hello, lovelies, i'm back from devon. it was lovely - a real peter's friends sort of new year, with lots of friends whom we've known for decades and their children and partners. it was a massive stately home sort of place - buckland house - and it was great. madam loved it, although i think one is a tricky age, as you can't leave her alone, nor is she immobile. i did envy the couple of women with little babies and those who had proper toddlers who rampaged around playing princesses (boys and girls together).
i had a word with my dad re: birthday present-gate and asked, even though it was just a matter of semantics, whether he would mind if we bought the car seat and i spent some money on myself to buy a new winter coat (have nothing apart from a waterproof which fits me). he was, of course, delighted and felt silly he hadn't thought of it as an idea.
sl - madam's sleeping has also gone a little to pot, but not like E. the week before christmas she started waking around 7am which is a joy for us as she's been a bit of a 5.45am sort of girl. then we uprooted to dad's for christmas and suddenly it was 5am. then we went to devon and it turned into 4am. i've decided to bring her into the bed, feed her (still bfing) and hope she drops off again. most of the time she doesn't and screams and screams until something clicks and she is suddenly chirpy. tired, but chirpy. i am hoping it will sort itself out with a bit of consistency at home. also, yesterday she slept about 4.5 hours in the day (unheard of - mainly because we were driving back from devon), went to bed an hour later than usual, woke up at 5.30, then slept from 6.10-7.10 and still wanted a nap at 10. from less than 10 hours sleep in a 24 hour period to almost 15-16. who knows???
daisy - glad you have come to a compromise about your dds seeing your mil.
ladyt - have i missed something about your work???
sybil - have joined fatties thread. am feeling really positive about trying to get fit and healthy.
rubes - no, period arrived, but not too worried, as my cycle seems to be evening out - this period came after 36 days which is really good for me - pre madam my cycles were ranging from 36-54 days, so the shorter the cycle, the more chance we have of getting up the duff. even if i am living in denial about knowing how the hell we/i would cope with another one. but would really really love one - am an only child and not a fan of it - don't really want madam to have to go through that.