Pregnancy post mc: Totally's grads continued part 4...

[SamanthaB123]

Our shiny new thread - all welcome!

Louise I've only seen the thread now and words fail me sweetheart. The injustice of it all is beyond description but I'm so struck by your bravery and love for your little girl..

If it is not too painful for you I hope you'll stay here with us and let us help in any small way we can .. I'd be honoured to donate to her fund I'll do it tomorrow.

Love and best wishes

lee xxx

oh louise i am so gutted for u, sorry, sorry, sorry, i am so sorry you have had this happen. i am so sad to hear this awful news. its so f*cking unfair. will go on to donate moeny today.

is there anything at all else we can do? if so just say. sending u love. xxxx

Louise, echoing what others have said, please do stick around here with us and don't feel you need to hold back. I'm sure we all want to hear how you're doing and read as much as you can tell us about your gorgeous little girl. Please post away. Can't begin to imagine how you're feeling just now, but do tell us if you want to (just remembering how writing it all down helped after miscarriage, so thinking it may in some small way be helpful for you now).
Big hugs.

Morning all,

Just popping on to say hello - and to let louise know that I am thinking of her and her family and I have visited Georgies page.

Please stay with us if that is what you want xxx

Hello to everyone else xxx

Thanks very much everyone for your support.I will be sticking around for now.Thanks for the donations and lovely messages on Georgies website.Thanks to pEnguinsmum and Batteryhen.Much love to you all XX

Friday?s List:

Effilump - Baby#5, 39+6 wks, due 16th Oct
SamanthaB123 baby#3(2x DD's 12 & 9 yrs) 39+2 wks, due 20th October; sweep #2 19th October
Sarahlou8 - baby#3 (DD 11, DS 9) 38+6 wks, EDD 23rd October
Unbuffy - baby#2 (1 DD) - 33+5 wks EDD 27th November, scan 1st Nov
HappyGirl - baby#1, 32+2 weeks, EDD 8th December
Zayja - baby#1, 31+4 wks, EDD 11th December
Goodluckbear - baby#1, 30+6 wks, EDD 18th December
Malteser1981 - baby#1, 30+6 wks, EDD 18th December
Gilda - baby#1 - 29+5 wks, due 25th December
BunnyBaby - baby#3 - 29+6 wks, due 25th December
sparklyrainbow - baby#1 29+1 wks EDD 30th December
AlbaDeTamble - baby#2 (1DS, 3yrs) 28+4 wks EDD 3rd January
toomuchteaching - baby#1 28+2 wks EDD 5th January
Redheadgal - baby#1 28 wks EDD 6th January
diggingforvictory - baby#4 (DS 1) 26+6 wks EDD 15th January
WestYorkshireGirl - baby#1, 26+4 weeks EDD January 18th
Dorcas111 - baby#1, 25 weeks, EDD 28th January
Ba8y1 - baby#1, 24 weeks, EDD 4th February. Next scan 24th October
Clareanna - baby#2, one DS, 23 weeks ADD 3rd Feb 2011
Muser - baby#1, 20+5 weeks, EDD 27th Feb
Northerngoldilocks - baby#1 18 weeks EDD 18 March - next scan 12 November
Magic8ballhastheanswers - babies#3&4 17+3 weeks EDD 20th March
Liahgen - baby#6 17+1 weeks EDD 23rd March
Hopefully - baby#2 15+6 weeks EDD 2nd April
stuffedmk - baby#2 15+4 weeks EDD 4th April
Ivysedai - baby#2 13+1 weeks EDD 21st April
PenguinsMummy - baby#3 13+1 weeks EDD 21st April
BatteryHen - baby#1 11+5 weeks EDD 1st May
VivClicquot - baby#1 11+2 weeks EDD of 4th May
Loopymumsy - baby#? 11+1 weeks EDD?
Tigerbear - baby #1 9+4 weeks EDD 14th May

The babies are arriving! Huge congratulations to:
Totally with daughter Faith Juliet, 9lb5oz born Tuesday 16th February 2010
Amyboo with son Matthew James, 4.714kg (10lb3oz) born Tuesday 30th March 2010
Hoops with son Benjamin Scott, 7lb4oz born Friday 2nd April 2010
Memorylapse with daughter Olivia, born Friday 16th April 2010
Jacanne with daughter Lotta Eliza, 8lbs 5oz born 20th April 2010
Becky78 with son Thomas Christopher born 22nd May - 9lb 1oz
Meita with son Ianto born 23 August - 7lbs 4
Boodleboot with daughter Alice Elizabeth born 10 Sep - 8lbs 2oz
LeeWT with son Andrew Anthony born 28th Sept 7lbs 14oz
TFLS with son born on 29th September

In our thoughts and prayers:
Louise with daughter Georgie born asleep on 10th October

Louise I hope that you are feeling ok today. I'm sure I speak for everyone in saying that you are very welcome here for as long as it brings you comfort and support. What has happened to you has touched all of us as well and we are very happy to help in any small ways that we can.

Viv I was really pleased to hear your news yesterday. This thread is so unique I think because we are all at different stages of pregnancy but with the broadly the same worries. I hope that you will be able to relax into your pregnancy now and enjoy it a bit.

Over here there is not really anything to report at all. Since the non-sweep I have had some brownish discharge, but almost certainly not enough to be a show. Fiddling about in my cervical area must have caused it. Lovely. I had some contractions yesterday evening that were quite uncomfortable and fairly close together but knowing my cervix was shut I didn't believe anything would happen. I am a bit more optimistic today, not least because I slept all night. It's amazing waht a good night's sleep can do.

Hope everyone is well and having a good day. Any news Effilump?

Adding to continued welcomes for Louise and sister Kate too! We are all thinking of you and here to hand hold on the rollercoaster of life.

Glad to hear you got a bit of decent shut-eye SamB. I wish I wouldn?t keep thinking of Dick van Dyke when anyone mentions sweeps. It?s quite off-putting. Although perhaps a cheeky cockney chappy singing chirpy little ditties while they?re fiddling with your cervicular nethers might lift the atmosphere!

Viv really good news for you, really glad. Big .

I am feeling a bit naughty as I have finally caved in and booked a hair cut and colour for this afternoon. Controversial possibly, but am well aware of doom-sayers vs the let?s-be-realistic-about risk debate. Mind you, the hairdresser may decide not to highlight if she thinks the colour may be affected by dufferism. Will see what she says. Its been a while, I last saw her just after my mc so I feel like a troll by now!

Wishing everyone well xx

gi1da lts less chimney sweep and more being turned into a human glove puppet!!!

Oh louise I am so very very sorry. Words totally fail me. Do stay and talk to us about Georgie whenever you want to.

Hope others are doing ok. Take care all.

louise I'm so sorry, I can't imagine how you must be feeling. You obviously have a very supportive family to help you through. And of course we are all here for you.

I've just checked in on this thread and seen the news- I am so sorry Louise, words just aren't enough but you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Life is so unfair and cruel at times, it just seems incomprehensible that this can happen. I'm glad you are being well looked after in RL and obviously you have all the support here that we can give. Talk about Georgie as much as you want to whenever you want to. Take care x x x x

Thanks again.Thanks GOODLUCKBEAR for your donation X

Oh Louisesh my dear, I'm so so sorry. There are no words to express what you must be feeling. Please do stay with us. Your little Georgie sounds so beautiful xxx

My mum lost her first child at birth and we all still think of him today and know there is a big brother we didn't get to meet.

You are all in our thoughts.

Thanks very much TFLS for your lovely donation.Hope alls going well with you X.Good to hear your story about your mum [not for her loss] but that she went on to have you post a stillbirth. Seen my MW today and she knows of 2 ladies who have experienced still birth and gone on to have healthy children....So she said to crack on straight , virtually, away!!!!!!

Sadly I come adding more bad news. I miscarried today and had an ERPC tonight. In a cushy private room being taken care of. The only disappointing thing is my feeling that I can't have more children. 2 miscarriages in a row is not just bad luck, it's me.

I'm really sorry to hear your news banana, I hope that you are ok tonight. At this stage I don't think that it necessarily means you can't have children - someone will be along soon enough to confirm this us the case I'm sure. Have you thought about having tests to see what is going on?

Awake here obviously but only insomnia, nothing impending yet. Posting on phone in bed with some degree of difficulty...

So sorry banana especially after the ups and downs you've had. Hope you are being well looked after and please fight to get the answers you need x

I'm so very sorry Banana. Huge [hug] to you.

Thank you. Feeling suprisingly ok today. To me, things just were not right with bleeding from day 1 so all my efforts are now geared towards getting answers and not being fobbed off.

Hope things get moving for you soon Samantha!

I'm so sorry banana. Definitely push for answers if you can get any. But please don't give up hope, I know after my second loss I thought there had to be something wrong with me, but it was just awful luck.

You will get your baby.

banana was about to post pretty much what Muse wrote. It's TOTALLY normal to be feeling how you are feeling right now, particularly after an ERPC which sends you doo-lally IMO. But you don't need to go far on here to read of successful pregnancies after 2/3/4/5 and so on MC. I wish you a speedy recovery and all the best for the future.

Thinking of louise and family.

Hi to all.

Banana I hope you are bearing up ok this morning. I'm glad that some people have been along to reassure you.

No news, didn't sleep well, feel tired. Hmmph.

Saturday?s List:

Effilump - Baby#5, 40 wks, due 16th Oct
SamanthaB123 baby#3(2x DD's 12 & 9 yrs) 39+3 wks, due 20th October; sweep #2 19th October
Sarahlou8 - baby#3 (DD 11, DS 9) 39 wks, EDD 23rd October
Unbuffy - baby#2 (1 DD) - 33+6 wks EDD 27th November, scan 1st Nov
HappyGirl - baby#1, 32+3 weeks, EDD 8th December
Zayja - baby#1, 31+4 wks, EDD 11th December
Goodluckbear - baby#1, 31 wks, EDD 18th December
Malteser1981 - baby#1, 31 wks, EDD 18th December
Gilda - baby#1 - 30 wks, due 25th December
BunnyBaby - baby#3 - 30 wks, due 25th December
sparklyrainbow - baby#1 29+2 wks EDD 30th December
AlbaDeTamble - baby#2 (1DS, 3yrs) 28+5 wks EDD 3rd January
toomuchteaching - baby#1 28+3 wks EDD 5th January
Redheadgal - baby#1 28+1 wks EDD 6th January
diggingforvictory - baby#4 (DS 1) 27 wks EDD 15th January
WestYorkshireGirl - baby#1, 26+5 weeks EDD January 18th
Dorcas111 - baby#1, 25+1 weeks, EDD 28th January
Ba8y1 - baby#1, 24+1 weeks, EDD 4th February. Next scan 24th October
Clareanna - baby#2, one DS, 23+1 weeks ADD 3rd Feb 2011
Muser - baby#1, 20+6 weeks, EDD 27th Feb
Northerngoldilocks - baby#1 18+1 weeks EDD 18 March - next scan 12 November
Magic8ballhastheanswers - babies#3&4 17+4 weeks EDD 20th March
Liahgen - baby#6 17+2 weeks EDD 23rd March
Hopefully - baby#2 16 weeks EDD 2nd April
stuffedmk - baby#2 15+5 weeks EDD 4th April
Ivysedai - baby#2 13+2 weeks EDD 21st April
PenguinsMummy - baby#3 13+2 weeks EDD 21st April
BatteryHen - baby#1 11+6 weeks EDD 1st May
VivClicquot - baby#1 11+3 weeks EDD of 4th May
Loopymumsy - baby#? 11+2 weeks EDD?
Tigerbear - baby #1 9+5 weeks EDD 14th May

The babies are arriving! Huge congratulations to:
Totally with daughter Faith Juliet, 9lb5oz born Tuesday 16th February 2010
Amyboo with son Matthew James, 4.714kg (10lb3oz) born Tuesday 30th March 2010
Hoops with son Benjamin Scott, 7lb4oz born Friday 2nd April 2010
Memorylapse with daughter Olivia, born Friday 16th April 2010
Jacanne with daughter Lotta Eliza, 8lbs 5oz born 20th April 2010
Becky78 with son Thomas Christopher born 22nd May - 9lb 1oz
Meita with son Ianto born 23 August - 7lbs 4
Boodleboot with daughter Alice Elizabeth born 10 Sep - 8lbs 2oz
LeeWT with son Andrew Anthony born 28th Sept 7lbs 14oz
TFLS with son born on 29th September

In our thoughts and prayers:
Louise with daughter Georgie born asleep on 10th October

BANANA soo sorry XXX i VE had 3 MCs prior to Georgie soo it can happen, though thats the last thing you ll be thinking at present.Hope everyone else is ok.....LOOPY and JOLLISTER thanks very much for your kind thoughts XXXX

We have too hang on to the thought that [next year] i will have my baby....by sheer determination and a load of good lluuck.Hope is the only thing we ve got to hold on to.I just miss Georgie soo much,funny that, considering i d never really had her in my life as such.XX