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November/December Babies - new thread

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susanmt · 02/10/2003 10:28

To make it easier for all of us!!!

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Grommit · 25/11/2003 19:20

Thought I was going into labour last night but think (hope!) it was just strong Braxton Hicks. Has anyone else experienced an increase in these - not painful just the whole stomach going hard - having these every hour or so....

pupuce · 25/11/2003 21:12

Grommit what happens if you go into labour - sorry I can't remember why you're having a section.

monkey · 26/11/2003 07:49

Hi all, been out of action a while - hope you're coping ok - the last few days aren't always much fun.
Thinking of you & sending positive thoughts.
Where (ie under which topic) is the thread supposed to be? I'll start it but too thick to think about where

Grommit · 26/11/2003 09:06

Pupuce - I have a low placenta so if I do naturally go into labour I will have an emergency c-sec. Just gotta hang in there until tomorrow am!!!!
WWW - the race is on

WideWebWitch · 26/11/2003 09:34

Monkey, I think the others are all under parenting, i.e. "Those June/July babies" is I think. But I don't suppose it matters much where, as long as the title refers to Nov/Dec babies. All 4 of them so far, or whatever it is. I hope you're recovering well. Grommit, beginning to think you'll beat me and I'll be pregnant for ever. Except I know that's not likely

pupuce · 26/11/2003 09:59

Grommit.... yes indeed that is not a situation of your making! Hope it goes well

motherinferior · 26/11/2003 10:44

You probably won't, www. Probably

suedonim · 26/11/2003 14:16

Crumbs, Elliot, the first line of your post almost gave me a heart attack, with mention of 'only four babies'. I thought you meant you were having sextuplets or something!

Good luck everyone, hope it goes well. Btw, has Susanmt had her baby yet?

elliott · 26/11/2003 14:40

Good luck for tomorrow grommit, hope you escape hospital soon and can tell us all about your new arrival!
www, I'm sure you will get there first! Though I'm back to having plenty of BH (some painful) so it'll probably all kick off on Friday.....
I think susanmt is due a few days after me? (the list is at the bottom of this thread)

sprout · 26/11/2003 19:16

Good luck for tomorrow, Grommit.
And good luck for as-soon-as-possible, www!

WideWebWitch · 26/11/2003 19:17

Yes, Grommit, I'll be thinking of you tomorrow and looking forward to the announcement.

tinyfeet · 26/11/2003 19:27

Good luck Grommit! Sorry you're still around, www, but hoping it'll be soon for you too.

chanelno5 · 27/11/2003 10:06

Good luck everyone, thinking of you all. Hope it all goes well tomorrow Grommit.

www - it really will happen soon despite how it seems now! Would you be willing to let your midwife do a stretch and sweep? It's not pleasant but can get things moving.

monkey · 27/11/2003 10:51

is it today, grommit? Good luck, thinking of you!

You too, www, seems everybody's rooting for you. Like you said tho' - you're now so keen to get on with it, you stop worrying about it, that's how I was too. It'll be great. At least you're getting your money's worth out of that pool!

WideWebWitch · 27/11/2003 11:34

Thanks! Chanelno5, and anyone else, what do you reckon about a sweep? I was offered one on Tuesday but declined on the basis that I'd rather have sex and that if she's not ready to be born, she's not ready. Does it make labour harder and faster as any other form of induction would? If so I sort of don't want to intervene and there's no pressure until next Tues. Even then apparently they'll only scan me at the hospital and then discuss the best course of action - they're not saying they'll insist on induction even then. My pool has been here for 4 weeks on Friday so I think if I go over that I have to pay another £90 for a weeks hire, grrrr! I was a bit optimistic hiring it from 37 weeks wasn't I? We had lots of sex yesterday so I'm hopeful that might do something tonight or later...watch this space! I might try to get an acupuncture appointment for later today but any other suggestions welcome. Not prepared to try Castor Oil (scared of poo in the pool) or curry but have been eating pineapple.

Rhubarb, how are you? If I'm coming up to 41 weeks (tomorrow) you must be 38 weeks? Well done on getting here, nearly there now. Grommit, I thought of you in the shower just now and wondered if your baby was here yet. Elliot, you still hanging on in there before the party?!

kayleigh · 27/11/2003 11:58

well www, looks like Grommit won. She asked me to post a birth announcement which I have done on the other thread. I hope she will be back here soon to let you have all the gory details.
Good luck to the rest of you ladies in waiting
XX

Ruth21 · 28/11/2003 06:25

Happy birthday Elliott's ds! Have a good party

Newt · 29/11/2003 07:33

Hi All
New to Mumsnet, (first posting) but I have been lurking and loving the site. I'm due 31 Dec. First time mum, nervous and excited. I'm hoping for a water birth in hospital.

pupuce · 29/11/2003 08:01

Welcome Newt !
WWW - did you have that sweep?

WideWebWitch · 29/11/2003 10:39

Welcome Newt. Pupuce, no, we've been having lots of sex instead but I'm STILL HERE, aaggghh! Woke up in the middle of the night last night convinced it would happen (no good reason, just woke up) but no. Might go and get some homeopathic stuff today.

elliott · 29/11/2003 11:17

Welcome newt!
We had a lovely day with ds, thanks Ruth21. Openign presents in the mornign then toddler mayhem at home in the afternoon!
Now I can get on with trying to hurry the baby along a bit - really really want it to happen this week some time but trying to be realistic/patient.
www - our local hospital policy is to wait 14 days post dates before induction - its a big teaching hospital and on the whole I think its policies/treatment guidelines are quite sensible, so I have no qualms about taking this as the deadline. I won't argue to go later than this because I am obviously completely certain about dates and also ds was a few days early, so I would be concerned that something was up. A lot of hospitals seem a bit keen to rush for induction by day 10 or 11 past the edd which doesn't allow a lot of leeway around dates imo.

Anyway hopefully the sex will do the trick for you and we will have news soon! (I have dh warned, unfortunately he is not very well at the moment but surely duty calls....)

pupuce · 29/11/2003 13:48

Elliott - you are quite right but for those who read this thread (and at the risk of repeating myself) - you do NOT have to go for the induction.... I have found it quite "interesting" when i trained in the labour ward and MW were discussing which women was going to be induced first.... believe me they are not necessarily concerned about YOU and YOUR baby when they make this decision
There are other factors....

WideWebWitch · 29/11/2003 14:06

Pupuce, I'm so surprised you're not a fan of induction (JOKE!) Don't worry, I will be resisting unless there's a very good reason. If you're here atm, can you recommend anything homeopathic? Elliott, I'm glad your party went well.

pupuce · 29/11/2003 14:25

Well a friend homeopath wrote this for a publication I am an editor to:

In order to work most effectively, homeopathic remedies are best prescribed specifically on an individual basis; I do not, therefore, recommend any kind of blanket remedy to give the start of labour a ?helping hand?. I prefer to assess the emotional state of my client through gentle discussion about the impending birth and the baby to be born, and prescribe on this basis. Sometimes it is enough that a woman voices her fears to allow the initiation of her labour; perhaps she secretly hopes for a girl baby or has chosen only boy?s names, by acknowledging her deeper apprehensions and through reassuring her baby of her unconditional love, she gives them both permission to commence labour.

The wide range of emotions and scenarios that can arise once a pregnancy goes past the EDD inevitably lends for a wide range homeopathic remedies. Homeopathy can be useful if the woman is already having occasional contractions that stop and start over a period of a few days. For example, if labour is late if the main symptom is fear, particularly fear of death, , Aconite will usually help the emotional state; Gelsemium might be more appropriate where the labour is slow to establish, almost as if the woman is holding back the process with her emotional state of anxiety about how she will manage. In the case of a hesitant labour where the contractions are ineffective and the woman is showing signs of nervous exhaustion, Caulophyllum can be useful ? it works on the lower uterine muscle and helps the cervix to dilate. Cimicifuga might be the remedy of choice however, where there is a sense of foreboding and fragmented thought, or a history of painful/difficult past obstetric experiences, alongside weak, irregular contractions. Some women feel inhibited by lack of privacy and are unable to get on with the work of labour while strangers are present or likely to enter the room ? in this case a dose of Natrum Mur can help.

monkey · 29/11/2003 14:32

thinking of you, www. better warn dp to brace himself - becasue with all that sex, he's really gonna get a shock when he suddenly goes from feast to famine once baby comes I'm getting lots of sorry-for-himself moans (like I care). Hope you pop soon.