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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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Clandy · 24/11/2011 20:15

Why is cyclizine not safe??? This is what doc has given me!!! Ooh I feel worried Sad

toomanydinosaurs · 24/11/2011 20:25

I don't know. On the phone he said he would give me cyclizine and then when dp picked up prescription it was phenargan with a note attached saying it's likely to be safer in pregnancy than cyclizine.

toomanydinosaurs · 24/11/2011 20:27

don't feel worried I'm sure your gp has prescribed something safe for you. I'm just hoping the something will work as I can't function!!

Clandy · 24/11/2011 20:27

Sorry forgot to say big welcome and sorry to hear your unwell Blush just had mild self indulgent panic!!

Will maybe ring docs before taking any more which is gutting as feel soooooo much better. Have been googling and now feel worried Sad

Clandy · 24/11/2011 20:28

X post there dinosaur! Hope it works for you and you feel better Smile

katystar · 24/11/2011 20:56

Hi just wanted to pop back and say hi and i hope your all coping ok, I am a survivor! Had constant sickness through out my preg and this thread helped me to cope! Clandy Please don't panic about cyclozene I took it during my preg and it was fine, doctors are a little bit useless regarding medications to try and don't really know anything about the illness, but they do prescribe medicine that is safe. Please try and stay positive, I look back to a year ago when I was in hospital and couldn't cope with how ill I felt but now have a wonderful baby boy. So it will get better, and it is all worth it in the end! Take care and listen to all the advice you can (I personally found sparkling water the best thing to help)

Belladons · 25/11/2011 11:44

Hi again,

Sorry for late reply!

Fleurliese & LucindaE Thank you for your responses, Tuesday just got worse and worse until I was on a heap on the floor retching for hours. DH called GP and I went to A&E. After 9 hours in A&E was transferred to another hospital where they actually had a bed on the Gynae ward for me, so was able to stay in until yesterday morning, get nice and hydrated and injected with antisickness.

Have been home now for 2 days and am taking Cyclizine, which so far is working well. I have not been sick since although feel sick all the time, and as we all know any movement makes it worse, but so far, have managed not to be sick. Am managing to eat plain food and sip water, but very little of each - but at least stuff is staying down

Am also wearing travel bands which are really helping. DH learned some acu pressure tips from the web and has been doing this for me first thing and also before bed. Don't know what I would have done without him. I am also going to book in for acupunture next week if I feel that I need it. I simply cannot go back to where I was on Tuesday - it was horrendous.

Work are very understanding as another Director at work had HG with both her pregnancies, so they do not expect me back this year and are letting me do what I can, when I can from home.

One of the things that I was shocked to find out, was that should it get bad again, I still have to go through A&E, your doctor cannot simply have you booked onto a ward, this seems crazy. Fingers crossed it won't get as bad, but I was surprised to hear this. I know there used to be a couple of HG clinics in London, but they seem to have been closed down. If anyone knows of anything like this in London, then it would be good to hear of your experiences.

Best wishes to all
x

LucindaE · 25/11/2011 12:07

Everone really sorry everyone's still suffering, and thanks to Katy. Belindarose if the metrocloprimide makes y 9u feel sicker, do let the GP know, I didn't have it in pregnancy but I had it for migraines and it found it made the nausea worse,too. Can't give a long post as struck down with migraine, throwing up like a fountain myself, but cyber hugs to all and will be back soon. Bellarose really sorry you had to go to hospital.
Lucinda
xx

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spannermary · 25/11/2011 16:18

Hello, everyone - hope you are all having a fabulous day and not suffering too much.

My sickness is still gone but replaced by anxiety...tingling in hands, and I feel a little like I'm being choked around my heart. I know it's because I'm going back to work.

It's ridiculous and I need to get a grip - after all I'm better!

Grr. Getting annoyed with my melodramatic self now...

smk84 · 25/11/2011 17:04

Hi all, just wanted to check in with you, don't have long as have to wake DS up in a minute. Have only had time for a quick read through recent posts, but it sounds like people are having such a rough time one way or another. Big hugs to you all. Toomany welcome, sorry you are suffering too. I am taking cyclizine and I have been worried about the safety of any medicine during pregnancy. MOH has posted some links on this thread to research evidence etc - which are definitely worth looking at. I really hope that your GP has not received new evidence that other meds are safer than cyclizine, as that would be really worrying (there are quite a few people on it on this thread).
SpannerMary do you think it would be worth discussing your anxiety with your GP? This can be very debilitating and might be a reason not to go back to work, especially considering how rest and "relaxing" is so important in HG. I was off with anxiety early on in my first pregnancy for a couple of weeks.
Lucinda big hugs to you - sounds horrible, I hope it passes ASAP.
As for me, not too bad an end to the week, seem to be learning how and when to take meds. Following a "I can't keep anything down" (including meds) on Monday I had to go for blood tests on tues for liver and kidney function, so will be interesting to see the results.
Sorry I don't have time to respond to more people individually xx

toomanydinosaurs · 25/11/2011 18:42

Hi again. Thanks for the welcome. I don't want to speak too soon but looks like the phenergan worked today. I took one dose last night which knocked me out so I had the best sleep I've had in a while and then I woke up not nearly as queasy as I would normally. I'm just starting to feel sick again and I'm due to take another dose tonight. I would say a good result so far. I don't know why my doc said phernergan is safer than cyclizine but he seemed a bit cautious. Maybe he just doesn't have that much experience treating HG? If I speak with him I will ask him to clarify. I don't want anyone to worry unnecessarily as cyclizine seems to be used very frequently without any ill effects. Hope everyone starts to feel better soon!

horseynewmum · 25/11/2011 19:32

Hi all and welcome all new people.

Re the cyclezine i've been on it since my 7th wk at different strenghts and so far no harm to baby. I'm now 14 wks.

I went back to see GP yesterday and he was shocked how much weight I lost and how down I was. took him 10 mins to calm me down and he now signed me off for a month no questions.
I explained all my worries re work and how i feel so alone and he said stuff everyone else you have to think about your health and the baby and do what you feel right. He known me since i was 12 and he known my DH longer and he said we make great parents. told DH to look after me. It maade me feel better that my GP is behind me 100%.
As usual travelling has knocked it out of me and so exhausted and nausea's again.

Hope everyone is coping with toilet hugging. Think we should design patterns for inside of toilets.

fleurelise · 25/11/2011 21:47

Hi everyone, just me checking in... Haven't been on much as barely managed to make it through the past two days myself due to travel and exhaustion. Was on the road for 3 hours this evening - TFIF!

Sorry everyone who is having a crappy time right now - at least you're not alone on this board!

So glad you got the help you needed Belladons before you got any worse.. Bet the 9 hour wait didn't help matters! Take it easy dear and rest. Belindarose glad you got some help although I note that you are still suffering - it seems to me from what I've read here and elsewhere that different things work for some, not for others so it may take a few trips to the doc unfortunately... Re the house being a state - I have literally let my OH do everything for weeks now and can't say I've felt good about that. But keep telling yourself it's just for a limited time and hopefully it'll all be forgotten eventually!

Lucinda I hope your throwing was triggered by the migraine and not err something else :-) sorry... Hope you're feeling a bit better and able to enjoy the weekend ahead..

Hi and Welcome toomany I too have been taking Cyclizine and my sister was given it in hospital (my niece turned out fine) to be honest, a lot of people still have reservations about taking drugs of any sort during pregnancy, but for most of us here it seems to be the only way to avoid the risks associated with dehydration and weight loss in pregnancy.

Smk hope the blood tests turn out ok, horsey I agree Toilet Interiors would be a great idea for the likes of us. Wouldn't be surprised if they don't have it already somewhere like Japan maybe :-) I remember being fascinated by all the buttons they have there...

Sorry about the long rambling message as I mentioned I'm so tired - think I will go to bed now. G'night all!

LucindaE · 26/11/2011 11:33

Hello, just tottered up. Thanks for sympathy, at least with me it only lasts a couple of days. Fleurliese Definitely not pregnant, sadly ?! The puking with migraines started in earnest after Hyperemesis, as though my body had learnt how to do it in style Shock How are you now?
Clandy I know that Cyclazine has been prescribed for over twenty years, with no increased rate of abnormality, so I am sure its safe. But it does make women feel spaced out...
TooMany I hope meds still working?
Spannermary Sorry about nervous symptoms, it's not surprising though, I think after the shocking Hyperemesis Experience women can be traumatised. It makes you feel so helpless.
Horsey Great news about sympathetic GP talking sense.
Belladons Poor poor you about the awful symptoms leading to your admission. I wish I could help you about drop in centres, but I suppose they must be under threat with the cuts in NHS.
SMK Tests, they are always worrying.
Apologies to anyone I've overlooked, brains not back to normal yet.
Lucinda
xx

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theonlyhb2 · 26/11/2011 13:46

ahhh the child has awoken so v short! Phernagan ans Cyclazine are both as safe as each other. was prescribed both by my Dr and found Phernagan was better. does make you sleepy though! was great to use near end of pregnancy to help me sleep :)

gentle hugs to all of those being ill

for those at the Pink Castle, I have brownies :) xx

spannermary · 26/11/2011 14:38

Hello, all, and thanks for the sympathy and report. Interesting comments, smk84 and LucindaE. You both seem to be suggesting a link between the HG and my anxiety, which is something I hadn't considered.

I think I'll book an appointment with my GP tomorrow, to chat through my worries about going back to work. It's a difficult one, because I have a feeling this would happen whenever I go back. But does that mean it's the right time? I have to bite the bullet at some point! Oh I don't know...

Another issue is that usually if I'm feeling a little antsy I'll head for the gym and work it out on the treadmill and in the sauna. Well that ain't going to happen!! So watching the tennis, and writing Christmas cards will have to do...

I'll let you know how I get on.

Horseynewmum - great news that your GP is so understanding. Enjoy the rest and spoil yourself between now and Christmas.

Clandy · 26/11/2011 19:33

I Know the docs wouldn't prescribe it if it wasn't safe but I'm a worrier Smile it is making me feel on another planet but so far I have only been sick once and feel manageably nauseous so I'm happy. Needing three tablets at the mo but hoping it doesn't stick around too long.

Hope everyone else is feeling better

theonlyhb2 · 26/11/2011 20:25

spannermary deffo link between anxiety and HG. was much more sick when stressed about work. once I was signed off and my boss told me not to do so much and started sending me home was much better!

spannermary · 26/11/2011 23:42

Theonlyhb2 - thank you so much for that information. It makes me feel so much better to know there's a reason I feel like this...and I'm not just going mad!

spannermary · 27/11/2011 16:06

So this morning I looked at my phased return schedule for work and burst into tears at how overwhelmed I was. Then I had some lunch (bowl of cereal) and threw up. Then cried a bit more.

I really need to get a grip!

LucindaE · 27/11/2011 16:59

Spannermary If stress is stil making you throw up, it does sound like it's too early. A lot of women try and go back too early, and they shouldn't...Can you avoid it?
Belladons Was it you who mentioned a previous miscarriage, and I didn't pick up on it to symapthise? Whoever it was, my sympathies, it makes you extra anxious, even though the statistics are overwhelmingly on your side even after three...
Clandy So many women on this thread have been on Cyclazine, or cocktails including Cyclazine, I really wouldn't worry. I know it seems easy for me to say.
TheOnly You lovely thing to come on and reassure, I hope it doesn't make others sick if I say 'I'll put the kettle on...'
What would do for a decoration for the loo? A picture of a rainbow or one of one's least favourite spoiled celebrity? A picture of one's bank manager?
Grin
Horsey Still delighted about your nice doctor. You deserve a break...How are things for you, Fleurliese Fekerry SMA and Belindarose and Everyone?
Lucinda
xx

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Clandy · 27/11/2011 19:31

Hiya thanks for the reassurance! It is much appreciated Smile have had two more bad days of being sick even with the meds but so much better than before.

LucindaE · 27/11/2011 20:07

Clandy Keep monitoring your ketones, then, mother hen fusses! If you are still throwing up, it might be that you need something else? Don't put up with it because you don't want to make a fuss. There's lots of safe meds they can try!
Lucinda
xx

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theonlyhb2 · 27/11/2011 21:22

stick with it clandy! i found after a while I could get thru the day with "only" being sick 2/3 times and then when into a routine could afford to not take as many BUT (this is a massive but) only if I didn't do too much!

spannermary i would seriously sack off work. it's not fun trying to drive home whilst puking into a jiffy bag at the end of each afternoon. the constant worry you are letting people down/not pulling yr weight. a phased return is all very well but whilst your like this I wouldn't do it. I found it so difficult just getting to work and trying to work thru my emails, let alone communicate with anyone! Weeks 29-34 were my best, I felt better mentally, employed an extra person for my office, trained them up and was almost like my old self! It was amazing. Worked 6 hours a day and in my last few weeks almost full time. Did feel rough after and had to do nothing when I wasn't working (and i mean nothing, home, into bed, OH did everything!) but you are a teacher! my little office wasn't even really stressful (and the upstairs toilet was my toilet so I didn't have to worry about that) so I have no idea how you cope (or any of the teachers that were on here).

on a different note, I would like Fatima to win I'm a Celeb (childbrith does not improve TV choices)

fleurelise · 28/11/2011 12:19

hello everyone,

back in bed, after spraying the walls (literally) most of Sunday evening. I couldn't stop and couldn't move quickly enough to the loo. Hubby has to have an op on Weds (major surgery to his eardrum) so he'll be out of it for a few weeks at least, so things might get a little tricky here..!

Lucinda so sorry about the migraines, hope it eases up and you get back to your normal cheery self - despite listening to us moan!

Just caught up on the events over the past two days. Spannermary, I really do agree with theonlyhb you definitely need some more time off, the stress of travelling, and just worrying while feeling unwell isn't helping matters. A phased return is difficult enough if you're actually well!

On the anxiety side of things, I think HG is definitely connected, your stress levels are raised and the way you feel is so unpredictable from one day to the next. Compounded with work guilt...

Clandy I do hope the Cyclizine helps - I remember it took a couple of days to take effect.

Belladons, Belindrose, SMK84, horsey Everyone hope you are all doing ok..