Thanks, Jabber, will check re shingles. Can live without that happening again
every day that passes I remember a bit more about what normal feels like, and I like it! But still tired enough for back to pack up with least effort after about 2pm...ended up back on painkillers last night, then at osteopath today: I shall behave (repeats 100 times).
that said, its dd2's birthday party tomorrow - actual birthday on 24th, well remembered AQ and Jabber! 14 littlies, 4 big sisters, too many parents and a magician/puppeteer whom I'm counting on big time. He's handsome, too 
Indith, good luck with the marbles - I'm glad its not an impaction, at least. I have to admit, I used small chocolate chips to potty train dd1 and have to say, for all things toilet related bribery worked wonders. Hope its that simple for you!
SatinShoes....oh yes, I remember! You keep my memory on its toes, with all those names
How is dd?
Right, back to party bags...