Hassled - thank you, yes is was bloody knackering! It would be good to have a baby and just chill.
DD wants a moped for her birthday next year (yeah right), she said in car on way home 'mum I won't bother with the moped, you can use it to buy cots and a baby changing table'
Bless her.
She is going away this weekend and she said acidly 'you can use that time mum to have lots of SEX' 
thank you again everyone, thsi thread has made my day.