pmsl Jas- glad you're busty Friz!
Didn't post details last night- too upset and slightly angry.
Baby is well and healthy, and was kicking away like a loon (just as DD did). The sonographer said she couldn't tell us the gender.
Maybe I'm reading too much into it (I'm not the emotional type, but I am pg ) but I definitely felt as if she wouldn't rather than couldn't.
Baby had it's legs stretched at full extension, not as if they were crossed over in front of genitals FFS.
I am really upset, as I really needed to know what gender- I am someone who cannot stand the unknown, or not knowing what is going to happen. I hate surprises, and I need to plan a lot of things for our family based on the gender of this lo.
I know that at our trust they often won't tell asian couples what gender they're having, it was an asian sonographer, and we have a weirdy, asian soundingish surname . I am same colouring as DD, but DH is mediterranean appearance, would pass for Italian/Greek/Egyptian (his heritage!).
I am looking into private sexing scan now, which is annoying, as I really could be using that money for other things. (like a new travel system as DD's just gave up the ghost )