vomit from time to time, but don't have the retching), but I am pretty sure that earlier in the thread a couple of people have said that Onandestron (sorry not sure of spelling) allows people to live relatively normally. I think it may be expensive though so some docs are reluctant to prescribe. I have been too wimpy to try anything else !
SpannerMary I think that's great that you have such a supportive doctor, and the right thing not to go back to school. Schools can be such stressful places. I am so keen to get back to work as I just want to get back to normal, but I can still hardly get out of bed. If I had a desk job I may be able to go back sooner, but teaching is draining in every department!
Lucinda - hi and thanks for asking after me. Nausea wise still not easing, but vomiting less. Hope the migraine doesn't return for you.

LucindaE · 29/11/2011 14:17

Pearl So happy for you, I know you suffered awfully, and it's too bad you had a tough labour too, but what a giant! Hugs. Grin ThanksWineBrew.
Congratulations on Abel Leonard, and thanks, please do come back when you have time, which with a new baby, is a thing in short supply.
Spannermary Good, good, good about GP.
Fleurliese That sounded an awful episode. I do symapthise about not wanting healthy stuff...Does soup appeal at all? Thin, of course, just in case Shock. Driving and Hyperemesis, oh dear. Do try and take it easy.
Clandy I lost a stone in a month, though the GP's surgery disputed this, and that was one ninth of my body weight, and had an eight and a half pounder, try not to worry too much, and there's Pearl who was sick throughout, with a giant.
Horsey Poor, poor you. Hugs, naughty OH, annoying In-Law's. 'No Shit Sherlock'? Love it! Grin
Smk So sorry you still are suffring with nausea, that is so wearing...
Everyone Take care...Hope I didn't overlook anyone.
Lucinda
xx

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belindarose · 29/11/2011 14:34

Hi everyone. I can't keep up properly with this thread and am in awe of those of you who kindly mention everyone by name. Hope you're all having as good a day as possible. I've had 5 days on metoclopramide now. No longer being sick but still very nauseous a lot of the day and feel awful during the night. Only managing to eat digestive biscuits, tiny chunks of cheese and occasionally yoghurt and nuts. Pleased with myself today for cooking a batch of bolognese sauce to freeze for DD. I did it just after lunchtime tablet and it was fine.

Have to go back to dr on Thursday to check how it's going. Couldn't get same one though so am worried it'll be one who doesn't believe in HG

Have found out today that I haven't got any more work - they've given mysomeone's I someone else and are advertising after Christmas. I have no contract, so no sick pay, and there's no point me applying as they know I'm pregnant. It's sort of one less thing to worry about, but £1000 worse off a month all of a sudden! More for DH to worry about, bless him.

Cosmogirl · 29/11/2011 16:19

Hi ladies,

Will check in later to catch up properly on everyone's progress as haven't been around lately...got a BFP this morning :-) Very happy but also the feelings of trepidation are there about HG returning. I will be four weeks on Saturday so it is very early days.

I hope all those suffering are coping as well as can be, and those in the Pink Castle are enjoying themselves. xx

LucindaE · 29/11/2011 19:38

Cosmogirl Congratulations on BFP, exciting news, I'm wishing you every sort of luck. Smile
Belindarose Sorry to hear that you are still suffering. A little food is better than none at all and constant puking, but doesn't sound great. I hope they decide to prescribe something else. What filthy luck about work, and just before Christmas. I assume they are within their rights to do this?
SMA Sorry, I forgot to congratulate you on the happy news about the scan. Belladons How areyou today? Everyone?
Lucinda
xx

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Magnumwhite · 29/11/2011 20:06

oh wow Cosmo that was quick! congratulations and i'm really hoping this is a better pregnancy for you. keep us up to date

Congratulations also to Pearl how wonderful that you can enjoy food again (and of course have a lovely baby too!)

I'm doing much better at the moment which is just as well as DS has definitely ditched the lunchtime nap at 21 months. so it is all go all day here. Upside is the nights are much better again and he's in bed by 6.30pm. I'm not that long after.......

LucindaE · 30/11/2011 08:17

Magnum He did give up that nap early. Not considerate of him! I'm so glad the Hyperemesis is on the wane, how long along are you now? Has the puking completely gone?
Off to Welsh today, I do hope Everyone is OK. How do people find soup, by the way (obviously,not lumpy)? I actually took to making my own, for some reason it helped the heartburn. But I seem to have been a one off in finding Iron Bru soothing!
Lucinda
xx

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fleurelise · 30/11/2011 10:48

Hi everyone, hope everyone is ok.
Had to drop hubby off at the hospital this morning for his op today. Depending on how it goes, he may not be up and about for next few days. Starting to panic a little as although I've been coping, still nauseous. Only vomited once yesterday, but felt useless most of the day. Still, need to take care of him now!

Belinda can't believe it about your contract, so sorry, seems a bit heartless given that they are aware that you're pregnant. Try to take each day as it comes, from experience worrying isn't going to help although I am one to talk. Well done on preparing the meal, I have plans to do the same today and freeze batches so at least hubby can eat.

Happy your scan went well Smk ! You're right, most ladies on here seem to have no problems, think I have been reading too much screening documentation. Scary stuff! Also I definitely seem to puke any time I eat anything remotely healthy which is a worry! eg. Clementines caused my worst puking session ever!!

Going to try your advice Lucinda and try some soup if I can, not sure why I'm feeling worse all of a sudden, was eating a fair bit last week.

Congrats on the BFP Cosmo I know... trepidation ahead wondering is it/isn't it the start of HG, but always a chance you won't suffer..

Magnum staying on the go all day.. my heart goes out to you.. roll on 6:30!

LucindaE · 01/12/2011 12:42

Fleurliese How is husband? Are you coping OK? Did the soup prove soothing?
I just hope nobody on here has a 'sleepless' LO as I did. That was one of the reaosns I just couldn't go for a second in the circs.
Belindarose Still incredulous about your work's attiude. Milk of human kindness doens't get a look in...
How is everybody?
Lucinda
xx

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fleurelise · 02/12/2011 09:51

hi everyone,

quick quickie from me..
been an eventful couple of days hubby had a successful ear op - now walking about the house with a swollen head and refusing to sit down :) I went along to my scan all was well - baby measured in at 7cm so like some of you we found it was bigger than we had expected.

OK -must dash - hope everyone is well and unanticipated trips down to A&E for anyone! x

LucindaE · 02/12/2011 13:34

Fleurliese Congratulations on scan and OH recovering. Smile
Xmas Smile

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smk84 · 02/12/2011 15:12

Hi ladies, hope you are doing well today.
I don't have time to post much, but have a quick question. As I have said I work in a school (primary teacher). I had to tell my boss (head) why I was off as it stated it on my sick note, but I also told him to keep the news private. I had a letter from governors this week, and the letter must mean he told them I am pregnant in a meeting the other day without speaking to me first. Does anyone know if he is allowed to do this? Any advice on what I can do about it? The letter also asks me as a matter of urgency to confirm when I will be returning to work (have been off 5 weeks), but I can't ! Ridiculous ! And just for one final whinge - no mention of 'we hope you feel better soon'.
fleur that's fantastic ¬ so pleased for you :)