Abby, if she's having 35oz of milk a day she's getting plenty of everything she needs. A only has about 20 to 24oz a day in 4 bottles. Are you still feeding at night or trying to squeeze 5 bottles into the day time? I physically can't get any more milk into A - if I try she gets sick at bed time.
What usually happens is she gets up at 7ish. She's not keen on breakfast but sometimes chews a bit of my toast or will have a couple of spoons of my weetabix. I make 8oz bottles for her but she usually has about 6oz at 8am.
Bed for a nap around 9am. At about 11.30am I make her "lunch". Sometimes she has a "sandwich" - a slice of bread, buttered, folded in half with a bit of meat or something and cut into small pieces. She sucks the butter off, chews a bit of bread and filling and throws most of it on the floor. Sometimes she has our leftover dinner from previous night, so cooked carrot sticks reheated, bits of boiled potato, small chunks of chicken etc. Then either yoghurt or fruit such as chips of banana to squash up/ eat, she LOVES pineapple and will suck and chew "triangles" that I cut off a ring until I have to wrestle the skin off her. She'll also have thin slices of apple or pear. (Not all at the same time obv - she's not actually a big eater.)
About 6-7oz milk about 12.30pm and not usually more than 5oz around 3.30pm.
Erm, so if she has a sandwich at lunch, then we don't have any more bread and it will be the meat and veg pieces in the evening, if it's been meat and veg at lunch, then it's toast or fruit at about 5pm.
7 to 8oz milk at bedtime between 6.30 and 7pm.
So she basically will eat anything at all - she's never refused a foodstuff on the basis of taste. She just won't eat mush and prefers to feed herself. Sometimes she'll eat bread, a whole yoghurt tube, then fruit and still have a fairly good tea. Today, for example, she had about three spoons of stew at lunchtime and didn't want any tea at all.
Most of what I put on the table (we have a Trip Trap so the table is her "plate") ends up on the newspaper under the high chair, but you can see the carrot sticks have lumps chewed off them and sometimes she lets me help her pop the pieces of food in her mouth with my fingers, so you know some of it goes in.
She'll eat if she's hungry. Don't take my word for it, but if you're giving her bottles more often than every 4 hours during the day, then she's probably stuffed with milk, tbh. They say not to "cut" their milk, so I suppose it's a matter of waiting until she grows a bit more and when she gets hungry, upping her "food" rather than milk, iyswim.