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SamanthaB123 · 19/09/2010 12:26

Our shiny new thread - all welcome!

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HappyGirl1 · 14/10/2010 11:21

Louise I'm just so sad, so so sad at your news, sitting here in work in tears for you. There are just no words to describe how sad that is for you. You are in my thoughts. xx

BunnyBaby · 14/10/2010 11:32

Louise so sorry to hear your news, it is so inexplainable to have Georgina snatched away when she should be here with you. God bless her, you and your family. I am also sat here in tears.

Effilump · 14/10/2010 11:44

Louise. No words are enough. Much love. XX

Goodluckbear · 14/10/2010 12:06

Louise - thinking of you and your family, and of your beautiful baby girl Georgie - daughter, niece and granddaughter - she's surrounded by love.

xxxx

clareanna · 14/10/2010 13:09

Just popping on to see how everyone is this afternoon? I am feeling very sad for louise and wish I could be more support in rl. Also finding it hard at work today due to old boss dying but difficult to explain to colleagues why I'm doubly sad. Explaining it's because of news you heard on a forum you're on doesn't really do it justice.
Anyhoo- just wondered if any of you were feeling the same and wanted to offer you a virtual hug ((())) if you are.

Thanks to louises sister for coming on with an update too- so sad for her family

Gi1da · 14/10/2010 13:41

oh Louise I am so very sorry, my heart aches for you, your family and for beautiful angel Georgie. Wishing you strength and support at this terrible time. xx

Gi1da · 14/10/2010 13:42

Hugs to Clareanna and everyone. Such a sad time.

Muser · 14/10/2010 13:49

Think we need a group hug.

Unbuffy · 14/10/2010 14:11

Just to say I'm so very sorry, Louise. I haven't got the words to express it. My thoughts go out to you and your family. I keep writing things and then deleting them because nothing seems big enough to express so much loss.

x

Unbuffy · 14/10/2010 14:13

I also want to say I'm really pleased for Banana. It is always a rollercoaster on here, and this is more so than usual. I don't want to forget your good news in the midst of all the sorrow.

AlbaDeTamble · 14/10/2010 14:15

The last time I saw the consultant after my miscarriage in February, I told him I wanted to do everything I could to be sure it would all be fine next time... he told me with a wry smile that there were no guarantees till the baby was out and on its mother's breast. I thought at the time that was really harsh, but I realise he was speaking from many sad experiences and his words are haunting me today. I'm so sad for Louise and her family.

Clareanna, sorry to hear about your old boss, a difficult day for you.

Viv, I read your other thread post about good nuchal scan, that was a lovely ray of sunshine, really pleased for you, that's a big milestone.

Effi, SamB and Sarahlou I'm hoping for very happy news soon from all of you.

Joining you in the group hug Muser

Loopymumsy · 14/10/2010 14:51

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PenguinsMummy · 14/10/2010 14:52

I'd like to join the group hug too please!

And congrats to Banana who has been on a rollercoaster and has come out the other side Smile

SamanthaB123 · 14/10/2010 15:25

Hi, saw midwife this morning and she attempted a sweep. Cervix closed and unfavourable so no baby impending here. Feeling quite miserable as it seems I'll be pregnant for a while to come. Also, still so sad for Louise and her family. We are all so lucky.

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HappyGirl1 · 14/10/2010 15:48

Definitely want to join in the group hug. Louise haven't been able to stop thinking about you. My best friend had this happen to her last year too and it was just devastating but somehow from somewhere she got strength. I love your positivity of being back there next year with your screaming baby Smile. My best friend was and now has a new bouncing baby. I don't know if things like that even can help remotely because it's terribly terribly hard. Thinking of you loads and loads. So so sad.

SamB that's tough but I guess your lovely little baby just wants to grow a little more! Will they try another sweep in a few days (sorry I'm not sure how this works)?

I totally echo that we are extremely lucky to be pregnant. I've told DH that about twenty times today.

Big big group hug xxxxxx

SamanthaB123 · 14/10/2010 16:05

Can I hug too?

Repeat sweeps booked for Tuesday and Thursday next week. I am so tired today. Ooof.

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VivClicquot · 14/10/2010 17:06

Thanks Alba - I'd originally logged on this morning to let you all know, but obviously Louise's news knocked us all for six a bit.

For those who don't know, I had a last-minute nuchal yesterday and all was well - there was no cystic hygroma like Gracie's and the nuchal measurement was perfect, which means the odds of me having a baby with another chromosomal abnormality are really really slim. So that's another hurdle overcome, and is hopefully a little bit of good news on a very grey and sad day. (

Now. Where's this group hug?

Muser · 14/10/2010 17:11

That's lovely news Viv and I think just what we all need to hear. So happy for you.

HappyGirl1 · 14/10/2010 17:19

Viv that's really lovely news to hear. Really very pleased for you xx

clareanna · 14/10/2010 18:03

viv so pleased you cam relax a bit more on holiday now x

Muser · 14/10/2010 19:00

Thought this might be of interest to others: Baby Loss Awareness Week

I'll be lighting a candle tomorrow for my two who never were, and of course for Louise.

louisesh · 14/10/2010 19:47

Thanks very much MUSER.VIV thats lovely news after what you experienced previously.Thanks girls and for welcoming my sister obviously the whole family are suffering greatly.Thanks very much for your donations to our website....Georgie s generated a shed load of money.Just another case of Georgie helping people in her way.X Don t want to leave you all yet X

sparklyrainbow · 14/10/2010 19:53

Louise, I don't really know what to say except I'm so sorry. Also sitting here in tears. Thinking of you and your family. Sleep well baby girl xx

Lovely news Viv.

everyone.

louisesh · 14/10/2010 21:57

Thanks Sparkely ,Thanks Gilda,Loopy,clareanna and Alba for your generous donations to Georgies website.X