Beautiful day here. Glare on screen too much outside though so sitting with doors open and sun on my face.
Know what you mean about the nights alone dizzy
Loving those names mrsm. My bf has a Beatrice and it is just lovely. As you may (probably ) all remember I have a spectacularly unadventurous DH so it was not for us so will just be of you and agree that you really shouldn't take the opinion of the mums who you won't know in 5 years , let alone 25 years time. I'm still not settled on DD2's name, two years on .
So sorry to hear you're ill and, yet again, not getting the rest you need loti. Kidney infections are debilitating and potentially damaging for the long-term. Does H not realise that looking after the DDs is not good for you at the mo??
On the nursery front loti, how many times has she been there so far? iirc it's not that many? My two took a long time to settle in but I had to let them get on with it as I had to be at work. A few people who I trust on these things said to give it six weeks. However, that was with them going far more often than once per week. Going that infrequently will make it more difficult as she will need time to get used to it. Could you split it into two half days until, say, Christmas? Or even three - Mon, Weds and Fri? That way it'd be more a part of her regular routine.
I know how tough it is loti. Both DDs cried/screamed/wailed and clung to me for weeks but it took far less time for it to have subsided within 30 seconds of being out of sight. Doesn't make it any less tear-jerking though. If you have faith in your nursery it will be fine. Give her time.