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July 2009: Grinning, wolfing, rolling and puking! :)

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alibobble · 26/10/2009 13:57

Hi thought I'd take the bull by the horns and start a new thread. Hope the weaning was covert enough! Fire away!

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Patchybob · 21/01/2010 19:56

BTW how is Marco baby. It is a nightmare when you have older kids as they bring so many nasties home from school.

alibobble · 21/01/2010 20:13

hi all. Not been on for a few days. Just spent ages reading and catching up.

jetli hope your nan is better

dreamfeed we've tentatively dropped it here now that weaning well established and at risk of being stoned off the thread dd slept 7-7 first night but woke for a feed at 1am the next night but went through again last night. we shall see.

movement dd is happy with her wobbly sitting (is 6mths now - dd1 was this stable at 4 1/2mths!) and loves her baby ring. No attempt to move anywhere but at least I don't have to get the fire guard out yet. i hate that thing. i always end up dumping stuff on the top of it. No rolling here either (dd1 was doing that by now too!). It's amazing to see how different they are from each other.

on a lighter and funnier note: did you know that it is perfectly possible to eat chocolate brownie straight from the freezer? Yum! I thought by putting it in there I would ration it to myself but who am I kidding!

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ladylush · 21/01/2010 21:04

Lydia glad you are happier Congrats on the shop

alibobble · 21/01/2010 22:12

patchy the combination of the snot sucker and that calpol/nasosal saline spray works a treat. the spray makes the snot less thick so then it's easier to suck out. Sorry if TMI!

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babyblue4 · 22/01/2010 00:52

Ali All I can say is ICK!!

Misspaella · 22/01/2010 06:46

The lurgy has hit here! Baby coughing badly most of the night w/snotty nose. Poor sod.

Just been posting on the weaning site. He is simply not taking to food w/the gusto of my last 2.

Ali I am polishing my rocks! on the 7 to 7. Pass the good sleep patterns over to me please. LOL.

Phoenix · 22/01/2010 10:12

Oooh MissP you're brave , hope they're been nice to you over there. We've got the lurgy too

Talking of snot suckers which ones does everyone have. I bought 1 in Mothercare and it's rubbish.

for shop Lydia. for the crap HV. I would just stick with what you're doing if you're happy with it. I've given up trying to get Noah to sleep in his cot all night. As soon as he wakes up for the 1st time i either go to bed if i'm still up and put him in with me or just bring him into our bed if i'm already in bed. He has never spent the whole night in his cot. I do quite like him been in bed with me

Can't remember who said it but i would drop through the floor if my parents said 'i love you' now so i have always been very kissy and cuddly with my boys and tell them all i love them all the time.

I'm waiting in for a new car seat for Noah to be delivered today. He looks so squashed in his infant carrier, i hate fastening him in then having to fasten the seat belt around the seat and i certainly can't carry him in it anymore. He's obviously too little for a forward facing one so i've ordered one of those that go rear facing then switch to forward facing later. We did the same with ds1 when he got too huge for a carrier.

Hope all the snotty babies get well soon x

ladylush · 22/01/2010 10:51

Another snotty one here. She's had a cold for a few days but luckily it's not bothering her too much. I've actually got a much worse dose of it I think. Went to the steam room at my gym yesterday and am feeling a little better today. Put some vicks on - hope it doesn't put dd off when she tries to feed. I've seen snot suckers at Boots in the baby section. Dh sucked her snot once - I felt a combination of horror and admiration

Sleep dd is always ravenous after her bath in the evening. It's quite funny because she gets really impatient. She then feeds really well (unlike the day feeds). Last night I fed her at 7pm, 00:30, 4.30am and 7.30am. This is quite typical for us atm.

Feeding I am wondering how many feeds she needs a day. What is everyone else doing? Dd still exclusively bf with a teeny bit of fruit puree daily.

babyblue4 · 22/01/2010 17:12

WARNING This is a purely BRAG post... so please dont tar and feather me since I think its well deserved We have had a huge breakthrough with Marco and his seeping!! Last night, not only did he sleep from 10 til 5am STRAIGHT, but he did so in his OWN COT, which is currently in his OWN ROOM!!!!!!!! When he did get up, he gulped 5oz bottle from DH and back to sleep in his cot til 8:30am when he woke for a BF and up for the day. I had the best sleep I have had in at least 4 months! This boy has refused to sleep anywhere but in his swing (or the car seat) since he was born. Not only that, but the swing had to be in motion, or he would wake up. Well, yesterday morning after his bath, DH got him dressed and put him in his cot while he cleaned up the bath. When he returned, Marco was asleep. He slept for 3 hours!! We then figured we would try him at night as well, and it worked a charm! He is now asleep in his cot for his morning nap... no fuss! He was so happy this morning. I think I should go get a lottery ticket! End of me post

cuddles MissP I agree. My parents (especially my mum) were far from affectionate with us as kids. My DH on the other hand, was raised with hugs and kisses. When we had the DCs, I made sure that it would be different with them. I smother them constantly with affection. I dont understand how you could not want to do that??

colds This one seems to be mild. Marco is just slightly stuffy, no fever, and seems to be in good spirits. Hopefully the older DCs dont bring home any other nasties. The Norvol virus is going around here, and that one is AWFUL! I have had it a couple times and have never been more sick in my life

treats the cake pops turned out really nice. Will have to post a pick when I put the finishing touch on them I have threatened gross bodily harm if ANYONE so much as peeks at them before tomorrow!!

alibobble · 22/01/2010 20:01

phoenix I use this one nasal aspirator from boots. Also try to be cuddly with Dc's but am a bit rubbish about telling dd1 that I love her. Must be better. My mum was also quite distant in that way. Quite physically close but not much in way of encouragement verbally. that's probably a bit harsh but you get the idea. Trying to be different but it's hard to break the mould sometimes.

baby wow on the sleep. Long may it last.

colds a trick that someone told me if still bf is to put a bit of snufflebabe or vicks on your boob where nose will be when feeding. I did this with dd. Very helpful.

teeth suddenly we have 2 out of nowhere. Well out of a v unhappy baby! hopefully will get a reprieve for a while.

lady if just starting weaning offer boob first then offer food maybe? DD2 was having a million feeds a day before weaning. When I started out day went something like: wake, bf, breakfast maybe hr later, midmorning feed, lunch 12pmish midafternoon feed, tea eg 5pm couple of split feeds before bed then 10.30pm dreamfeed. Now that weaning established she's dropped the midmorning feed and lunch has moved forward to 11.30am and feeds are smaller but still having 4/5 feeds a day till we dropped the 10.30pm feed last week. Does that help any?

mot just had it done but have gone and lost he blooming certificate! Need to tax car this month. Must go back and pay £10 for another. Bah.

controlled crying not wishing to start another debate on the pros or cons but just add that have used a form of cc with dd from almost day 1 in a nip it in the bud kinda way. Is hard when people think of cc in a GF (she who must not be mentioned!) way but I read baby whisperer and that I found really helpful. what I mean by cc is that if you know that LO is fed, changed, winded and tired then you have to teach them to sleep by themselves. I actually use the clock when I was teaching dd to sleep by herself eg in naps. So if crying and was otherwise sorted eg fed etc then would leave for 2 mins, go back pick up, soothe, put down, go back after 5 mins, do the same then leave it like 8mins etc and eventually they do go off. It's hard but the pick up put down is less cruel than just leaving them to cry for 20 mins straight from the off. Reminds them that you ARE there but helps the forms sleep asociations that are not breast or your presence etc. Anyway, massive post over

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QueenFee · 22/01/2010 20:16

ali can you not tax the car online so they just check it electronically?

sleep I don't know what is going on with Alfie at the moment but he is waking 4 or 5 times in the evening before I go up to bed. He then wakes once between then and morning but is just wide awake not hungry. He was actually lying on the bed next to me at 1.20 not hungry (me asleep or trying to ignoring him) giggling to himself and playing peek a boo with the duvet! This is causing me a problem. I feel I can't go out anymore as I don;t think he would settle for DH as he doesn't like bottles. Help anybody!

Does anyones babies have a comfort object yet apart from dummies? Sadly Alfie wouldn't take a dummy but am thinking it would possibly be a good idea to intorduce a cuddly to help him?

I swing from very lovey to my kids to a bit short tempered when I haven't had enough sleep! Hoping they forgive me in the long run.

carseat Alfie has been out of his for ages! It was a bigger one too supposed to go up to 13kg. He was far too squashed.

lydiathetattooedlady · 22/01/2010 21:59

baby well done on the sleep! i put Bill in our bed last night and he slept until nearly 2, took 6 oz then til 6 then took another 6 and slept til 8.30!

ive put him in his own cot tonight but what ive done is ive put a pillow under his mattress sheet so his head is raised and so far not heard a peep, fingers crossed! going to slip my pj top in their too, hoping this combined with raised head will make him more comfortable as i think the lying down affects his reflux.

queenfee bill has a rabbit that he clings on to and sucks/chews!! although it doesnt help him at bed time as he seems to think its play time when he has his rabbit!

ali i think when Bills reflux improves i may try the cc where you do pick them up to calm them, with Bills crying he is always so full on, it never starts gradually its always a loud WAAAAAHHHH!

Anyway getting keys to shop this week hoing to get up and running in 4 weeks! Will work 5/6 days but dd will go in to nursery 4 days then in with me when we do half day on wed, and bill will go to nursery two days then will come to shop with me for the rest. Unless dp is off and he will have kids on the days they arent at nursery!

Phoenix · 22/01/2010 22:25

I got Noah this (blanket dog) when he was born and i keep trying too force it on him when he's going to sleep because he likes to hold my hand while he's dropping off, but he's having none of it.

Hope it lasts Lydia

for Marco sleeping all night Baby.

Noah hasn't had a bottle through the night for months so i don't get why he doesn't sleep in his cot. He's fed at 7pm and not again until 7am. Think i have to accept that he's a mummies boy

Misspaella · 23/01/2010 08:13

Phoenix 7 to 7?!?! Grrrr.

Cuddles I love them. Tristan is always in my bed getting snuggled by both DH and I. And we are the same with our older 2. I took DS1 to school yesterday morning and he kept asking for hugs while queuing in line for class. I was more than happy to keep giving. I am glad he is still at the age where I don't embarrass him.

Nasty cough Tristan's cold seemed to have elevated last night and we had to bring him into bed. His cough was awful. I kept freaking out he would choke. He seems much better after some Medised.

Lady I am doing about 6/7 (8-9 if he is having a bad night) bf over a 24 hour period and solids is a very very slow process. I am not planning to bf to x date (like 9 month or a yr). If it happens it happens BUT I am hoping that once he is taking 3 meals a day it would gradually drop to 3/4 bf a day. He does take a bottle of ebm a couple times a week but gets terrible wind from it.

Lydia I am excited for your shop. Will you also be selling items made? Do any sewing/knitting courses for the customers? There is a small "lifestyle" shop down the road from us that sells one off items (like dresses, aprons etc) haberdashery, does sewing/knitting courses and has a small area for tea/coffee and homemade cakes. It is like a domestic goddess one stop shop.

Baby great breakthrough!

QF how about a muslin cloth as a snuggle tool? BTW I am exactly like you. One minute on top of it (and happy!) with the LO's then next tired and overwhelmed.

Today I am in the tired and overwhelmed category.

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Phoenix · 23/01/2010 18:04

Activity - I got this car seat rrp is around £120 but its on Ebay for £69.95 free 24hr postage

We got the Britax first class at this age for ds1.

There is loads more room in them compared to the carriers. Especially for my little fatties

In other countries they have it that children stay rear facing until 3/4 yr old because its safer and i think they are trying to bring it in over here but the only rear facing car seats i've seen to hold a toddler are around £300 here

alibobble · 23/01/2010 21:16

make you laugh if you want a giggle at some funny cakes check this out: cake wrecks

car seat dd2 is nearly big enough for dd1's old car seat (forward facing) She's so squashed in car seat and feet well over the end of it. (she's over 70cm long now) can't wait as she'll be much happier in it and can put a proper big coat on her and be able to fasten the straps.

QF dd1 had a "bedtime bear" from mothercare and is still ineprabel from it so have got one (in blue) for dd2 as it washes really well and if you untie the knot in the hat they can sleep with it in their hands to help them "bond" with it. In the car on way back from my mum's today (40 min journey) dd2 was screaming as a bit over tired so i said to DH "get her time bear" and as soon as she had him on her lap she calmed down and went straight to sleep. Dd1's smells really strongly of her(even when washed which i do quite regularly) and I think it helps. bedtime bear

Sorry is only brief.

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QueenFee · 23/01/2010 21:33

it's strange because my other 2 had dummies teddies and blankets but Alfie has nothing and I think ne is starting to use me so think I need to give him something. DN suggests I give him little Horton elephants seeing as he has a whole box left over from a flopped promo at work! We may need to do a bit of getting to sleep withput mummies boobs training

Activity -strangely slightly jealous of AF as waiting for mine so we can TTC properly. PITA otherwise though!

Misspaella · 24/01/2010 08:55

QF my LO won't take a dummy either (older 2 did). I find it hard at night to sooth him so assume he wants a feed and bf instead. But a vicious cycle is occurring. He cuddles/feeds twice a night easily (between midnight and 6am) and then won't feed again til about 11!!! He is obviously full. HELP.

I am starting to feel beyond tired. Anxiety is sitting in as well. Not sure what to do.

Ali the site is funny.

ladylush · 24/01/2010 11:52

Morning all Got sinisitis so feeling a bit crap atm. Can't take decongestants so will have to rely on the steam room and some sterimar spray and if that doesn't work will be off to gp for ABs.
Thanks for all the replies re. bf query. Think maybe I am offering her too many daytime feeds. Will try lunchtime and mid afternoon (in addition to the 6pm to 9am feeds) and see if that improves the situation.

comforters dd also has a rabbit (chews the ears). Neither her not her brother have been interested in dummies. dd sleeps with her rabbit.

babyblue - great news about Marco Sometimes I think they like the cot and the space they have, yet sense of containment. Ds and dd both slept better in a cot as opposed to moses basket/ our bed. Hope it continues for you
QF - dd also has a chatty half hour at silly o clock. I feed her, put her back in her cot and leave her to chat away (go back to bed). Eventually she falls asleep.
Phoenix dd also likes holding my hand when she is going off to sleep (does it while bf) I don't mind as it is only night feeds.
Miss P is your lo's cold maybe making sleep worse? It's hard when they wake constantly for comfort. Ds was like this and his sleep only improved when he was 3 DD seems tons better by comparison.
Lydia dd was diagnosed with reflux as well though never tested for it - just by my description iyswim). We found out that she sleeps well on her tummy. I know you are not supposed to put them on their tums but this is the way she prefers to sleep. I think it helps her expel gas We have a good baby monitor (apnoea sensor built in) and we check on her regularly. I'm not so sure she does actually have reflux. She is sick fairly regularly but usually it's not digested milk. We don't give her any meds for it and it seems to be improving. Is Bill on medication?

alibobble · 24/01/2010 18:14

lady dd2 has always slept on tummy and hv told me at last check that it's fine now as alot of babies are rolling so chose to sleep on tummies. advice varies though.

sinusitis this is great. safe for bf. combine with paracetamol and it helps loads.

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ladylush · 24/01/2010 20:01

alibobble thanks for the link Might try that if the sterimar doesn't work.

ladylush · 24/01/2010 20:03

I daren't ask h/v as I had to confess to co-sleeping with dd until she was 25 weeks dd not rolling yet but I guess it won't be long.

babyblue4 · 24/01/2010 21:01

Take a peek at my FB I posted a short video of Marco crawling... or should I say dgragging