Just pick the big lumps off katy it'll be fine!
M's dad doesnt even seem to thunk hes done anything wrong. He said he'd assumed he was having her next weekend as it'll be 4 weeks since he last had her, despite him hardly ever sticking to the 4 week gap. And he said he has a card to give her with pressies and cake when he sees her. Hence me wanting to comment that she does still exist when she's not with him. He offered no excuse or apology. I said that I had said he could have her next weekend after the last visit. I'd also suggested we discuss presents so she doesnt get the same things, and what I said last night about she would have liked some sort of contact on her actual birthday.He hasnt texted back I am in the process of writing him a letter because he wont talk on the phone to me without turning it into an argument. I want him to pay for some school trousers and dresses she needs and possibly swimming lessons (now the csa has dropped by £50 a month and soon to drop even more despite their family income not dropping). And that I think he should make the effort to come and get her/bring her back more often. She is his daughter and goes to see him for the weekend. The journey time is at least 9 hours total with food/toilet stops and thats time he could be spending talking to her. But instead he makes his dw and their 1 yo daughter make the journey which of course is more like 17 hours for them He has only come down once
oooggs - glad you had a better night We did too, D was grumpy so I gave him some medised and managed to get him to swallow it this time (he doesnt like it AT ALL! Will but calpol night next time) and he slept from about 9 till 3.15 which was good cos I woke at 3 in a little puddle of milk! My boobs arent used to him sleeping! Then he chucked most of it back up cos he's not used to quite so much in 1 go but he was asleep by 3.35 and slept then til some time between 5 and 6 I think but I'm happy with that.
Anyway he's shouting atm for breakfast and dps moaning because he's actually having to do something other than sit on his arse playing PSP! Better go