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JUNE 2008- tantrums, shrieking and lashings of Gin (and that's just the mums!)

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pureeandpearls · 18/03/2009 07:21

Thread number 123 or something like that

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bitofadramaqueen · 18/03/2009 19:57

Amber that's brilliant news. So nice to read about.

System - so sorry to hear about your SIL's m/c. Tbh, when I had my second one I didn't really want people to know and was furious when my mum told my auntie. I dont even think I took as much as a day off work. But I did talk about it eventually.

Viva thank you for your kind words about my youthful good looks. Are you sure you dont mean that I dont ACT 36?

Brilliant news on the mat pay sponge. Us HR types aren't all so bad

Amber does he seem in pain when lying down? Could you try propping him up a bit? Guilty confession - when S comes into bed with us when he's poorly with a cold I always plonk him on the pillow as it makes it a bit easier for him to breathe. He's right next to me though and doesn't turn over when he's in bed with me.

Oh, I was quite amused to go in and wake S this morning to find him completely the wrong way round - i.e. head at foot of cot and feet at top. Right in the middle. No idea how he managed that without getting all tangled.

Thanks all for good wishes about work. Bit of a traumatic start today as S was howling when I dropped him off and it was the first time I had actually done the morning drop off. Heart-breaking

neenztwinz · 18/03/2009 20:14

Aw, that's a shame BDQ - and after we were being all hard-faced on your FB profile too! I am going to start looking into nurseries and CMs soon, once work confirm what days they want me to do (wed/thurs hopefully).

Amber, it is lovely watching them together, T likes to rugby tackle E, grabbing her round the legs .

bitofadramaqueen · 18/03/2009 20:22

Oh, I know! Dont tell anyone on FB - it'll ruin my rep .

There's a thread on puree vs blw on Chat that's right up your street Neenz. I was going to post but I MUST go and write a 1000 words or I'm doomed.

neenztwinz · 18/03/2009 20:30

Ooh great! I'll go check that out lol.

Amberc · 18/03/2009 20:35

systems - my sis was the same with her previous miscarriages. She didn't want to talk about it with anyone other than me (we don't have any other family) and kept it all a secret from everyone. Sometimes I think that when people are sympathetic and nice to you it makes you want to cry and people just don't want to cry and would rather keep it in. I know I am like that and maybe your SIL is too. Also talking about it just makes it more real. All my sympathy for her and your family.

vivaGlasvegas · 18/03/2009 20:58

systems I missed your SIL's news earlier, so sorry to hear that.

rolf why thank you, and may I say how small your derriere is looking?

C woke me up this morning as she was chatting to her toy elephant, v cute!

My daughter has a strange love for broccoli. last night she stored a floret in her cheek, hamster style, for an hour. I discovered it after bath time when about to give her her bedtime BF. bizarre.

Essie3 · 18/03/2009 21:02

Evening all! Had a bit of a mixed one here. It was lovely weather so I walked to get Iestyn, and he was in a lovely happy mood. And he had made me a mother's day card!!!
Because I'd been alone since Monday I asked Mum and Dad over for tea, and Mum fed Iestyn. She tried him with a homemade potato and swede meal and he immediately vomited copiously - she tells me he doesn't really manage potato by itself. So I cracked open a jar - chicken with rice, he can manage small lumps fine - and she got him to eat the whole jar. Then he choked and vomited copiously again. He's not sick, just a bit, well, choky?! I was devastated though, and I don't cope well with vomit. (Isn't there a term for that? Sponge? I won't go on the tube late at night in case a drunk person vomits. But it's not ruining my life. Mind you, it might start to do so now that I have a baby!) Anyhow, he's gone to sleep now but I'm finding this week quite hard. Don't know why.

Neenz really interesting that you confessed to not 'getting' poetry. I adore Shakespeare, but I thought it was interesting and it makes perfect sense because you're a journalist - very direct writing, make your point clearly and make it easy to understand - and also your personality; I hope you don't mind me saying that you can be quite direct on here, for example... Me, I'm not so big on art. I like nice pictures (to oversimplify and totally wipe out centuries of fine art!!) but I'm not an images person, I'm a words person. I love portraits, but I'm not keen at all on impressionists and that kind of thing. And I'm not welcome in modern art galleries because of my sniggering...out of ignorance, obviously!

Btw, all, my comment on Welsh poetry - not out of bias, I worked for 4 years on Wales' leading medieval poet, and poetry was a profession, like being a blacksmith, in medieval Wales and was until the fifteenth century; the poets were extremely high status, and the standard was kept v. high due to the strict rules (and closed attitude) of the bardic profession. The metres are also hugely complex but you still get meanings (and double meanings, and hidden meanings) even within the confines of the metres. Boris Johnson made his comment without thinking it through...unlike him! Anyhoo...

So philosophical...

Amber I'm really pleased for your sister but I really didn't think it was all over somehow! I'm a bit witchy sometimes, and I just knew she was going to be fine. Silly really because I haven't met her or anything, but I didn't comment much because somehow I was always thinking 'but she'll be fine'. Weird or what?

Off to be a freak all alone with my plain no-art walls and my books of high quality poetry now...

Essie3 · 18/03/2009 21:02

Oh my God what a massive post which says nothing at all!

vivaGlasvegas · 18/03/2009 21:15

Essie Emetophobe, if I remember correctly.

perhaps your modern art thing is related to the vomit thing? sometimes they can look remarkably similar.

neenztwinz · 18/03/2009 21:21

Ooh, thanks Essie, I always wanted to know how I came across on here!

I keep remembering how you said your 6-9mth clothes are too big for Iestyn... my two are still in 3-6mth babygros too (at 10.5mths!). They are getting a tad small not though.

I have had to step away from the BLW thread - it's dangerous.

neenztwinz · 18/03/2009 21:22

a tad small now

abdnhiker · 18/03/2009 21:34

This thread has made me laugh three times today. Thank goodness my pelvic floor is holding up! You're all hilarious (essie and viva this time!).

I'm like Essie, I really struggle to appreciate art. I love landscapes but that's because I love being outside. Everything else leaves me lukewarm. But words! Oh I love words! And maths. I love how maths can express ideas so perfectly...

Amber your co-workers idea of an ear infection is worth checking out. Sorry you're having such a crap time. It seems to be worse than the usual bad spells so maybe there is something upsetting him! Hugs.

Where's poppy disappeared to?

abdnhiker · 18/03/2009 21:38

Oh and Fraser's in a completely random assortment of clothes randing from 3-6 to 9-12. Mainly depending on how many times I've tumble-dried them (they are all hand me downs) .

Neenz - thank goodness you are confident and direct - with the twins you need to have confidence that you're doing things right! Can you imagine if you where hemming and hawing about whether you should try BLW?

Essie3 · 18/03/2009 21:53

Hahaha, Neenz I now get the irony of me being totally direct, no messing, and telling you you're direct! Duh!

Abdn permission to laugh again - I have been slacking on my pelvic floor exercises. So boring. I have two choices - start doing them again. Or stop laughing. Or sneezing. Seriously, though, in France you get given a pelvic floor check after giving birth, apparently, and if you're not up to scratch, then you get given some machine thing. I fancy that idea, but mainly because I was born lazy.

vivaGlasvegas · 18/03/2009 22:02

oohhh I love words too, and I used to love maths, until further maths A level many years ago put me off...

My favourite word today is borborygmi. Noisy bowel sounds - i.e., when your tummy rumbles. It's a lovely onomatopaeic kind of word don't you think!

still wearing some 3-6 months things here too, although I have a tendency to get bored of clothes and move C into the next size up things before they fit as I fancy a change!

pureeandpearls · 18/03/2009 22:15

Popping in briefly to say that I am having a mc. Really not capable of adding anything, so if you don't see me for a while, you know why.

But GREAT news about your sister Amber x

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vivaGlasvegas · 18/03/2009 22:34

p&p so sorry. my thoughts are with you. x

abdnhiker · 19/03/2009 07:36

p&p oh I'm so sorry to hear that! I'm sending you lots of hugs and hope that you're feeling okay physically.

As soon as I shut down the computer yesterday I remembered poppy is on holiday - not too swift here!

My pelvic floor seems fine, until I run down a hill. I think I'd better start working on that as it's really hilly here...

Rolf · 19/03/2009 08:44

P&P so sorry about your m/c.

Essie3 · 19/03/2009 09:11

Oh, P&P, really sorry about that. Truly awful for you and there's nothing I can say that's not silly or pointless. Will be thinking of you.

Amberc · 19/03/2009 13:41

Puree - just texted - so sorry. x x x

Amberc · 19/03/2009 13:42

Viva - you have really made me giggle with the brocolli and modern art comments!

neenztwinz · 19/03/2009 13:57

Oh puree, I am so sorry. We went through ttc together before, so I hope you are getting lots of support from the wonderful ladies on the ttc boards. FB me if you want.

systemsaddict · 19/03/2009 14:13

so sorry p&p, thinking of you

systemsaddict · 19/03/2009 14:16

Terrible night here again with dp, am 'working from home' today with kids in nursery (thankfully), we took him to GPs this morning as he couldn't swallow his own saliva and they were talking about admitting him but fortunately he has responded ever so slightly to the painkillers they prescribed now and has managed to drink a little and eat some yoghurt so I am arguing against going back - he will do better at home. He isn't completely sure, thinks hospital will be able to just hook him up to IV pain relief and he can just drift off till he's better, but in my experience it wouldn't work quite like that!!