Morning everyone
Thanks for all your good wishes about F, I feel so happy and relieved.
More good news - we've found a house in the Lakes!! Just to rent but they'll take the entire menagerie and it's only 2 miles from my mum and dad. It's a farm cottage, detached, 3 beds, with its own barn. Hurrah. And the people buying ours (who had reduced their offer following the survey) called yesterday to increase it again. 3 good things in one day, brilliant.
Looby so pleased that you had a good holiday and M (and you) coped well with the flights.
night waking F is now waking twice in the night - he's 4 months today so maybe a growth spurt but I'm not even sure how hungry he is. Tummum, am very interested in your sleep training. Would you only get G if he cried? How long do you have to do it for before they sort themselves out? I'm not sure I have the willpower to ignore F - even when he wakes up and just gets restless I go to him; I've never waited until he cries in the night to feed him. I'm terrified of becoming the NSPCC advert!! Agree with Looby though, might be time for F to have his own room and his cot. Sigh. How quickly time passes.
DHs - eugh to those of you with DHs who take their socks off by rubbing them on the floor. That's repellent! Belgian, am with you on the taking off the shoes and scattering them liberally around the house. DH does it with his belt, too - it's always either on the dining room table or the lounge windowsill. He also walks past the empty dishwasher to put his dirty bowl / plate / mug in the sink. Why?! We've had a dishwasher for all of the 5 years we've been together; it's not a new addition fgs!
Spangle pleased the news on the op was good.
Question - we have a travel system with a pram / carry cot base, car seat, and pushchair. I try not to use the car seat with the wheels as I've heard it's better for LOs to lie flat where possible. However, the last couple of days while walking the dogs F has become fed up with the view from the pram of sky-trees-sky-sky and has whinged until I've picked him up and carried him. When have / are you making the move from pram to pushchair? He's ok with holding his head up and I would only use it for short excursions when he's wide awake. He still loves his pram when I'm out for the day and he gets picked out for cuddles in cafes etc, and can nap in it when he's tired.
OMG epic post, sorry!