Lets talk about sex........

[davidtennantsmistress]

Is there any good positions to try/do? am 19+1 & last 2 days have found that under the 'bump' it gets uncomfortable & very hard during the event when either is on top, bit like a stitch.

Is this braxton hicks? we both still enjoy things so would like to know any top tips for making it comfortable for me. :)

is it also usual for the bubs to go quiet after as well - althou I don't have lots of movements to start with.

You lie on your back, legs up and apart, he holds your legs up at about his elbow height or shoulder if feeling strong and penetrates from a kneeling position between your legs. No belly to belly contact so fine for the bump, though you might need to have some vestiges of ab strength left for it not to be uncomfy? Doubtless only works in certain combinations of shapes and sizes anyway. Good luck!

You on top facing away from him and leaning forward might be less of a strain on the tum.

Doggy.

Side on variations on spoons (see marrriednotdead's post).

Oral.

It is normal for the bump to get hard when you come apparently, and for activity levels to go down or up. Just think of it as swaying the baby to sleep - you are multitasking!

I agree whats sex? I feel very sorry for my DH but i have been so uncomfortable throughout!

oh i soo remember those days!! DH and i had only been together for 6m when i fell pg with ds2 (ds1 from first marriage) and we were at it all the time. Very sad about the lack of sex with ds3 and now dc4 bless him!! he still recalls those 'at it like rabbit days'.

But with spd, fear of bleeding (placenta praevia) and still being sick most days..its not a very frequent experience unfortunately

Our baby is due next week and we haven't had sex for the whole nine months. This, I'm aware, must be considered strange. There is just no way I could do it without continually thinking 'there's a baby in there, there's a baby in there' and now that it twists and turns about with feet etc sticking out: no chance!!!!!!!!! Anyone else as prudish as me?

Yep i am Suburban I reckon its been about 4 or 5 months!

Our poor other halves. Saying that though his face is an absolute picture every time he spots my bin lid nipples. I think secretely he's not that bothered either...

DTsmistress thought you might like this link.

Haha I got told my boobs look like road maps from all the stretch marks! so complementry!

I think we've managed once in 32 weeks thanks to hypermesis and ligament pain and having a 3 y o. Now been told I may go into early labour and been warned off sex, so that it now really I think. The time we managed a couple of weeks ago, doggy was most comfortable.

you absolute bores!!!!!!!!!!, try forward spooning both lay on your side and slightly straddle him facing eachother, let him do the thrusting (you are pregnant after all)

and ladies dont give up on sex, you'll rely on it to take up time if you go over your due date

rairai - how mean!!!

well the spoons tbh also hurts (back is bad) falling apart at the seams atm lol. he's off on his travels atm so will be 38 weeks on his return so will see how we both feel then.

either of us on top's just not comfortable, - enjoyable, but i'm thinking for gods sake is it not over yet (comfy pov here nothing else)

I really want to every day... but my body says noooooo! Too tired!! :(

suburban no action over here either. Terrified it will cause bleeding and I frankly don't need that kind of stress given current anxiety levels anyway! Poor DH, although he doesn't need the stress of me freaking out either!!!