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Hyperemesis Support

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LucindaE · 04/10/2011 12:53

We need a new thread already.

I hope this thread will give support to those suffering from the Horrors of
Hyperemesis, and that it will help to talk to other sufferers and those who have survived it.

There is no such thing as tmi here - the nature of the illness means that you have to be graphic when discussing it - and feel free to moan all you wish. You have reason to!

I want to thank FluffyWhiteKittens MOH Grumblin LA Caramel NitNat Coconuts Luce Grandma TheOnly and current sufferers MaryLou PearlFeekerry and many others who have been invaluable on the former threads. My apologies to anyone I've rudely overlooked, I daren't keep gabbling too long, or I might put off current sufferers.

Remember, when you are at your worst, the words from the Eastern story: - 'This Too Shall Pass.' It will...

Below is some brilliant information from MOH's website www.pregnancysicknesssos.co.uk. However, if you don't feel up to reading it now, feel free to skip it for now and have a good moan.

Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) is a severe form of pregnancy sickness which affects between 1 and 3% of pregnant women. Historically, it was mistakenly thought to be a psychosomatic illness and women were treated as though they had a psychotic disorder. This view has been comprehensively disproven by numerous research papers in recent decades, and it is now known to be an illness of organic origin, although its causes have yet to be fully understood. There is a persistent common belief that no drugs should be given to women in the first trimester of pregnancy. This is not true. There are a number of effective anti-emetic (anti sickness) drugs which can safely be taken in early pregnancy. Unfortunately, the erroneous views that HG is a psychosomatic conditions and that no drugs are safe in the first trimester still persists in many places, shockingly, even amongst GPs and midwives. Sadly, many women still come across unsympathetic health professionals who are ignorant of current treatment methods.

How do I know if I have HG?
If you are suffering from persistent nausea and/or vomiting which is preventing you from eating and/or drinking then you may be suffering from HG. With ordinary nausea and vomiting of pregnancy (NVP), the sickness does not interfere with your ability to eat and drink enough, you should not be losing weight and you should be able to continue to care for yourself and your family although you may not be feeling too great. With HG, sufferers often need help caring for themselves, never mind look after their family. The illness can be completely debilitating for weeks or even months. If you're not sure, the HER foundation website who have a fact sheet to help you determine whether or not you are suffering from HG
www.helpher.org/mothers/hyperemesis-or-morning-sickness/index.php

Diagnosis is important as you will inevitably become dehydrated and you will need to be admitted to hospital for IV rehydration. Starvation is another risk. When your body burns fat for energy, it produces chemicals called ketones which can be detected in your urine. You can monitor your levels of starvation using ketosticks, available from pharmacies. You pee on the stick and it monitors your levels of ketones. If levels are high, you should tell your doctor or midwife. If you are worried about dehydration and ketone levels and you can't see your doctor or midwife, you can go to A&E.

Facts and Figures and FAQs

HG is worse in the first trimester for the majority of sufferers, though a significant proportion (10 ? 20%) suffer for the entire duration of the pregnancy. If you have close relatives (mothers, sisters) who have had HG, you are also at significantly higher risk of being a sufferer yourself. HG is the most common cause of hospitalisation of pregnant women in the first trimester.

Is it worse carrying a boy or a girl?
There is conflicting evidence as to whether having a boy or a girl makes HG worse, some studies say boys, some say girls.

Is it worse with twins?
Yes there is evidence that carrying more than one baby makes HG worse.

Will my baby be ok?
Babies born to HG mothers are usually absolutely fine. If you lose some weight during the first trimester the risks for the baby are low as it does not need much nutrition at this time and your body should have enough stores from before your pregnancy. However, if you continue to to lose weight due to lack of treatment or failed treatment, then there is an increased risk of low birth weight or pre-term birth. Studies show that this is a risk for women who are severely ill, are dehydrated for long periods and lose more than 10% of their body weight.

There is also growing evidence of long term health effects in some children born to mothers who suffer malnutrition in pregnancy. In some cases this is not evident until adulthood with increased risk of chronic conditions such as diabetes and hypertension.
For more information see forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=18 and www.helpher.org/hyperemesis-gravidarum/complications/fetal-programming.php

I've heard that being sick is a sign of a healthy pregnancy, is this the case with HG?
You will often be told that morning sickness is a good sign and you should be happy that you're feeling sick. This is generally the case with normal NVP, however, it is not the case with untreated HG. There is actually a higher risk of pre-term birth and low birth weight. However, continuing to feel sick may be a sign that the pregnancy is still progressing. Some women with HG who miscarried reported that the first sign was that they suddenly stopped feeling sick.

What are the treatments?
Initially you will be advised to use non-pharmacoligical strategies which are similar to the general advice given to any pregnant women suffering from nausea. These include eating little and often, eating protein-rich, low-fat meals, avoiding triggers of nausea such as strong smells and getting enough rest. You can try ginger, seabands (accupressure wristbands used for travel sickness) and extra doses of vitamin B6. Avoid getting out of bed in the morning without something in your stomach such as a tea biscuit or cracker. Some women find that these give relief in the initial stages of HG but they become ineffective once the illness is in full swing.

The next line of treatment is prescribed antiemetics such as phenergan, cyclizine, stemetil and ondansetron. For many women these work well and control the nausea and vomiting enough for them to eat and drink normally and regain some of their lost weight. Many can even return to normal life. You may find that one antiemetic on its own is not effective and you may need to try different combinations but you can discuss this with your doctor. Even with antiemetics, you will probably still need to use coping strategies such as getting extra rest, eating small frequent meals and avoiding triggers when the HG is at its peak. If you are dehydrated, you may be admitted to hospital for IV fluids. Minerals and vitamins can be added to the drip to replace any you may have lost, as well as antiemetics.

Unfortunately, antiemetics don't work for everyone. If they are ineffective, you should be referred to an obstetrician (if you haven't been already) for the next line of treatment, which will probably be steroids. These carry a small risk of cleft palate, but this will be discussed with your doctor. In a small number of cases even this is not effective and drastic treatments such as feeding with a tube directly into the stomach may have to be considered.

My GP is unsympathetic and refuses to prescribe me drugs - what should I do?
Unfortunately this experience is all too common. In this case you should see another GP if possible. You should also ask for a referral to an obstetrician. If you remain untreated and become dehydrated, you can have yourself admitted to A&E for IV fluids and ask to be seen by an obstetrician.

Do alternative remedies work?

Some women are greatly helped by alternative medicine, particularly Homepathy and Acupunture. Some women can claim to have had the illness 'stopped in its tracks' by Acupunture, but success varies between individual patients and it tends to be expensive. These remedies are worth a try if you can afford it but have a back up plan incase it doesn't work.

How long will this last for?
For most women, HG peaks in the first trimester and tails off or disappears completely later in the pregnancy. The usual advice for morning sickness is that it will improve after 12 weeks. The majority of HG sufferers find that it takes longer than this. Unfortunately, some women suffer severely for the entire pregnancy. Others find that it improves, but they suffer from nausea and occasional vomiting until birth. Relapse is quite common especially if you have tried to return to your normal busy life. There is a great temptation to make up for lost time and become very active once you start to feel better, but this very often leads to the nausea returning. You should be very careful about resuming work and normal household activities even if you feel as though you're up to it. Be careful too about stopping your medication, do it very gradually and resume at the first sign of the condition returning. You may have to continue to take it for the entire pregnancy to prevent a relapse.
All I can drink is coke, I'm worried that I'm not eating a healthy diet.

Through pregnancy, we are bombarded with advice about what to eat and what not to eat. Women with HG often find that the list of food and drinks that they can keep down is very small and not at all from the healthy options. For some reason, women with Hyperemesis ofen find sweet and salty foods ie, sweet drinks like coke, and crisps, are more likely to stay down than healthy foods. Their peculiar diet can lead to disapproving comments and the incorrect assumption that this is how they normally eat.
Various women find different drinks acceptable. Coke (often left to go flat) Lucozade, lemonade, milkshakes and IronBru, Dr Pepper, orange squash, apple juice, lime juice, ice cubes made of flat coke or just tapwater, ice lollies and sips of tepid water can help in keeping rehydrated. 

When the illness is at its worst during the early hormonal surges - typically between eight and ten weeks- then it is difficult to retain any liquids and you may need to be hospitalised for rehydration at about this time. 

When solids do become bearable,jelly, tinned fruit, ice lollies, ice cream, crisps, fish fingers, potato cakes, crumpets, soda bread and similar potato based or salty foods have often been found to be acceptable.

The important thing to remember at this time is that it doesn't matter what you eat or drink, the crucial thing is that you eat or drink something. Don't forego something because you are worried that it's bad for you. In a normal diet, too much salt and sugar is bad for you, but when you consume nothing else, this may be your only source of calories, fluid and salt for the day. Instead of berating yourself for your unhealthy diet, congratulate yourself that you have kept something down because your body needs it. If you are able to take vitamin tablets or syrups, then do so but most women find that large multivitamin tablets make the nausea worse. You may be able to get vitamins that dissolve under your tongue which you may be able to tolerate. If and when you begin to feel better, you can start to re-introduce more healthy food.

Will it go away when I give birth?
The good news is that for the vast majority of sufferers the physical symptoms of HG disappear completely as soon as the baby is born. You should be aware though that it is not unknown for the nausea to persist after birth especially if you have been severely ill. If this occurs, speak to your doctor. For women who suffered persistent, long term nausea and vomiting, it may take some time to restore energy levels and nutritional reserves. Moreover, while the physical symptoms may leave, the trauma of HG can leave an emotional legacy for many women, especially when combined with the rigours of caring for a baby. If you have any concerns, speak to your doctor or midwife. Don't feel that you should just be able to pick yourself up and get on with things, if you're having problems you are entitled to seek support.

Will I get it in my next pregnancy and will it be the same?
Unfortunately, having HG in one pregnancy puts you at a high risk of suffering in subsequent pregnancies although it is possible to escape it. Some women find that the HG gets better in subsequent pregnancies, whereas others find it stays the same or gets worse. There is really no way of knowing how your pregnancies will relate to each other.

Can I do anything to prepare for HG incase I get it again in my next pregnancy?
The HER website has a page of advice on preparing for your next pregnancy. forums.helpher.org/viewtopic.php?t=17. If you had medication which worked for you in your previous pregnancy, make sure that you have it ready to take as soon as you feel ill. Studies show that the quicker you get on top of the sickness, the better the medication works. Because HG can start within days of missing your period, see your GP as soon as you know you're pregnant.

Useful sources of information
The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists in the UK have no guidelines on the treatment and management of HG. However, the American College of Obs/Gynae (ACOG) and the Society of Obs/Gynae of Canada (SOGC) have published guidelines which can be found at the following sites

www.sogc.org/guidelines/public/120E-CPG-October2002.pdf 

www.guideline.gov/content.aspx?id=10939

Pregnancy Sickness Support is a UK based organisation run by GPs and midwives with direct experience of HG. They have a helpline which you can call for advice ? if nobody answers you leave a message and a midwife will call you back. They will be able to answer your questions about treatments and they keep a note of doctors around the country who are known to be sympathetic to HG sufferers and are willing to treat it with medication. Their website is at www.pregnancy sicknesssupport.org.uk

The Hyperemesis Education and Research Foundation (HER) is a US based foundation which was formed by HG survivors and has a mission to research the causes of HG and provide information and support for other sufferers. They have links to the latest scientific research and are actively involved in funding research, although you usually have to live in the USA to take part. There are loads of threads on every topic related to HG from women who have been through it, including very useful information about which treatment regimes worked. Their website is at www.hyperemesis.org.
Dealing with well meaning but unhelpful advice

Women with HG are often told by friends and family that it's just morning sickness, a normal part of pregnancy and you just have to put up with it. Many HG sufferers report extreme frustration at being advised to try ginger, dry crackers or eat little and often. Most of them have tried every remedy they can think of to no avail. Because most women are familiar with NVP, there is often an attitude of, well I had morning sickness and I just got on with it. HG sufferers are often left with the feeling that they are whingers and malingerers and that if only they could adopt a positive attitude then they would be fine. This can lead to further depression in what is already a depressive condition. In order to deal with this, it is important that the HG sufferer has some supportive friends or family who can firmly but politely fend off these comments. The sufferer will often have no energy to deal with it herself. If possible explain to the person giving the advice that you are not suffering from morning sickness, you are suffering from a condition called hyperemesis gravidarum.

I have never known anyone with HG. Where can I talk to women who understand how I feel?
There is a support thread on the talk boards here (ask MT to add link) which is run by sufferers and ex-sufferers. There are discussions of practical issues such as tips for coping and medication but the real value of this forum is that you get sympathy and understanding from people who know exactly what you're going through. If you just want to moan or let off steam, you are free to do so and nobody will hold it against you. Comments are also welcome from relatives, partners, friends and carers of HG sufferers. The HER website also has talk boards at forums.helpher.org/. There is also a UK based yahoo group called Bloomingawful at health.groups.yahoo.com/group/bloomingawful/

Finally from me, here's a list of due dates. Do add yourself when you feel up to it.

ElliottsMummy: EDD 25/9/11
Mancbird: EDD 08/10/11
AgBag: EDD 18/10/11
HeftyMutha: EDD 28/10/11
Littlewizz: EDD 6/11/11
CakeForBreakfast: EDD 07/11/11
Marylou: EDD 9/11/11
MotherofPearl: EDD 17/11/11
Eggy: EDD 30/11/11
LadyOTCM: 01/12/11
Diddygirl: EDD 19/12/11
Bensgirl: EDD
Alias: EDD ??/12?11
m1nn1e: EDD ??/01/12
Angel: 16/01/12
Seapie: 30/01/12
Louby86: EDD 17/02/12
MummyMccar: 23/02/12
Feekerry 19/03/2012
Magnum White 26/03/2012
Helibee 25/04/2012
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horseynewmum · 12/11/2011 20:06

Marylou congrats glad you had a easy birth. How you feeling expect being tired? Bet it makes having HG worth it?
Your right we need a celebrity to get it so people understand it more.

marylou242 · 13/11/2011 01:22

Yes it's all worth it and that is what you have to focus on at the worst times. This pregnancy wasn't as bad as my first, but even so, when the midwife passed her to me, I'm afraid my first thought was thank goodness I've not got to go through pregnancy and HG again...

LucindaE · 13/11/2011 13:57

MaryLou Oh, wonderful, GrinGrinWine[thankyou] Holly has arrived!
You deserved an easy birth, I am so glad that you had one despite an induction, it's great you managed on gas and tens with an induction, well done!
It is splendid the way you coped,too, when Holly decided to come along and take the decision out of your hands. Thanks so much for coming on to encourage people. Welcome to the Pink Castle, I'll hold the baby while you are ushered to the place of honour to feast (but I won't go into any details, it will make people feel worse!).
Fleurleise I do so hope you get Ondanestron, it is so awful what you describe, lying down and fighting to keep food down (and failing). Hugs to you and all suffering at the moment. You will be coming on to post how worthwhile it is but it seems a long way away to you now.
Lucinda
xx

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MotherofPearl · 13/11/2011 19:23

Congratulations Marylou, that's brilliant news! Hope you are delighting in the luxuries of the Pink Castle with Holly! I can only imagine the relief that it's over.
I am still waiting, not so patiently, for the end.
Sorry I've not been on much these last few days - DD off nursery with a cold at the end of last week, and of course she passed it on to me, so I've been feeling extra rubbish, lying in bed and generally feeling sorry for myself!
Welcome to Fleurleise - hope you find the right meds for you, and soon. I took cyclizine for most of this PG but it never put a total stop to the voms, and certainly didn't make much of a dent in the nausea. I think I was so relieved that it enabled me to eat a bit, and reduced me down from 7 or 8 voms a day that I just put up with the 1-2 voms a day for most of being PG. But in retrospect, and being better informed now, I wish I'd pushed for ondanestron. Good luck.
Waves to anyone rudely ignored! :)

theonlyhb2 · 13/11/2011 20:20

congrats marylou, have a cushion, a large slice of cake and give Holly to Mother Hen to fuss while you have a nap (and then some more cake).

had horrible HG flashback the other morning when I woke up and threw up. I think it was too warm in our room, normally have window open, but was rather worried about being pregnant again! Thankfully I am not! Isn't it funny how sex used to be something fun, now its something that can make a baby (and make me really sick) and the seriousness of it kills the mood!

Caramello, Harper is doing great (i shall ignore the screams from upstairs as she cant decide if she is hungry or wants a bath or wants to sleep, Daddy is dealing with it nicely :)) how are you getting on now?

hi to fleurlise, this place will help keep you sane! don't know what I would of done without it.

Cosmogirl · 13/11/2011 20:21

Evening ladies,

Fleur - welcome but so sorry to hear you are suffering. Hope you can get your Dr to see sense with regards ondansetron. It is such a shock when it's your first pregnancy to have HG. Big hugs and back rubs.

Marylou - congrats on the arrival of Holly! Enjoy your new lease of life back in the pink castle.

On CD9 so all systems are go this week with regards to trying. Trying to stay relaxed and see how first month goes. It's hard not to get obsessed but if it takes a while, at least it is another month I don't have to face possible threat of HG!!

Waves to everyone else and hope you are all coping as well as can be expected x

LucindaE · 14/11/2011 12:35

Mother of Pearl Poor you, a cold as well. I will have to prepare a place in the Pink Castle, you have been so stoic and encouraging to others...Smile. With the dismal situation of one or two pukes a day, you will be so glad to stagger over the drawbridge Shock. Cyber hugs.
TheOnly Lovely tohear from you (and Harper). Yes, Mother Hen will be delighted to hold Holly while you bring out some dainties for MaryLou.
Magnum Was it your LO who has given up her mid afternoon nap? Poor you, That must be awful with Hyperemesis, it was enough of a shock to me when my terror gave it up at two when I was in full health (if sleep deprived).
Cosmo All good luck! Exciting...
I hope nobody is feeling too drained today. Drained is literally true, oh dear...
Lucinda
xx

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louby86 · 14/11/2011 13:17

Hello everyone!

Still don't have proper computer access now I'm not at work so I'm going to be a but rubbish with personals until Santa sorts me out (fingers crossed)...

Congrats marylou

Yes, theonly I would definitely use that word to describe my boss!

So sorry I'm not the only one having to deal with horrible bosses and a lack of understanding in general at work, it really doesn't help. Also so sorry for those of you who are so poorly at the minute, it doesn't feel like it at the time but hopefully you'll be able to look back on it and realise that time has actually gone quite fast and it'll all be worth it when you reach the pink castle!

Waving to the wonderful mother hen Lucinda and everyone else! Xxx

smk84 · 14/11/2011 15:16

Hi all, hope things not too bad fo you today.
MOH thank you for the meds info.
Horsey how are you today?
Fleur have you had any luck with your meds?
Marylou congratulations ! I love the name Holly !
Louby sorry to hear you are having work trouble too.
Lucinda thank you for thinking of me in your posts. How are you?
Lots of love to everyone xx

horseynewmum · 14/11/2011 19:43

Hi how is everyone today? Didnt have good day yesterday struggled to lift my head of pillow. Had my 12 wk scan today. Baby doing really well. Least someone is out of this.

theonlyhb2 · 14/11/2011 20:48

well done for making it to the scan and back horsey its no mean feat spesh with travelling and hospitals are always hot. Pretty crazy to think yr body is giving up on you get it is still growing this amazing thing. from nothing! and baby will be perfect even though you will be fucked at the end of it. pretty much a miracle :)

feekerry · 14/11/2011 21:07

thats exactly what thought at my 12 week scan horsey glad SOMEONE is thriving!!! (whilst being sick and scanned at same time)
fleur any luck with ondansatron? tis a life saver- trust me!
currently enjoying getting internal fanjo kicks this week. cant beleive how strong they are getting. had an embarrasing 'incident' the other day at work... had a random hg throwing up moment whilst really needing a wee.... well... you can guess the rest.....!!!

Clandy · 14/11/2011 21:13

Hello ladies. I started a post about feeling very sick and have kindly been directed to you ladies for a little support. this is dc2 and with dd I was sick up to 16 weeks with this pg I am currently 7 weeks and feeling much worse. Have been very sick over the weekend and is getting more frequent with less desire/ability to eat. Have kept down very little for a good few days and feel like I could do with some virtual hand holding if you'll have me Smile

I have been reading your posts for advice for a few days but didn't feel that I was as bad as many of you ladies seem to be so felt a bit of a fraud posting!

Glad to hear news of good scans and fingers crossed you are not all having too bad days!!

fluffywhitekittens · 14/11/2011 21:18

Runs in quickly, I between trying to sort out an eBay issue and buy craft stuff online for toddler group, waves, runs away again but promise to come back and read properly later...

feekerry · 14/11/2011 21:21

hi clandy

please go see a doctor. my HG kicked in about 6/7 weeks. up until then i felt okay, just mildly sick then it kicked in over a couple of days. at least if you go now the doctors know how you feel. please dont leave it till later like i did. i physically couldn't even make it to the doctors in the end... dont leave it that long. the earlier you get on top of it the better!
xx

Clandy · 14/11/2011 21:25

Thanks feekerry I was thinking of making an appointment but didnt really know if I should or if i was just being a wimp. I have had my booking in appointment with the midwife so should I see her or go to the doctor? X

feekerry · 14/11/2011 21:32

go to the doctor as midwife cant prescribe meds. if it turns out to be bad morning sickness then so be it, no harm done but if it turns into full blown HG you'll need all the help you can get. my docs have been amazing all the way through. at least go get your keytones tested as that will give them a good understanding of how bad it is....

x

LucindaE · 15/11/2011 11:08

Clandy Welcome, and I second what Fekerry says. If the sickness is becoming very bad, it is the best thing to see a doctor as soon as you can. Are you managing to retain enough liquids? That is so important and if you think not, wh ile waiting for y our appointment, try and get hold of some kesosticks from a chemists to test your urine. How are things like jelly, flat coke, nibbles of crisps, ice lollies? Everyone has their own drink they find bearable, with me it was IronBru, a lot ofpeople on here found that Envy Ugh, unfortunately.
Fekerry How are things?
Fluffy Waves Smile.
Lucinda
xx

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fleurelise · 15/11/2011 13:54

hi everyone, Thanks for all the advice Cosmo, MotherofPearl,LucindaE,Smk84, Feekerry - I did take it!

Congratulations MaryLou the pink castle is sounding better and better every day :)

Congrats Horsey on a lovely 12 week scan - hoping to have mine soon, won't feel quite relaxed till I see it I think.

Welcome Clandy, you'll be glad you joined - we are going through the same thing and a bit of virtual support is exactly what we all need.

Me - I went to the Doc's yesterday morning and was prescribed the Ordansetron. I was so weak and dehydrated - not in a good way at all. Today I is a big improvement - so grateful to you all for pushing me to go down that route. Hopefully this baby will finally start to get some nutrients and I can stop losing the pounds. Still don't have much of an appetite though, but you can't win 'em all!

How's everyone else going today?

horseynewmum · 15/11/2011 14:22

Clandy Welcome, sorry your going through it too. Never feel a fraud on this page. We all sufferers in our ways but we are all here for you. My HG kicked in at 7 weeks felt fine before. Was thinking how everything would be the same for me. Oh what a kick in the teeth HG has given me. Never be afraid to say what you feel as someone on here knows what you mean. Let us know how you get on doctor.

fleurelise I had one at 9 weeks so it was amazing to see he how it has grown. Glad you got your meds sorted and you start to feel better. I've got to go back and get some more cyclezine as dont think i'll live without it.

theonly love your wording it is true. nearly 1 half stones lost since start of pregnancy yet I have a baby growing in me. its 6.5cm so dont know if good or not. It killed me getting there and back was feeling quite sick last night and have slept for 14hrs solid last night. having another rough day. Always do after I've had to get in car. Just wondering when it all end.......................

Hi to everyone else and how are they today?

fleurelise · 15/11/2011 14:37

Also... Belated Congrats to Theonly on baby Harper, know I'm a bit late but you are where we all want to be. I have visions of pink fluffiness at your end!

Horsey the car drives are the worst aren't they? I've managed to avoid it due to DH doing all the shopping etc.

take it easy today and feel better x

horseynewmum · 15/11/2011 15:01

fleurelise i dont drive atm. not driven for 8 wks now due to cyclezine making me drowsy but just moving makes me feel so rough.

Clandy · 15/11/2011 21:56

Aww thank you for the kind welcomes! Had an ok day today on the sickness side think weetabix seems to settle my stomach for a while so have eaten 3 meals of it so far! Hope everyone is feeling ok today

Magnumwhite · 16/11/2011 14:11

Hi all and welcome to all those in the earliest stages of pregnancy. sorry you have to be here but its a great place for support.
so glad some GPs seem to be up for prescribing meds that help!

Things have been really tough here. Ds still not sleeping well. Have stripped his afternoon nap back to 45mins so that he's ready for bed at 7 as I need to be in bed pretty soon after! This has helped getting him off to sleep but he's still waking in the night. Things are slowly improving but goodness he's only 21months! 2 weeks since MMR but it was also the week the clocks changed and when we were away for funeral so I just have no idea what's going on.

....and to top it we both had a vomiting bug on Monday/yesterday and it seems I have a UTI too. My body just is so rubbish at being pregnant!

seapie · 16/11/2011 14:47

Anyone got any advice for coming off ondansetron? Now I've been signed off sick I'd like to try and minimise the drugs I am taking (I'm 29 weeks). I've managed to cut it down from 2 to one tablet a day, but scared of a relapse if I cut it out completely. I still feel sick quite a lot, but this has definately improved since I gave up work and spend a lot more time resting.

Also, has anyone else been signed off sick for long periods of time? I know that I could start my maternity leave now, but can't afford to. Is it right that your employer can't legally start it until you are 36 weeks?