LG&T - in all seriousness, I would love it if you would come and stay. We are away 8-18th of July, but anytime bar those dates, you are so welcome.
Jam - poor puppy! I must confess (at the risk of being ostracised) I am not an animal person though...
Tilly - no idea. Great response about the Staffs meet up though, .
Sky - dh was too busy on his laptop to be crying. He did say lots of helpful, soothing, calming things like, 'You've done this to her', 'You need to be stronger with her', 'You've made a rod for your own back', though. Knobcheese.