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Jan 07: Part 31. Nearly halfway through the terrible twos!

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Lizzzombie · 05/06/2009 13:05

Welcome to your spanking new thread girls.

Roll call please!

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eandh · 15/10/2009 20:14

Rgee- my Mum suffered with prolapse for years and years (my fault as was a 20min delivery start to finish) she had endless stitches/physio etc over the years (remember it spanning from me about 10 when she had a hysteroctomy to 18) and eventually she had a weave thing put in to hold it all in place and never had a problem since

Have finished the girls Xmas shopping and done small presents for bil/sil (we are having the comp with IL's for tackiest present for £5) so only got my parents/nephew/Nan/Aunt & Uncle and DH Nan and Grandad and Aunt/Uncle to do (oh and few friends children but am ordering loads of dvds and dishing those out to them )

Lizz - I knew that about Hastings! Treat weekend sounds lovely. It was DH birthday last Saturday and we went out for a meal with 10 friends (although DH, his best mate and BIL ended up in the hottub at BIL/SIL house at 3am bet the neighbours were impressed) DH didnt make it out of bed all day Sunday and hasnt touched alcohol since (and admitted he is getting too old for all night benders ) he is doing Maidstone half marathon this weekend

Shimmer - glad you are settled in the house, can't beleieve you are due soon

eandh · 15/10/2009 20:15

oh and so far on my childfree mornings I seem to be meetingfriends for breakfast/coffee or going shopping however I am going to start my walking/swimming plan from this week!

Shimmer · 15/10/2009 22:02

Ewwwwwww.... that's so gross about Hastings Lizz! Are you cooking another cake for DH? I really don't like Nina & the Neurons. I think it's her voice. Also the kids questions are sometimes completely ridiculous. Saying that I'd be happy to watch anything that's not Charlie & Lola at the moment. F is obsessed with it. He even sometimes talks like Lola.

I can't believe you've finished Xmas shopping EAH!

Hope the prolapse isn't bothering you too much RGee. Hope the exercises help!

laughalot · 16/10/2009 12:05

Hola peeps !!!!

Hows everyone doing ?

Shimmer not long now how exciting. Bless little f with charlie and lola our house is peppa pig or horrid henry .

Rgee bless you keep hope things improve very soon. Loving your centre parc pics p looks so grow up.

Lizz chuck us some cake , sounds like a fab weekend you have planned.

Where is everyone else ?

Oooh meant to say whos up for secret santa again this year and who is nominating eah to sort it .

Not alot to report here, school is going fab I love it and so hope I get a teaching assistants job at the end of the course. I spent a full day there on tuesday and boy it was hard work but I loved it. I do however have a assignment to hand in before xmas eeek.

We had friends over saturday night and they are early 20s so me being me had 3 bottles of wine got very pissed and threw up everywhere nice !!! Went to bed at 1 and l woke up at 5.30 nightmare.

Im of to see michael macintyre on monday night at sheffield and then thursday im having my hair done and im going dark . I have never ever been dark.

Lizzzombie · 16/10/2009 14:59

Chocolate overload.
Seriously, if I could chuck cake at you I would. I have so much chocolate cake hidden around my kitchen now. But not a crumb in sight!
DJ just licked the spoon from the chocolate genache icing and is running round like a loonie.
I feel very sick from too much chocolate now!

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eandh · 16/10/2009 21:27

mmmmm whose heading to Lizz's for cake

Got Ellie's school photo back yesterday (proof) have given her a seriously bad hair do aka croydon facelift have put pic on profile!

Wilkiepedia · 17/10/2009 08:08

Yo yo mo fo's.

LAL - am VVVVVVV excited about Monday night! Yey! We are row 50 though on floor so not sure if that is good or not?!?!

Lizz - c'mon admit it, DP is really your brother isn't he!!

Shimmer - how exciting you are due in 2 months and great news about moving into the flat!

EAH - did you get my email about the pushchair?? Have been looking out for that soap too but haven't seen any

L is doing really well, rolling around on the floor which is irritating as he gets stuck on his front and then flails and wails until I flip him back! He has only managed to flip back twice. Given up weaning as he totally wasn't ready. No teeth or anything but he is chewing everything in sight. Generally gorgeous and a edible .

Wanting to sell my Silver Cross 3D for £75 (!!!!!ouch!!!!!! - £350 NEW) if anyone knows of anyone wanting one. Will courier to them. Need a lighter weight buggy to attach buggyboard to.

Wilkiepedia · 17/10/2009 08:12

Buggy recommendations pls. Needs to be:

Lightweight, easy to steer but not cheapy flimsy
Come with footmuff
Be able to attach basic buggyboard to
Recline well (it is for my 4 month old)
No more than £100

HELP - I utterly hate loathe and detest buggy shopping!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

eandh · 17/10/2009 16:22

wilkie - just replying!

Shimmer · 20/10/2009 10:27

Hi all,

Lizz, or anyone else down our way, PCF?, do you know of any good kids hairdressers around the Brighton or Eastborne areas?

Freddie REALLY needs a hair cut, i usually do it myself, but I think it could really do with a proper cut soon. He is not at all keen on going though, so just wondering if there's somewhere around that has toys etc. and is used to screaming children??

TrickOrTReggiee · 20/10/2009 18:48

Funnily enough, my hairdresser's just moved to Brighton. She's never done P's hair though.
Isn't the in thing for boys to have long hair these days.....

TrickOrTReggiee · 20/10/2009 18:49

Wilkie / Lal how was last night?
And Lizz, how was the weekend of treats?

Bet you enjoyed the buggy shopping EaH!!

Lizzzombie · 21/10/2009 08:17

Shimmer - there is a childrens hairdressers near that bookshop we went to by Eastbourne Station. Its called Funky Viking they are supposed to be very good.
I take Dylan to a local barbers (The Demon Barber) there is a tatoo shop there too and its full of hot blokes. But the barber has kids and is used to doing childrens hair. He has a pot full of lollypops and is fantastic. He goes really slowly and will interact with him. (I am a little bit in awe of him) and it only costs £5!!!

Why don't you come over for lunch one day and get him chopped?!

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Lizzzombie · 21/10/2009 08:22

rgee - My weekend was really fun thanks. We went for a macdonalds breakfast in the morning, a miniature railway in the afternoon. Dp went out in the evening for a few drinks and on Sunday we went for a country walk/s and then out for curry in the evening. Was all very nice. I like not working on Saturdays.

Was on a training course in Croydon MothercareWorld yesterday and have been 'sort of trained' how to fix Britax seats. Have to say, after seeing lots of scarey films and photos, I am going to find it hard to not to sell people very expensive car seats from now on.
Did you know, from 2012 children will have to be in high back boosters.
I am in major danger of becoming a car seat bore, but, over 75% of people (it is estimated) have their car seats fitted in incorrectly.
Any questions?!

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TrickOrTReggiee · 21/10/2009 08:36

Lizz I will be looking for a new car seat early in the New Year for P as we'll move B to her seat. What;s your recommendation then? I want a high backed booster sort, am not sure of her weight but think she's quite light. It doesn't necessarily have to grow with her as we can pass it on to B. Ta!

eandh · 21/10/2009 10:17

I have the most fantastic high back booster for Hattie (got it after that twunt crashed into our car) wills ee if I can find link

Ellie has bog standard graco high back booster though

Wilkiepedia · 21/10/2009 11:26

Quick one - just bought JJ this car seat from Argos as he has hit 15kg. Feel happier and safer with him in this rather than his other one here

Back later

eandh · 21/10/2009 11:39

can't find Hattie's (got it in toys r us but not showing online now)

eandh · 21/10/2009 11:42

googled it and found it on a MN car seat review

this is Hattie's, was more expensive than we would have paid but since insurance paid for it it didnt matter

Lizzzombie · 21/10/2009 14:25

Rgee - How much is your budget? What car do you have and do you have isofix?

Basically you get what you pay for.
The video footage of the car seats is truly terrifying. Obviously any car seat is better than none, but its facinating to see the difference.
Basically all car seats in Europe have to conform to a standard (known as RD44) BUT this standard is very very low. Most car seats exceed this standard by lots as it is a very low bar they have set.
We have this one as it was all that the Halfords man could get to fit in our car at the time of swapping over from the incorrectly MaxiCosi Priori XP. I love it. Its great, as it will last until he is 12 years old. But it has to be fitted in either the upright or reclined position. It can't be altered when you are driving around like most stage 2 car seats. But if thats not a big problem for you Rgee then its a great seat as it will see you through P until she is all grown up.

I was shocked at the difference between how much more sturdy an isofix car seat is to that of a normal one too. Plus, something to think about EAH & Wilkie. With high back boosters, if you are driving around without the children in them, do you strap the (empty) seats in still?
If not, if you were in an accident, then the basic weight e.g. 5kg of empty car seat would add to the impact of the driver and passenger in the front quite considerably. So its worth keeping them belted in when driving around without the children in them.

Also, transferring babies from their infant carrier car seats to the next stage seats early is bad too. I have advised customers for ages that if their baby is big say at 6 months, its better to have them in a forward facing bigger one, in the recline position, with a head support. But thats not the case either. Babies should be in the rear facing for as long as possible. Unless their head is poking out the top they are fine. In a forward facing car seat their little bodies can't take an impact and basically their head gets 'removed' internally from their spine as the car seat straps will pull down on their shoulders and their bones are not strong enough to take it.

I was very surprised when the trainer pointed out I had isofix though, as the Halfords manager or my Mothercare manager didn't notice it, and the car sales man didn't realise we had it either! if we ever have another child then I will definately get one.

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Lizzzombie · 21/10/2009 14:27

Sorry that was so long. Another reason I love Dylans car seat is that I know he would be undoing an adult car seat buckle. But with our one he is stuck in a 5 point harness for much much longer!

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TrickOrTReggiee · 21/10/2009 14:58

Cheers for that folks. Most interesting.

We have a Ford Focus (no isofix) but may get a different car next summer.

Am happy to pay as much as for a good car seat (but was going to start looking now and hopefully get it in the January sales).

B's current rear facing car seat goes up to 13kg, so am in no rush to move him. He is only 8.5kg, however he is on 91st percentile length wise.

We have never used the recline on P's current seat, so recline isn't necessary. Would prefer a 5-point harness rather than just using the car seat belts iykwim.

Lizzzombie · 21/10/2009 17:11

have emailed you on Fb.x

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eandh · 21/10/2009 17:12

Lizz - that one we have for Hattie has a bar at the top that fits under the headrest at the back that basically means the seat is wedged in place and is a bugger to move and for some bizarre reason I knew that about fixing them in when not in use and I do redo the strap back up (mainly on Ellie's whilst she is at school as Hattie is normally with me the rest of the time. I may look into getting a better high back booster for Ellie now as feeling a bit guilty that Hattie has a superior seat in terms of safety.

Rgee/Lizz- Do you know Hattie has never ever touched the buckle on the seat belt I think I scared her once when I shouted at Ellie for undoing her belt too early (we have a rule that no belts undone until keys out of ignition and Ellie had undone hers as I pulled onto drive)

Right need to wash up tea things and chuck kids in bath as Ellie has reverted to a 6.30 bedtime (school must be wearing her out - hurrah)

laughalot · 23/10/2009 09:41

Jumps onto thread waving around my chocolate brown hair bit different to bleach blonde