Lol jas; I ignore 99% of mn and come on here totaly blinkered, so not being up to date with the mouldies thing is nothing!
You know, I have a friend who got a plasce at a 'good' school and felt so uncomfortable with it that she turned it down in favour of a 'bad' school, very happy, kid very happy,. I know its not alwys like that, but you never know how things'll tun our.
Flame, I could quite happily massacre both boys, so dont think you're alone! ds1 refusing to go to bed dtill and then tired in morning, says he hates year one is is never going back. ds2 has learnt to be not tired and refuse to go to bed, so that cuts into ds1's homework time