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Pregnancy post mc: Totally's grads continued part 4...

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SamanthaB123 · 19/09/2010 12:26

Our shiny new thread - all welcome!

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Wobblewatcher · 31/10/2010 11:02

Thankyou clare how kind of you and what a lovely welcome.

Convinced myself I had mc last night due to horrible crampy pains very low down but over the past hour or so have felt rather pg again. I hate the roller coaster effect of it all and because I didn't bleed with my first mmc I can't feel reassured by not bleeding. Although am glad I'm not IYSWIM!!

Yes you are right about the AN threads and don't want to get on their nerves by keep going on about my worries!

X

Wobblewatcher · 31/10/2010 11:12

Actually there are a few that are worrying like me on my thread and have had mcs so it's nice from that point of view but every time I seem to post it's negative and don't want to bring others down.

Can I go between the two?? Blush

Muser · 31/10/2010 11:43

Welcome wobblewatcher. You can be on as many threads as you like. I am on three! Everyone here will understand your worries, we've all been there. I've only just stopped worrying and I'm 23 weeks today!

If it helps, crampy feelings are quite common, it might just be stretching. I had all sorts of weird aches and pains at the beginning, very scary but completely harmless. Good luck to you.

I am rather excited this morning as MrM finally got to feel the baby move. It was very subtle but he says he definitely felt it. He's grinning like a fool!

BunnyBaby · 31/10/2010 13:06

Hello everyone, and congratulations on the new scan results! Laughing at potential 'slebs' on the thread.

I am now on maternity leave and so pleased to be, I worked up to 38 weeks last time, so 32 is much better and hopefully lots of time to relax withDS1. Currently up north with the folks for a week or so. DS1 loving being spoiled!

Anyone else doing anything for Halloween? We're off on a steam train.

Sorry for lack of name checking but have read every post xxx

Muser · 31/10/2010 13:13

Hope I haven't mucked anything up. I nearly jumped myself forward to 27 weeks!

Sunday's List

Unbuffy - baby#2 (1 DD) - 36+1 wks EDD 27th November next scan 1st Nov
HappyGirl - baby#1 34+4 weeks EDD 8th December
Zayja - baby#1 33+6 wks EDD 11th December
Goodluckbear - baby#1 33+1 wks EDD 18th December
Malteser1981 - baby#1 33+1 wks EDD 18th December
Gilda - baby#1 - 32+1 wks due 25th December
BunnyBaby - baby#3 - 32+1 wks due 25th December
sparklyrainbow - baby#1 31+4 wks EDD 30th December
AlbaDeTamble - baby#2 (1DS, 3yrs) 30+6 wks EDD 3rd January. Next scan Nov 6th
toomuchteaching - baby#1 30+4 wks EDD 5th January
Redheadgal - baby#1 30+2 wks EDD 6th January
diggingforvictory - baby#4 (DS 1) 29+1 wks EDD 15th January
WestYorkshireGirl - baby#1 28+6 weeks EDD January 18th
Dorcas111 - baby#1 27+2 weeks EDD 28th January
Ba8y1 - baby#1 26+2 weeks EDD 4th February - next scan 24th October
Clareanna - baby#2 one DS 25+2 weeks ADD 3rd Feb 2011
Muser - baby#1 23 weeks EDD 27th Feb
Northerngoldilocks - baby#1 20+2 weeks EDD 18 March - next scan 12 November
Magic8ballhastheanswers - babies#3&4 19+5 weeks EDD 20th March - next scan 26th October
Liahgen - baby#6 18+6 weeks EDD 23rd March
Hopefully - baby#2 18+3 weeks EDD 2nd April
stuffedmk - baby#2 17+6 weeks EDD 4th April
Ivysedai - baby#2 15+3 weeks EDD 21st April
PenguinsMummy - baby#3 15+3 weeks EDD 21st April
VivClicquot - baby#1 13+4 weeks EDD 4th May
Loopymumsy - baby#? 13+5 weeks EDD 5th May
Tigerbear - baby#1 11+6 weeks EDD 14th May
HairyTriangle - baby#1, 9 weeks, EDD June 5th
Wobblewatcher - baby#2, 5+5 weeks, EDD June 27

The babies are arriving! Huge congratulations to:
Totally with daughter Faith Juliet, 9lb5oz born Tuesday 16th February 2010
Amyboo with son Matthew James, 4.714kg (10lb3oz) born Tuesday 30th March 2010
Hoops with son Benjamin Scott, 7lb4oz born Friday 2nd April 2010
Memorylapse with daughter Olivia, born Friday 16th April 2010
Jacanne with daughter Lotta Eliza, 8lbs 5oz born 20th April 2010
Becky78 with son Thomas Christopher born 22nd May - 9lb 1oz
Meita with son Ianto born 23 August - 7lbs 4
Boodleboot with daughter Alice Elizabeth born 10 Sep - 8lbs 2oz
LeeWT with son Andrew Anthony born 28th Sept 7lbs 14oz
TFLS with son Charlie born on 30th September, 6lbs 8oz
SamB with daughter Ruby Mae born 19th October 7lbs 10oz
Effilump with son born 16th October
Sarahlou8 with daughter Emily Isabella born 21st October, 7lb8oz

In our thoughts and prayers:
Louise with daughter Georgie born asleep on 10th October

We share the pain and mourn the loss with:
Jollster, Cheepz, Freezing, BarrenBrook, MsJL, LadyBee, Moofold, Banana87 and BatteryHen

HappyGirl1 · 31/10/2010 15:15

Welcome Wobble! This is def the thread for you

Happy Halloween everyone!

Getting period type pains here, apparently normal but can't help but worry. Going to drink some cold water and hopefully baby will do a few little moves for me to relax me a bit.

Really hope everyone is well

xx

Gi1da · 31/10/2010 15:51

Muser there's definitely something wrong with that list - I'm only an inch from the top - EEEEEKKK! Shock Shock

How's it feeling up there Upduff?

Welcome Wobble this is definitely a good place to have wobbles - and we all do!

Big waves to Bunny-due-date-mate. How's it going? Well done you on finishing work already.

Muse glad MrMuse got a feel Grin, I swear little bobbins here teases my other half by doing massive spins the second before and after he has his hand on my belly.

Sparkles sorry to hear you've not been feeling sparkly. Sounds like you need to be on bed/sofa rest with regular yummy hot chocolate doses. How about getting a 30 day "I love film" free trial to keep you occupied? Thinking of doing that myself when I stop work in 3 weeks as I won't know what to do with myself in the house all day!

Glad you had a great time in Prague TooMT I'd love to go, guess we won't be doing any trips away for a while now though!

Alba sounds like you had a perfect break too, glad the teens were fully occupied! And you are quite right, time to finish up those last work tasks and focus on our growing baby projects!

Picturing the gorgeous Jolls surrounded by scented candles, white lilies and kittens and sprinkled in stardust... so between us we need to identify Maria, Lily Allen and who else? Surely we fabulous lot have at least one sleb amongst us? Dying to ask ClareA about the rider....

Hi SamB glad to hear you and Ruby are settling in so well. I'm only just realising that breast feeding seems to be quite a challenge. Well done you for persevering Smile.

ooooh I've just won a natal hypnotherapy cd on ebay. Just hope its not too woooooo. Any talk of opening lotus flowers and I'll scream.

Clareanna loving the leggings / bra stategy. Magic I went for the under bump jeans instead of channeling Simon Cowell with the over bumps. Think I need braces or some cunning trouser suspender / bra attachment la Clare! Maybe that's an idea to put before the dragons....

Ooops bath going cold, must go so huge mexican wave to everyone. Hope you are all blooming you lovely lot. Smile

Thoughts going to Louise x

Unbuffy · 31/10/2010 15:58

hi all

well i am back from my 2 1/2 day break away from it all... i have been massaged and pedicured and facialed to within an inch of my life! Plus lots of lovely swimming and sitting about and reading and food that i did not have to cook mmmm.... Only down side was not me own bed (therefore not much sleep) and biiiig reality bump today! dh is knackered after 2 days looking after toddler by himself - all together now, aaaaaaaahhhhh, bless...... bump is veeery sore atm, think it's started dropping as am needing to pee every 2 minutes or so (tricky in the middle of a pedicure, boast boast). Itself was back to back last Mon soooo will have to wait and see what scan tomorrow says! Have started taking me raspberry leaf, doesn't seem to make any appreciable difference but who knows it might help in the long run! Am not allowed to have anything happen before the 17th as dh has an exam then, soooo... legs and fingers crossed!!!!!!

Hi to Jolls Mariah, and all the other slebs out there

glad centreparcs was okay and Prague and Muserville - all well folks?

Hi to Wobbles, we're all mad very nice people who can appreciate whatt you're going through

Happy i have those, relax, they are Things getting ready for Stuff and panic not (although will have to try to stick to that advice mesself!!) Try something sugary to wake up minihappy and start it tapdancing!

welcome to the world magicneph, hope the world of Twindom is going well, think your bump sounds like 'twill be bigger than you by the end Magic!

Hi to Bunny and Gilda and Clare (any luck on the tickets?) and to everyone I've missed, oh and to Sam hope it's all going well, try to get some rest, and witchy halloween waves adn cackles and a halloween fish attempt...

--))))[hgrin]> o O O

Hope that's all, have knackered brian with all the thinking! Will try to return to the planet now soon...

Unbuffy · 31/10/2010 15:59

Gilda it feels a bit like vertigo... balancing, balancing, wooooah...

Have a nice bath x

Unbuffy · 31/10/2010 16:02

ppppppppppppppsss Missed spakly before, biiiiig hugs and nicenesses

On the trousers front, bump bands are good, like an extra wide supercomfy belt over trousers, leggings etc. Better than braces anyway...

Unbuffy · 31/10/2010 16:03

that should say Sparkly, damn new keyboard.

Am really off this time!!

thefatladyscreams · 31/10/2010 18:36

Hi everyone - been lurking but not good at one handed typing and Charlie is proving to be a little bit of a limpet.

Battery - so sorry to hear your news, it is so hard. Glad your DP got home and is looking after you.

Banana - how are you doing? It is so hard not to plague yourself with questions - can your GP help you answer some of your fears?

Thanks to everyone for the feeding advice. We are battling on - he still gets impatient feeding at the breast but feeding expressed milk from the bottle is working fine. I'm chilling a bit more about it as he is getting breast milk and he's putting on weight - which are the key things. Laughing at Unbuffy's van driver! He has been checked for tongue tie thanks Ivy - and got the all clear, but it's a good check. Hope your house move has gone well.

Brillant website Meita - that's the first info I've read on exclusively expressing. Thanks. How are you all doing?

Alba - thanks for your comments - they've helped me chill more. You mention reflexology. When I had Charlie, the midwife was surprised at how easy/quick my labour was and asked if I had been doing reflexoloy or acupuncture. I thought that was interesting and they clearly see some benefits (I had done a acupuncture pre-labour course). I'm not on commission, honest!

Unbuffy - can't believe you are now top of the list. Do you get a slight feeling of shock everytime you see that!

Great news re the scans Hairy, Loopy, Magic and Tiger. Grin

And fantastic news Effi and Sarahlou - welcome to the world to babyEffi and Emily. Hope babyEffi is home soon (finally a baby born on his due date!). And MagicSis' little one has arrived - more good news.

Sparkly - sorry you are feeling down. Don't be hard on yourself - it's hard to be glass half full when you're so tired, let along in pain from SPD - so take it easy.

Welcome Wobble - this is a great place for hand holding and you'll get loads of support.

Gilda - we had a new boiler last year (after a long gap with a broken one) - it was so, so lovely being warm at last!!! I used the Natal Hypnotherapy CD and it really helped me feel calm going into labour. There were a couple of dodgy bits - something about the soft velvety putty of your birth canal if I recall correctly! (hope I don't put you off!).

Lew - misread your post initially and thought you were putting the whisky in Andrew's feed! Wink

Louisesh - you have been in my thoughts daily. If I've remembered correctly, it is Georgie's funeral tomorrow. I wish I could find the right words to support you .... It is so wrong that you are having to go through this but you are being such a brilliant mum to your little girl and doing her so proud. I love the georgiebigfoot nickname. I'm so sorry your DH's workplace are being so poor. Sometimes people just don't know what to do or say - so do nothing. The letters and photos with Georgie are beautiful. I know you will be surrounded by all your family and friends' love tomorrow. Please remember that we will all be thinking of you too and saying a little prayer for your beautiful girl. Perhaps we could all do something in her memory tomorrow - just a little act of kindness of any sort or light a candle - to show we are all behind you. Be brave my sweetie xxxxx

toomuchteaching · 31/10/2010 20:08

Welcome wobble, you are definitely in the right place, we've all been there and had the uber-cheery innocence stolen, so I for one avoid the Jan 2011 thread totally. Plus there's some really good advice on here when you need it... and a big fish slap too (although it hasn't been out for a while, thanks for reintroducing the Halloween version unbuffy).

Meant to tell you all about my airport experience... so I've worn my boots so I don't have to pack them in my luggage, we're at Heathrow, with it's hellish security check, and I'm fully expecting to have to take them off to check I'm not a boot bomber, but I said to the lady, of course that's fine, but I'll need to sit down, I'm 30 weeks pregnant. It's not like I can bend to my toes to unzip standing up!

Fine, they say, but there are no chairs, apart from on the other side of the scanner. Cue much confusion. I suggested going through the scanner, sitting on one of the numerous put your shoes back on chairs, sending my boots through the X-ray machine and then me walking back through the scanner. But no, she said I may set it off and have to be searched. Even though I said that was absolutely fine, she continued to radio for a chair. By now my DH has re-dressed himself and gathered all our things and is laughing his head off.

I tried my sensible suggestion again, to no avail, and the exasperated woman heard on her radio there were no chairs. I mean seriously... I can't be the first woman who can't touch her toes!! At which point she says to me, "Well how did you put them on this morning?" Erm... sitting on the bed, not that it's anything to do with you thank you very much! "Well it looks like I'll have to help you." And she proceeded to start unzipping my boots for me... I went to help and she virtually screamed at me, "No, don't bend down for goodness sake" like I might die.

Needless to say, I didn't set the machine off, I sat on the chairs to put my boots back on, and all was well. In Prague on the other hand, I walked through the machine, the lady apologised, sat me on a chair to get my boots off, carried them back for me to scan them, returned them to me etc. etc. So why do the Heathrow ones have to be so rude!? Apologies if any of you are that Heathrow lady!

This has taken an age to type, just needed to share my frustration.

TFLS I think that is a lovely idea, and I for one will be thinking of a way to remember Georgie, and you and your family Louise. I hope tomorrow goes as well as it can and you can share some time talking about your daughter with friends and family. You have done a wonderful job for her.

Wobblewatcher · 31/10/2010 20:21

Awe thanks everyone for being so blooming welcoming and also adding me to your list-not so easy to cut and paste on my iPad.

Am going to be reading lots over next few days to try and learn who you all are!

Am feeling a bit more rational this evening, god I swing from being CONVINCED I have mc, to thinking 'why on earth did I think that?'

PenguinsMummy · 31/10/2010 20:51

Louise thinking of you for tomorrow. Hope your family and friends help to provide the love, support and strength to help you through the day. xxxx

Muser · 31/10/2010 21:13

I like the idea of doing something as a thread for Georgie tomorrow. We could all light a candle at the same time maybe? Would everyone be home at 8pm?

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HappyGirl1 · 31/10/2010 21:32

Unbuffy thanks a mil! Period pains have stopped for the moment, had more B Hicks but think I've sussed now they come when I've been on my feet for ages. I really struggle with just sitting down although what's what I'm doing now! Your break sounds great Unbuffy, I think when I go on Mat Leave, I'll treat myself to a haircut, manicure and pedicure. Badly need all three!

ToomuchTeaching that is just ridiculous how the Heathrow lady treated you - just not necessary when common sense would have avoided it. I think they just like having power! Glad you had a good holiday though Smile

gilda your getting close to the top!! let us know if the cd is good, i've been recommended getting one too.

I got the magic black out blinds and tens machine today so they arrive on Thursday which should be plenty of time.

Hi to everyone

xx

HappyGirl1 · 31/10/2010 21:32

That's such a lovely idea Muser - def think we should all do that tomorrow evening in memory of Georgie..

randomimposter · 31/10/2010 21:50

Just popping in to say to MonstrousMuser that's a lovely idea and I will light a candle tomorrow at 8 and think of Georgie and all Louise's family.

Hi to everyone else - I do love to keep up with all your news.

louisesh · 31/10/2010 22:56

Thanks all thats a lovely idea.Please light a candle for iur Georgie.....Yes, tomorrow will be horrible but we have to do it.All family here got very good support....Georgies service at 10am then a few coming back here for food etc....My dH and brother reading poems my DH s reading a poem he s written himself its lovely.Will check in and let you know how things have gone.Georgie deserves to be remembered.Hope everyone is ok XXXX

AlbaDeTamble · 01/11/2010 08:26

Louise, I'm joining the others thinking of you and remembering Georgie today. It sounds like you have a beautiful service planned for her.

Redheadgal · 01/11/2010 08:45

Louise - thinking of you today. Be brave hon! Will be joining the others in lighting a candle later. xx

Will pop back later to name-check properly.

Unbuffy · 01/11/2010 08:50

Just want to send all best wishes to Louise, it's so very sad and it will be very hard for you all. I do hope it gives you a chance to say goodbye properly. They've just put sinead o'conner Nothing Compares on the radio and I'm sitting here crying my eyes out for you x

VivClicquot · 01/11/2010 08:54

Louise - sending you lots of love and strength for today. As Alba says, the service sounds beautiful and I'll certainly be lighting the special candle that I have for my lost ones in her memory tonight. Much love xx