October 09 - rolling, crawling, laughing into summer time (pass mum the wine!)

[Igglybuff]

New thread!

scout Hugs and cake to you. You are doing so well.Keep posting as we love hearing from you.

Hi all

princessmel the FB group is a private group (Privacy type:
Closed: Limited public content. Members can see all content). I can maybe try to change it to a secret group, I'll have a go.

Have had a look, it is on a closed setting at the moment, Admins must approve requests for new members to join. Anyone can see the group description, but only members can see the Wall, discussion board and photos.

Thanks Ladies. I'm not brave or special or a wonderful mom or any of that, I'm just trying to struggle through. Like we all are, I think.

Sometimes, especially recently, I've questioned if I've taken on too much with Guides AND re-opening our Senior unit and in a few months I'm going to be the leader of the Guides (right now I'm "just" an assistant but our Unit Guider is retiring after this school year and having been a leader in the States, and the only one in the unit the inclination to, I'm the one stepping into the Unit Guider role) AND all the medical stuff, baby stuff, home stuff, etc. But Guides are the one thing I really do for myself. Yes, I do things like make cards, bake, etc., but I always give all of those away. Guides have been in my life since I was eight (I started as a Brownie when we moved to the 'burbs when I was a child) and I can't imagine NOT doing it. Besides, I've always said I would quit when it's not fun any more and frankly, it's still a lot of fun. I get a lot out of being with the girls and the teens (the Seniors) are giving me a whole new perspective.

I don't like the taste of Christmas pudding (or mince pies for that matter) but last year I tried making a Christmas pudding -- and it was so much fun to make! And it helps that everyone really liked it. So this year I have a list as long as my arm of people to make puddings for. I'm not here for Stir-Up Sunday (it's when we're home for Thanksgiving) so am starting now to get them all made. Anyone want one? Happy to make and post (honestly, I am. I enjoy making them!).

How are you feeling, littlepea? Can I ask what made you test?

How is the school run/prep going, fidelma?

When do you go back to work, Iggly?

Don't worry, HT, Sebby does that sometimes, too. It's so good that he's in his own room, though, so at least I can pretend not to hear him (although I can't go back to sleep until I know he's asleep).

CF, I remember learning, way back in uni, in one of my education classes, that bi-lingual children take a bit longer to start speaking but once they do they are fluent in both languages. I am very envious of all those that speak more than one language and are able to pass that on to their children.

twinkle I never see notices when that FB page has updates.

Sebby's 10.5 months today. Has anyone planned their little one's first birthday?

(Apologies for the novel!)

Have just nearly had a heart attack!

Have been trying to get a hold of my Line Manager (at work) to confirm receipt of my resignation letter but he's not returned my calls. Called again today and he's now on holiday. ARGH! Just got through to HR and they said they received their copy, processed everything, notified my department, and I should have a letter tomorrow.

WHEW!

Because it's now less than a month before my maternity is up/I'm due back to work, and I was really starting to panic.

Twinkle thanks :) . I wondered if it comes up on other peoples news feed. Cos it appears on mine when I post something.

Will do updates in a sec :)

Scout Ive been having such a strange time with my periods, they are getting to be upto 2 weeks late, but the last couple of weeks I started to get pains when I bent down, or twisted. Started to think something was really wrong, and got an appointment with the doctor. Because on Friday my period was already 5 days late, and I thought it was playing up again, I knew the doctor would ask me to do a test. I got one to do in the house as doing on in the med centre, means having to do it with Faith in tow, easier at home. Didnt think anything of it, so didnt really look at it....then when I did, I think shock was a good word!

Cant believe how much you do! I think if being a leader is what you want, and you feel upto it, then go for it. At least they know you what you are going through, so if you need to rest or go home, it would be ok.

Ive already sent Faiths birthday invites out! Its only for close family. Have ordered plates, cups, posters, cake.....everything for the 1st Birthday Girl!!! Her birthday is on the 7th Oct, but her party is on the 9th which is a Saturday. DH will fly back on the 6th for a week

I feel bad - we're not having a first birthday party for William. We might go to the grandparents but that's it really.

I've got less than five weeks to go until I go back to work and I'm dreading it. I'm also finding it stressful thinking about how I'll manage work and William - I find that I do almost everything for him aside from the obvious childcare and feeding which DH can't do. I'm getting annoyed with DH as he doesn't seem to get that we don't have quite so much free time as before - so millions of times I ask him to tidy the kitchen after breakfast while I put William down for his first nap. But he doesn't or gets distracted/ GAH

Sorry I'm very annoyed as it's just happened! Also William decided to bite me when feeding this morning and was messing about before his nap.

Iggly that is men all over! Saying that dh is good with tidying the kitchen. We're finding none of the diy jobs are getting done. Any free time is not really free with the 3 dc's. Plus when dh gets in from work he helps me with them rather than doing jobs and tbh that's what needs to happen atm.

I'm sure you are worrying about work and W. But I bet it will all be fine. I was a nanny and I loved the children I looked after. I still see/speak to them all now on Fb and in person. They are 14, 17, 18 20 and 21!!!

scout Glad you are here. Sorry your feeling down :( I felt down about stopping bf ds1 for ages then after bf dd for over 2 years I STILL felt sad when she stopped!! It's very normal but one of those upsetting things we have to deal with.

teeth F is getting his top fang type teeth, but the middle top 2 dont seem to be coming! I hope they do soon or he'll look like a vampire! in time for Halloween :)

He's very snotty, not too happy and waking loads. He hates having medicine so its not easy giving it to him. But his temp is 39.

F got the Clarks job!! I was very surprised as there were LOADS of babies at the casting. But due to a problem with the license it may go to another baby. Boo hoo! :(
I should find out today :)
Hi everyone else :)

I'm not having a party for Matthew, I only have the grandparents round for a piece of cake and a cuppa. The first proper party for friends will be when he is 6 as the pressure for children's parties once at school is tremendous and us mum's are putting are feet down. When I think about it, it is the same children that have the parties every year but there are lots that don't. Sorry to waffle but party pressure and playdates are a pet hate of mine.

Iggly-I remember those worries about returning to work very well. My DH didn't do anymore to help when I returned unfortunately so you need to do some DH obedience training methinks. W will be fine when you go back and so will you. Remember, you will get a hot cuppa for once.

littlepea-when is your scan? So exciting. Are you getting any MS yet?

princessP-what is the problem with the licence? That is not good is it.

Matthew cried all night again so along with my pre AF migraine I feel rough. Need to go shopping though but think I'll take the girls after school for moral support.

Right, must drink my cuppa as M will want a feed soon. Is it just me still feeding 4 or 5 times a day? I am still happy to feed him until he self weans but it needs to be before he can shout booby in Tesco-lol!

Love to all.

HC
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Hi hc . Not all jobs ask for licences but some do...this one wants one. The lady at the council who deals with it , is not there till the day after the job... We're trying to sirt it.

But....my copy of the NoAddedSugar catalogue arrived today and there is a HUGE full size page photo of him in it!!!!!

Plus another teeny pic.

And he's here!!! [[
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Double proud!!!!!

hc I am feeding F loads in the day too. usually just quick feed though

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Cute pic!! Love the hair!

Mel happy days with the Clarks shoot Go F

HC PS's have come on me slowly, but mostly in the mornings, mild sickness, boobs are starting to tingle , very hungry & man Im tired! But have accepted im pregnant! LOL....

Faith party will only be grandparents, sister & family & both SIL's with niece. Only having it as DH will be coming over home for the week & he really wanted to have small party for her. Poor DS is 6 and has never really had one

Felt so bad today, had to tell my sister about the pregnancy, she is a nurse in the maternity ward, so would see & hear about it. It was terrible. She is going for IVF within 2 years, and here is me on my 3rd baby. I felt so bad for her. But she has a lovely wee girl who is just beautiful, I really do wish she would be happy.

Iggly when DH was here, he never did anything in the house, only complained about what hadnt been done! Gotten used to him being away as I can get it done in my own time. Saying that, most of the mess was his, so with him gone I dont have that much to do Might be wishing for him back soon, Im so tired!

Mel he is just so darn cute! Want to go onto the reviews & praise F!! LOL.....who cares about the clothes

Hi everyone.Its been blowing a gale here today (literally)-Joseph has been fascinated by all the leaves and puddles.

1st birthday party - We're having a small tea on Sunday at my mums in Wales, with my mum, sister,and 4 elderly relatives from my dads side. Its a few weeks early because my sister is off to Japan for 3 months on Tuesday and I wanted her to share it and the last time we got together with the other relatives was for a funeral so we wanted to celebrate. On Joe's actual birthday, dh is taking the day off and we'll go out for the day, probably Chester Zoo. Will go to MILs in the afternoon and have a little celebration with our neices who are 6 and 10. Nothing else.

My mum is sounding v stressed, hates the new dose of tablet and is itching to get out there running again. 6 weeks until she can apparently.

Oh - dh had it out with SIL at the weekend. Lots of shouting. Apparently she now acknowledges that she has treated me very badly over the past year and would like to put things right but doesn't think I'll ever forgive her. For that, read "this is going to be difficult so I'll still not bother to make an effort." She was v shocked and hurt that dh was deliberatley bringing J to his mums after SIL had gone each Sat-I think it ruined her whole poisonous rumour of me keeping Joe from her and taking her brother away, but he genuinely didn't want to be around her. Am past caring, it's like someone has turned down an intensity switch and I really have no feelings towards her now. Its lovely after feeling so hurt for so long.

HC - am also feeding 4 times during the day and 2-3 times at night. Hope M has a better night tonight and your migraine goes away pronto.

PrincessProudMel Gorgeous pic. Congrats on the Clarks job, hope the licence gets sorted.

Iggly I really feel for you going back to work, is something I agonised about. Juse remember your instincts about the nanny you hired and trust it will all work out fair. As for dh helping out, mine is pretty good but sometimes -grrr! and sympathy for the biting, William is testing out his new teeth eh, not fun for you though x

littlepea have a good holiday

Waves to everyone else xxx

So scared, bleeding a bi & very dizzy. Off to the hospital.

Oh littlepea, thinking of you xxx

Oh littlepea-please let us know how you are. Praying all will be OK.

HC
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littlepea, thinking of you, hope everything is ok x

:( Littlepea :( xxx

Thinkung of you littlepea

Bought C some cruising shoes from clarks and he also got a very sweet photo.Got shoes as it is the only way he will keep his socks on.He has throwen 3 pairs out of the buggy this week already !!!!!

Big wedding on Sat off tomorrow ny sil is getting married, 2 bridesmaids and a pge boy very very excited !