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alicet · 23/01/2008 13:05

Hello ladies!

Well here is the new thread so I can link it before the old one runs out... Hope you all find it!

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alicet · 11/03/2008 10:30

J2O honey just reread my last message to you and it sounded really sanctimonious! Didn't mean that at all - I will go along with the others that you really shouldn't feel embarrassed and stupid - sure we've all done things that we regretted after in our lives!

Inzi I guess you'll find out when you have your scan won't you!! Impressed you've been so 'active' though - dh and I are far too tired most of the time! Could probably count the number of times on 2 hands so more than some but you have the energy!

Floria sorry the day started off less than good... Sounds as though it wasn't too bad later on though - it was never going to be easy was it but at least you had a lot of support even if dh was away. Know what you mean about the circle of life - one of the lovliest ways I have heard this put is in the film Shadowlands - it makes me cry everytime I say it! Don't know if you have seen it but Anthony Hopkins character says 'the pain now is part of the happiness then' when he loses his partner... Sums it up really nicely I think - that you are only sad because you were so happy and wouldn't it be worse the other way round?

Stefka tried to send you the sleep file last night but not sure it worked - computer was messing about. Sounds from your most recent post that you have it already but give me a shout if you'd like me to resend it...

Thinking about highchairs again - we also had this portable one by Phil and Teds for Sam. Can't put on pedestal tables which we have - I would actually say this was better than the main one we bought if we had had the right table in our house! Definately a great thing to have (fits in the pocket on the back of my change bag) for when you're out and about.

Well Choc will shortly be here for our usual Tuesday of lunch followed by baby massage - looking forward to it! She has also kindly offered to look after Adam while I go for my scan this pm which will make life much easier... Flying solo tonight as dh is in London overnight and back late tomorrow so wish me luck! Be thinking of you Inzi and Floria! See you later!

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J2O · 11/03/2008 10:51

morning

FT-sorry about your crappy start to the day, bloody dog, like kids, never ehave when you really need them to. glad you had people around you for the day

Alice-don't worry, i always take posts in the way they are meant, i think am very envious that you and choc met up every week, wish i had one of you lot nearer me!

i hate doing this, but i can't concentrate on what others have said properly, sorry for those having bad nights, Shannon woke a couple of times last night, but i think i just functioned without actually waking. no sign of af, going to get a test today.

oh a quick question, Shannon had blood in her poo this morning, but she was straining hard as she hadn't had one yesterday, and also it was very firm stools, should i worry or is it prob from straining?

have a nice day all x

alicet · 11/03/2008 11:17

Inzi I have done 2 pregnancy tests after dh said 'I can't find the strings anymore and didn't look the last couple of times!' I nearly hit the ceiling!!!!

J2O I wouldn't worry about a tiny bit of blood as a one off if she's been bunged up. Maybe take her to the doc if it doesn't settle though but I'm sure itsw nothing serious from what you say...

Adam grizzling - off see you later! x

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Dalrymps · 11/03/2008 11:50

OOh J20, fingers crossed it's the result you want, we're all here for you x
floria - sorry you had a bad start to the day yesterday, our dog is like that most of the time if that makes you feel any better, she actually gets less and less obedient (sp?) as time goes on, just doesn't listen to us at all anymore
uh oh Dylan just filled his nappy, back soon x

muppetgirl · 11/03/2008 13:02

Hi all...

I ache in places I'd never found before I am sooo unfit it's not true

I've just got back from meeting my BSL tutor and she's fab so I'm starting on Thursday and are very excited about it! She's deaf herself and has 3 hearing children who all signed from 9 months onwards. Henry was well behaved so it was a lovely meeting. He 's at nursery on thrusday when I have my lesson so I won't have to worry that he's okay.

Oliver was fab yesterday as I cooked him kidneys in red wine wich he loved so he's still being a star with trying new things -still hates cauliflower and eggs though. We made cakes that we are going to decorate this afternoon with icing and baubles from the baking cupboard.

See you all later, are off to tidy the middle floor as I only got the ground floor done yesterday, rest of house looks like we've been burgled

ejt1764 · 11/03/2008 13:45

Hi all ...

Just nipping in - we've had a crisis over Mairwen's baptism - so I'm trying to sort that out at the mo' ...

J20 - hope af arrives soon!

stefka - if you can't bear the crying - try The np-cry sleep solution - I'm using it, and I'm finding it a lot more gentle, more realistic, and less harrowing ... I swore after we had all the sleep problems with Rhydian that I wouldn't make a child of mine cry it out ever again (most of his sleep problems were because of crying it out ...), so this is a lot more realistic.

muppetgirl - great news about your BSL course...

Hi Dal, Inzi, FT, Mine, and anybody else I've missed ... off to try and sort this mess out now ...

p.s. looking forward to meet-up next week!

alicet · 11/03/2008 19:40

Hello ladies!

Muppet I would ache too if I dared to exercise!! Sounds like all going really well for you at the mo with the BSL course and Ollie being a little star! Nice one.

J2O hope the test is neg... Thinking of you xxx

Stefka I have read the book ejt recommends too. I have leant it to Choc but can't promise to send it on to you as I think we might need it back ourselves soon !!! Adam has been a little better this past week so if things sontinue and she doesn't need it anymore we can send it on but with both of our babies not being great sleepers that might not be anytime soon!

ejt hope you get the baptism crisis sorted... Looking forward to seeing you and others next week too!

Just chilling for 5 before I have my tea - then off to try and do some packing for our holiday and trip to mum and dad's!

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J2O · 11/03/2008 19:43

Hi guys
it was NEGATIVE woohoo, thank god.
right i'm in the middle of getting Shannon ready for bed so i'll try to get back later

alicet · 11/03/2008 20:54

Great news J2O!!! Bet you're relieved honey xxx

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J2O · 11/03/2008 21:02

very Alice, don't know what my af is playing at, but i've got pmt so shouldn't be long lol

FloriaTosca · 11/03/2008 21:11

Happy for you J20

EJT;hope the problem with the baptism is quickly and easily sorted

Muppet; glad you have a lovely BSL teacher and at Ollie eating kidneys in red wine; I know several adults who wouldnt even try that!

Alice; have a fabulous time..

Stefka; I can't bear Alexs crying either...when he wakes he rarely starts crying straight away, he grumbles, huffs and puffs and if he is hungry it starts to escalate and I feed him...If Dareh cries immediately I understand why you need to tend to him... I totally understand the exhaustion you are suffering and I hope his sleeping continues to improve bit by bit until you find the "cure".

ejt1764 · 11/03/2008 21:31

problem sorted ... the baptism is on 30th March, and we were going to have a "do" afterwards in the church hall - which is currently undergoing refurbishment ....

you guessed it, it's not going to be ready ... AAAAAGGGGGGHHHHHHH - we have about 70 people coming, and our house is nowhere near big enough to accomodate them all ...

Anyway, in a fit of genius (even though I do so so myself), I thought of Penarth Conservative Club ... it has a function room, a bar, and lots of parking ...

have been to see them, and booked it - only costing me £40 to book the room ... although I must say, the political me is very uneasy giving money to the Tories ... but the Labour club is a real dump and the Legion don't hire out rooms to non-members - and neither does the Yacht club ... so needs must!

Am knackered - Mairwen has not slept properly all day (how does Choc cope) ....

The book (no-cry) is on loan to a friend from church at the mo' ... there's absolutely no point in trying to sort out M's sleeping until the reflux is no longer an issue ...

Going to bed now, night all!

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MrsFish · 11/03/2008 21:50

Evening all.

J20 - I am so relieved for you... now be more careful next time

Ben has been unsettled the past couple of nights, last night both of them were at it, as soon as I had settled one the other started [yawn] off to bed in a minute as I'm knackered. Been on my feet alot of the day in the kitchen too, made the first part of my nieces 4th b'day cake will finish it off on friday and also some purees for Ben and lunches for me and Sam, its surprising how much of the day that has taken.

Oh and Ben rolled over for the first time today from his front to his back I have been putting him on his front for a few mins every day and he really doesn't like it, but has shown no inclination to move. This evening he was on the bathroom floor watching Sam and DH in the shower so I took the opportunity to cream him all up, so put him on his front so I could do his back and he just flipped himself over, I was so surprised Now he has done it once he keeps doing it.

Can I be really cheeky and put a link to my justgiving page? I am doing the race for life for cancer research in May and need some sponsorship. here it is Please do not feel obliged, if I was working I would tap my workmates

Dalrymps · 11/03/2008 22:45

J20 - yippee! bet you're relieved
mrs fish - done
got to go for now as mr grumbles is calling x

Mine · 11/03/2008 23:04

Hi ladies

sorry to all those with sleep problems.... i don;t know how you do it... i've only got one lo and find it hard to take care of him, the house, myself and dh, but some of you have more than one lo as well as all the rest!!!

j20 - phew!! I can hear your relief!!

I've been pretty manic the last few days..... ds has defo started teething as he's going off feeds, is grumpy and chomping on his hands and dummy like mad.

dh and i went out to dinner at lovely Indian restaurant tonight with my sister and her boyfriend. We had such a lovely time.... food was yummy, but best of all ds was an absolute angel.. yes we even took him too! He just sat in his maxi-cosi all night perched on a chair and chomped on his delicious hands all night, then nodded off whilst we chatted away. Dream child tonight.. means he will make me pay tomorrow!!

Cousin coming over tomorrow for lunch and bringing her 8 week old twin girls... its there proper first outing.
I don;t know how she does it..... i certainly would not be able to cope with twins. I think i would literally crack up

MrsFish · 12/03/2008 08:40

Thank you Dal and Ejt

AnyasMum07 · 12/03/2008 13:18

Stefka - was starting to wonder where you'd got to. Sorry you're still having trouble with Dareh's sleeping. Re solids - we started at about 19 weeks - baby rice first for about a week, then started pureeing stuff - root veggies (carrot/parsnip/butternut squash (which takes AGES to prepare - not doing that again!) /sweet potato/swede) and fruit (apple/pear). She likes everything so far. I got Annabel Karmel's complete baby & toddler meal book - that's got lots of ideas in it including menus from weaning onwards. We've not done anything exotic yet but only because the freezer's stuffed full of the 'first tastes' stuff.

Highchairs - we've not got one yet, but a couple of the mums at playgroup recommended quite a basic one from Ikea - it's only £15 and in plastic, making it very easy to wipe the food off .

Lots of people meeting dh on internet! I met dh at gym - he still goes a lot but my membership lapsed a long time ago. We were friends for a few months before we actually got together as a couple, but then we got engaged a year later and married in 2003. Anya's been a long time coming!!

FT - glad you got through your day ok and you had plenty of support, even if it did get off to a bad start.

Impressed that some are managing to find time and energy to do the deed. Glad I'm not the only one counting on fingers of one hand though!

Just made a mental note to be more organised - if Alice and Choc can meet up every week then I'm sure FT and I can manage regular get-togethers. Should make the most of having another one of you nearby. You free next week FT or are you busy over Easter?

Muppet - kidneys in red wine sounds very exotic! Did wonder when it's ok to give food soaked in wine to lo's - wine goes in most of my cooking and seems a shame to miss out. (5 months is obviously too early )

J2O - good news on your pg test.

ejt - what do you mean you're not a member of the yacht club ?

MrsF - well done Ben at rolling! Anya hasn't rolled now for about a week - she's probably forgotten how by now so will have to wait until the urge takes her again. She has started doing sit-ups . If she's laid down she lifts her head & shoulders off the floor. No worries about her neck muscles then(!) I'm sure she's trying to sit up, though I've only let her sit up once or twice for a couple of minutes each time. Still no word from the hospital .

Mine - well done at lo for being such an angel.

How did everyone cope with the storm last night? Any damage? We had a drainpipe snap completely off so dh is off to get some new pipe this afternoon - not sure how he's going to fix it into the ground though? That's quite a lot of damage for round here - we don't usually get anything at all this side of Manchester while the rest of the country's being battered.

Hello to everyone else. Can hear dd stirring...

muppetgirl · 12/03/2008 19:55

Hi all

Mrs Fish -done!

Ledbury meetup lot - Are very excited to be meeting you all!

J20 -

FloriaTosca · 12/03/2008 21:24

EJT- glad you got sorted..we have recently been looking at the local masonic hall as a possible venue if we can finally decide whether or not to christen Alex now or wait until he can choose his own Godparents... I hope it all goes wonderfully for you and Mairwen.

Inzi-(((hugs))) sorry you are feeling so lonely..it can be a lonely business this mothering malarchi at times...I hope you have a lovely time with your sister.

Mrs Fish- well done Sam for rolling. I will be donating as soon as I have my paymentcard back again.

Mine-sympathy with the teething, we are going through it too Well done on the meal out..Alex has been for a few pub lunches but not out in the evening apart from to friends or familys houses.

Anyasmum- Double your at the hospital. Good on Anya for trying to sit up without their permission! I'm free next week on Monday 17th if you are We bought the Ikea highchair..2 of them actually, 1 for us, 1 for Mum (mil already had one)though as we are not weaning yet it is being used more as a play staion at the moment . The storm took out 2 fence panels and cracked one of the polycarbonate sheets in the greenhouse down the middle(thank heavens they were glued down!)so nothing too drastic.

Better get off now...its our 4th wedding anniversary and I think Dh is feeling neglected

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MrsFish · 12/03/2008 21:39

Thank you everyone Now I need to start training. I've been doing half an hour sessions on the cross trainer, but road running is another matter

FloriaTosca · 13/03/2008 10:04

MrsFish;I'm in awe.Dh bought me a treadmill/running machine for christmas...I've used it twice!The dog has been on it more often than I have! Ridiculous really when I know I have so much weight to loose and we are going on holiday at the end of April and I really would preferr to be back in my old size 14 holiday clothes than have to buy new in size 18...I just can't seem to whip up any enthusiasm for excersise anymore ...I really should take your example as inspiration.

Well...for a me, me post my lack of news is that after getting bit concerned, as J20s recent scare made me realise I've not had a visit from AF since I had my coil fitted on Jan 14th, and as I woke feeling queasy this morning I did a pg test ...but it is most definately negative ........so the IUD is definately doing its job. Question is, is this normal? Is it BF that is keeping Af at bay? Or was Alex my bodys' last ditch effort and am I now getting menopausal?

Our news on the Alex front is that he is trying to crawl..he has always been able to push himself up with his arms but suddenly on Tuesday night during his bedtime massage, he started getting his knees underneath him.... he just needs to get the two things together nowas he is either head up wondering why he isnt moving or face down, being ground into the carpet as his knees push him forward LOL....his gurgling, chuckling delight in being told he is a clever boy is such a joy to behold ...he is so wonderful, is it any wonder I was half hoping the IUD had failed?

Last night, our wedding anniversary, was really pleasant..we had intended going out to "our" restaurant (the Italian where we had our first date)but I was teaching until 8.00 and by the time we would have got Alex to bed and got changed etc it would have been after 9.00 and as Mum had been sitting with Alex since I started teaching at 2.00, it wasnt fair to ask her to stay another 3 hours or so. Also, as it was a "school" night and we didnt want to be rolling in late ourselves either, so we just had couple of Tescos finest pizzas with garlic bread, GU Chocolate and orange truffle puddings and a bottle of Chianti {mmmm}, cuddled up together on the settee, listened to "our" song and chatted....
...with our son sleeping soundly...lovely!