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Lets talk about sex........

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davidtennantsmistress · 30/03/2011 10:03

Is there any good positions to try/do? am 19+1 & last 2 days have found that under the 'bump' it gets uncomfortable & very hard during the event when either is on top, bit like a stitch.

Is this braxton hicks? we both still enjoy things so would like to know any top tips for making it comfortable for me. :) Blush

is it also usual for the bubs to go quiet after as well - althou I don't have lots of movements to start with.

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Loopymumsy · 30/03/2011 10:15

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Renaissance227 · 30/03/2011 10:19

Doggy is always a good one! Wink

JessicaDrew · 30/03/2011 11:48

from behind but both lieing on side
quite good once you get postion rightGrin

G1nger · 30/03/2011 11:54

I don't mind giving up runny eggs, wine, smelly cheese, and burgers that are pink in the middle... But I could do without having to start 'spooning'! ;)

BrassicaBabe · 30/03/2011 11:55

You lying on the bed, legs over the side....him kneeling on the floor?

Only works if DH and bed are the right height! Grin

LeroyJethroGibbs · 30/03/2011 11:55

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JessicaDrew · 30/03/2011 12:13

mmmmmmm bum stroking don't you just love itGrin
and then he can bring you to 0 with his fingers
who need penetrationShock

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davidtennantsmistress · 30/03/2011 13:07

:o Leroy, i'm in the office with my MD, and a supplier and OMG i'm struggling not to LMAO out loud as it would be embaressing to explain bum stroking ! hahaha.

will try him on his knees, althou I like the me on top one. (typical)

tbh both of us are atill very much up for action so don't want it to be a distant memory but thank's for the hints. :)

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buttonmoon78 · 30/03/2011 13:10

The stitch could well be BH - a normal response to orgasm. Baby is prob quiet - trying to keep out of the way Wink

Doggy style works well here, never really mastered spooning. Don't want to otherwise every time he snuggled up behind me he'd think he was in for some!

Though with SPD on it's way, sex will soon be a thing of the past!

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davidtennantsmistress · 30/03/2011 13:13

see we do try spooning but it doesn't do much for me thou. :(

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buttonmoon78 · 30/03/2011 13:15

Exactly. It's not enough, is it? I like things to be a bit less gentle and a bit more noticable. I hate the idea of sleepy sex TBH. Makes me feel a bit weird!

JessicaDrew · 30/03/2011 13:16

brassicababe your suggestion only conjours up tongue action by himSmile
or am i missing somethingConfused

crystalglasses · 30/03/2011 13:16

My first pregnancy was such a long time coming that I didn't want to do anything (including sex) that I thought might jeopardise it.

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buttonmoon78 · 30/03/2011 17:24

Shock indeed at twice a day!

Mind you, we've been married for nearly 15 years (and had at least one small child for most of that time) so I like to remind DH that quite frankly, the three or four times a week we average is more than most men can look forward to! A quick conversation with some of our friends seems to wake him up nicely. It's often a high days and holidays thing with them! Grin

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BrassicaBabe · 30/03/2011 18:15

Jessica Hmm, no tongues involved for this one. Let me try explaining again..... Grin

So, the lady lays on her back with legs dangling off the edge of the bed, with her bum right at the edge of the bed....

He kneels upright on the floor (give him a pillow for his knees if it helps) against the side of the bed then his bits and your bits are lined up and he can [jees, I can't think of the right word] penetrate from there. You can leave legs dangling off the bed, or wrap his waist, or stick them over his shoulder. He's hands are also free! Grin

Our bed is quite low to the floor though Hmm

Spooning is a bit too gentle for my liking.

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davidtennantsmistress · 30/03/2011 18:21

brassica - might have to try that one as well. althou he's currently dying of 'man flu' god help us all. :o

we're at the mo prob 4-5 times a week, ah I miss the every day any time people we once where :o

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crystalglasses · 31/03/2011 20:23

Well, davidtennantsmistress, once you have your dc you certainly won't have the time, energy or inclination to be 'everyday, any time people' for a very long time. Just saying.

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davidtennantsmistress · 31/03/2011 20:27

I know we have 2 DC's between us so have to plan it well anyhow lol.

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crystalglasses · 31/03/2011 20:31

God, what do you do with your 2 dcs when all this activity is going on?

cowboylover · 31/03/2011 22:45

brassica: Proud to say I 'know' you! I love that one Grin

My DH is really tall as well so we do the same with me sitting on the worktop in the kitchen or the tumble dryer. Or get the birth ball out of the box early Wink

MrsVidic · 01/04/2011 06:51

Get a birthing ball lie over it and get him to do you from behind, this really supports the bump and if you're over due gets semen right on your cervix.

glitternanny · 01/04/2011 07:00

What's sex....?? ;)

marriednotdead · 01/04/2011 08:33

How about him on his side, you on your back with your hips lifted slightly and your legs draped over his hips? Not as much effort as it sounds, and a little less impersonal than spoons if you're bothered about that Grin