oh and have heard from the farmer, but not really sure what's going on
he has changed his mind and said can he not just pay us more so that we can rent another house ourselves......the problem is that although he would be paying us more than before, we would actually be nearly 6k a year worse off as we would have to pay more tax, and would lose two thirds of our tax credits payments......I have tried explaining this to him, but not sure if he gets where I am coming from (must be lovely to be blissfully unaware of how the other half live hey?) so not really sure what is happening atm
Just feel like we keep taking a step forward, and then 2 steps back iykwim and
but on the plus side, dh has apologised profusely (so he should!) and is now helping me to fight our corner (better late than never!) and things are nearly back on track with us. I love him dearly, but I am a rather independant, but insecure person, that at the first sign of trouble would rather just sort it out on my own - even when I am in labour, I don't want anyone to talk to me or touch me
anyway.....how are we all tonight???