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Sassafrass · 03/09/2008 10:13

Hope noone minds me starting our post natal thread now that the babies are arriving so quickly.

Arrivals!
28-May - Johnworf ? Katherine, 1lb 8oz
30-June ? KashaSarrasin ? Felix, 1.39kg
26-July - Jenbot - DD, 3lb 6oz
11-Aug - Crabby - Lilah 2.34kg
13-Aug - Sassafrass - Katie Rose, 7lb 2oz
20-Aug - Sunshinemummy - Effy Marilyn, 6lb 3oz
22-Aug - Talia1 - Anna, 6lb 2oz
26-Aug - Jenpet - Samuel, 3.166 kilos (about 6lb10oz?)
28-Aug - Potxola - Lorea, 7lb 6oz
31-Aug - Digitalgirl - Alfredo, 7lbs
1-Sept - Debithescot - Andrew, 8lb 10oz

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
barnpot · 07/10/2008 16:13

so impressed with lil belly bear (sorry for the baby talk) he spent all night waking up once for food on his pad(still in my bed, but at least i had a bit of space and could relax a little as he was on his apnea mat, and today hes had a 3 hour stint in his moses basket. hope it continues fingers crossed xx

MoonlightMcKenzie · 07/10/2008 16:17

LeonieD and Biglips With neither DS or DD have I ever had anything but floppy breasts and I have never in my life worn a breast pad for leakage.

Despite this, DS doubled his birth weight at 10 weeks and DD looks like she might do the same.

Deb That's a great summary

LeonieD · 07/10/2008 16:20

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biglips · 07/10/2008 16:45

i have added myself as when i was expecting DD2 at 39 weeks pg. whatta think?? as i was smaller but baby was bigger!

mum2bagain · 07/10/2008 16:51

Hi everyone, I've not caught up and been on in ages. Zachariah William is now 12 days old. He was born 7lb 11oz. He got weight today and is 8lb 4oz so he's doing really good. Only problem is SLEEP I am bottle feeding and he is having 3oz every 3 hours, even through the night, so by the time he has fed, got back to sleep, it's almost time to start over. Does anyone have any tips to get an extra hour through the night?????? I'm bog eyed!!

So how is everyone else coping. I'm going to spend a little time now catching up

eandz · 07/10/2008 17:17

i haven't slept for more than a three hour block since September 6th.

i would love some advice as well.

tomorrow my friend is moving in (she's offered to help me with baby if i give her free lodging) until she's done with her research project.

anyone got any advice?

digitalgirl · 07/10/2008 18:03

carrieon haha! thankfully DH didn't say anything to my mum so she's none the wiser!

Congrats to Munkimom and Plusonemore and welcome to the new arrivals!

Alfredo has done very well today, and after a fun afternoon at Tiny Talk (m&b group) is currently having his third daytime nap on the playmat on the living room floor. He did have a colicky/windy moment last night - but I think that's more to do with us feeding lying down and falling asleep so no burping. It then builds up through the night so at some point he cries till we jiggle it out of him.

Leonie Alfredo sometimes goes longer than 24 hours without a poo, sometimes he does 6 in one day. There's no telling what each day will bring.

Anyway - must scour the fridge for something to make for dinner (or scour the freezer for something to re-heat).

sunflower78 · 07/10/2008 18:07

Maia was weighed today - 8lb 14oz, 11oz in one week!! she's growing too fast!!!

must go make dinner too now...

meglet · 07/10/2008 19:17

notcitrus Don't worry about how you cope with your baby. You need to make sure you keep yourself sane enough to stay in control (most of the time!). I was a strict Gina Ford mummy with DS as I couldn't cope any other way. And with 2 kids I've realised that DD has to cry sometimes when I am dealing with DS. i've spoken to a few other mums with 2 or more said they had to do the same. As long as they don't cry for too long or too often I don't think it's the end of the world.

lolly really pleased the bf ladies helped you, I've heard good reports on them.

eek, must go DD is doing a poo. x

Sassyfrassy · 07/10/2008 19:27

Big welcome to the new arrivals!

Sunshine, I had my dd in august too but seeing as she as due in september and I had hung out on the sept antenatal thread there was no way I would go to a different group =)

Katie and I had a long nap today in the afternoon. We both slept in bed together for over 3 hours while dd1 was off at preschool. I then popped her in the sling when she'd been awake for an hour and she went to sleep without too much trouble. She's now fast asleep and this is usually prime time for the evening struggle so I'm feeling very relieved.

I had the contraceptive implant put in today. I feel really pleased with myself for having it done and now I don't have to worry about it for 3 years. I thought it would hurt a bit but it really didn't.

eandz · 07/10/2008 19:55

sassy

i was thinking about getting an implant as well since i conceived on the pill and a couple times on the shot....but aren't periods supposed to be uber painful?

what is everyone else doing for birth control?

notcitrus · 08/10/2008 00:23

thanksmeglet
A was a model baby all through theday yesterday -so of course at 7pm turned into hellspawn and grouched until around 9pm today, never sleeping for more than 30 min (and that upright on me). Even when MrNC took over, I ended up with insomnia!

thank god a friend came at 7 tonight, and I slept and rested and MrNC went to Mothercare with instructions to buy nursing pillows, a breast pump, infacol, and anything else that looked at all useful. Played with the pillows and managed a long feed with minimal discomfort, which was good, while friend gave me a foot massage. I suspect a 2-hour feed is actually A just playing after a while, but hey, he was clearly happy and is now asleep! In his basket! And has been for about 20 minutes!

Friend is about to take over grouching duty while I get some sleep. Will phone more friends in the morning and also get GP to check A.

eandz was thinking of the minipill myself, as only want contraception for a few months (was originally thinking of getting pregnant again ASAP, but now waiting until #2 would definitely be in the next school year sounds good...) Does need to be taken at the same time each day, but given I was fine on the combined pill, should be best option for lack of mood swings.

My stitches and all havecompletely recovered (can still feel where the catheter was, thiough) - I can hardly believe I've given birth! Although walking about 1km yesterday and Sunday was a bit much for the pelvis - I really am having to take this recovery slowly.

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MunkiMom · 08/10/2008 09:10

Morning Gals.
haven't really found that much time & energy to post since coming home on monday so luckily, this thread doesn't move at super extreme pace any longer! ((makes catching up a doddle!))

I do hope everyone is doing well. and that work surfaces/kitchens are that much closer to completion. hehehe

sage hope the induction/waters breaking went well!! and you have your end result!

righty, i suppose i should say a little something about my birth experience. well, i got to the day unit at 8am....nerves were in an incredible muddle. i was checked in with another gal i had met the day before. and i was put first on the list to go to theatre. ((of course, i was a little happy that it was to be done & over with early on this time, instead of having the day to become increasingly nervous!))

just before i was to be taken down to theatre, an emergency c/s arrived so i was bumped...but maybe for only an hour. so no worries. Got changed and waddled down to the first part of it, getting the spinal block and all the drips inserted. the gal who did my spinal was a trainee, i suspect. and i have the multiple hole-marks on my lower spine to prove it)) so far in both c/s's i' have found the spinal to be the most uncomfortable of the entire procedure.

anyways, i'm finally moved to the next room. the doc is waiting to cut, all is going fine. ((except i could REALLY feel the weight of the baby belly this time around, even though i was on the "tilt" table)) the assistants in the room are keeping the atmosphere chilled and a bit "funny-ha-ha" which is what i wanted. i have my mixed cd playing in the background to take the edge off the experience as well.

at one point, dh looked over the sheet at what was going on. and the look on his face terrified me!!! ((dont think he meant for me to see his expression!)) he said he looked over right as the surgeon had the baby's head in foreceps trying to get him out of the womb! i was a bit surprised at first...and a little irritated about the use of foreceps. anyways, all went well, ds2 was here just 3 songs into my mix cd . i was still quite chilled. he was weighed, and when they said he was 11 lbs 4oz, you could hear the giggles and ooohs & ahhhhs all from everyone in the theatre!! i said to the Mw: you must've had your elbow on the scale when you weighed him! that can't be right!" heheheh no one knew i was having such a whopper! it's the one time you will hear me say: I'm sooo happy that he was c/s!

but no, it was his true weight!! i think i laid there for the remainder of time in theatre, in shock. he's a biggun, but wow he's oh so luvely!!! Instant 3-month old!!

since i'm breast feeding, i'm ALWAYS knackered because of having to keep up with his feeding demands. it's non stop at the moment. i swear my nipples are going to fall off. the sting of early-stage-Bfing is present...and slowly dying off. and so i can get some sleep, i am topping him up with aabout 40-70mils sma with night feeds. otherwise, we'd all be up 24/7. i make PLENTY of milk for him, but i just can't keep up with him, physically/emotionally. ((i never thought there'd be sooooo much difference in feeding an 8lb baby (ds1) to an 11-lber!))

but all is well. ds1 is slowly warming to the idea that the baby is staying put! And of course trying to involve ds1 as much as possible.

MW came around yesterday to remove clips/staples but decided they needed 1 more day...so coming back today. not sure what she's done but since she put on the butterfly stitches yesterday, the cut is burning like mad!! i'm really really loooking forward to it being sorted and sealed very soon.

ok, so that was my novella for the week. (( terribly sorry that its sooo long))
i can hear the baby stirring so better be off for now!

biglips · 08/10/2008 10:08

my left breast was leaking for the first time last night as i was getting in the shower and it also felt full too. Good!. DD2 woke up once last night...so why am i tired?? zzzzz

think poor DD1 got a water infection as her bum bum (fanjo) was on "fire" as it looking inflammed so gota ring the docs now.

oh i put the wrong weight from yesterday DD2 is now 9lb 13.5oz so she had put on 10oz in 8 days even though she hibernated but she is awake in the mornings and also from 8pm to 11pm..constantly feeding but she is ssooo sleepy!! in the afternoons!

MoonlightMcKenzie · 08/10/2008 11:08

Ponymum Sorry about your panick. Poor you, and poor DH! Sounds like DD had a lovely time though.

MoonlightMcKenzie · 08/10/2008 11:20

Hello again mum2bagain and sunshine

eandz Sorry, not sure wot you are asking for advice on! Is it a job description for your friend?

Sassy Do you still get periods with the implant?

NotCitrus It sounds like you are feeling a little better and getting more help

Thanks for your birth story Munki. Were the forcepts because of the size? Keep an eye on your supply, and if things appear to be dwindling either drop the ff, or express a couple times a day to make up for it.

Hopefully Where ARE you? Are you okay?

foxytocin · 08/10/2008 11:40

birth control? dh is planning on the snip. heh heh.

MoonlightMcKenzie · 08/10/2008 11:44

LOL My DH has been with me whenever HV or MW have gone on about it and says:

'I have managed to prevent unwanted pg for 36 years thanks'

To which the mw once replied:

'Well there's always a risk unless you chop it off'

lol

foxytocin · 08/10/2008 11:51

about the crying thing being potentially dangerous: a one of crying bout because you cannot get to them is different from 'training' a baby to sleep alone and for long periods.

Sleep training babies can have a detrimental effect on their mental health, breastfeeding, and physical health including the potential of dying from SIDs.

I don't want to scare people, it is important not to listen to rubbish advice off friends and family sometimes.

I myself in some dark days with dd1 felt like I was losing my mind because of being alone and traumatised by her birth and couldn't respond in a timely way to her needs. I would advise others having difficulties to seek practical help from friends and family in order to cope. For me it meant swallowing my pride and independence and being humble enough to acknowledge to others that I was struggling.

this may provide some info on what I am trying to say.

eandz · 08/10/2008 13:34

moonlight
never mind about friend, i figured it out.

but yeah. birth control. what do i do?

how painful is the implant? will i get angry a lot with it? i'm a horror on the pill and it doesn't even seem to work for me.

MunkiMom · 08/10/2008 14:26

Moon i seem to be making plenty of milk for him, it's just me (physically) that cant keep up. also, i've had to express on several occasions as well since being home over last few days. and when i have that for spares, he will always get that as a top up instead of a ff. i'm sure it will all smooth out over the next few days/week.

but of course, if i notice a fall in supply, i'll definitely drop the ff first .

Ponymum · 08/10/2008 14:35

Hi sunshine. I remember you from the ante thread, welcome back.

Horror of horrors.. I have run out of breast pads! I placed an order last week but the delivery hasn't arrived yet... so I have improvised by cutting up sanitary pads and lining my bra with them..

Repeat mantra: "I am a confident, sexy, attractive woman."

((Gulf between optimistic view of oneself and reality of situation becoming wider by the day.))

eandz · 08/10/2008 14:44

ponymum

to be honest i used sanitary pads when i first started leaking (before the baby) i believe back then we were calling it 'nipple cheese' and then it became 'nipple juice'...

ahh the days of yore.

lollipopmother · 08/10/2008 14:59

I can't remember who said what so I apologise for these not being personal messages.

Someone was asking how to stop leaks onto the bed sheets - Pampers do sheets that are like massive square sanitary pads, they are really very large. I use one folded in to thirds to put on top of the changing mat, maybe you could invest in a pack of these?

Leonie - I think it was yourself who said your LO was being sick a lot and also fussing at the breast. I think you also think you don't have much milk ... well I thought this too and was shown to be very wrong. Elizabeth was fussing at every feed and it always ended early with her screaming the place down although I kept trying to get her to go back on with limited success. She has also thrown up huge amounts three times, it coming out of her nose like your LO. I thought she had trapped wind/colic. I think what was actually happening was that I was over feeding her. She put on 8oz in 7 days when I thought she would've lost weight. I have since made sure that I am not offering a feed every time she wakes up (now going every 3hr instead of 2hr), and instead I'm making sure she really is hungry before putting her to the breast (ie sucking her hand or getting a bit fretful even with a dummy). I've only been doing it three days, but so far I've not had her cry once at the breast, she's not fussed once just latches on straight away and doesn't come off til the end, and she's not thrown up either. She no longer cries from 7pm to 11pm. I don't want to insult your intelligence as I know this isn't your first, but I just thought I might mention my experience as there are similarities. I think I was just massively anxious that she wasn't getting enough and so was offering too often and her fussing was actually because she didn't particularly want it, which I mistook for there not being enough milk there or because of her colic.

To people using Infacol and finding it hard to latch on because of the slime, I have found that leaving it a couple of minutes for Elizabeth to finish swallowing it has helped and has had a 100% success rate, up until then I was giving it to her and then putting her on the breast straight away and it just ended up in a screamfest or a massive fuss because she couldn't latch on properly, which frustrated her even more etc.

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