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Mrsjaffabiffa · 25/08/2007 13:20

Thought it was time for a new thread.

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
Pebblemum · 05/09/2007 22:44

Sky I joined the mumsnet group and the Portsmouth one but thats all so far, still a facebook virgin myself.

SKYTVADDICT · 05/09/2007 22:55

Think i've found you too pebble - have requested to be your friend

Lupins71 · 05/09/2007 22:56

CAM I have emailed you, thanks for the skype info - will give it a go when mum is on there tomorrow

AM I wouldnt worry too much about your hv saying you should wait - when i explained how hungy A was I was told to dod it when he was aroung 3.5 months actual age - not adjusted - better a contented baby as long as you stick to puree fruit veg and baby rice, gla Ella is much happier

Scoot I think the meet up is planned for portsmouth - or that sort of area,

Pebble - grrrr at them letting off fireworks!!

Hope you all get some sleep tnite

cameroonmama · 05/09/2007 22:59

Ha, now you all made me do it, Facebook virgin here. I swore I wouldn't but the pressure is too great. How do I find you all?

SKYTVADDICT · 05/09/2007 23:09

cam - i clicked on groups and typed in mumsnet. There are currently 394 members of the group. I found 4 so far - recognised by photos/deduction. Good Luck.

elkiedee · 05/09/2007 23:56

Several people on this thread have posted on the mumsnet group "discussion" outing themselves with their mumsnet name. April found me, don't know if by that or she recognised me. You can also look through who your friends' friends are.

aprilmeadow · 06/09/2007 07:28

Sky - I have somehow managed to remove you arrgggghhhhh. Can you try requesting again please

Off to Coventry today to see my Grandad and introduce him to Ella.

Hope you are all well and catch you later x

Mrsjaffabiffa · 06/09/2007 07:42

Have a lovely day AM.

Sky I'm on there, look for me, I'll be your friend. I might find you and send you a request first though.

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AbbyLou · 06/09/2007 09:11

I'm going to have to get into the Facebook thing aren't I? I registered a while ago but don't have a clue how to use it. Yesterday I went on and requested to join the mumsnet group, what happens now? Who decided if i am worthy of joining?

cameroonmama · 06/09/2007 09:34

April have a lovely day - you are so well connected I am trying to find everyone through you

Pebblemum · 06/09/2007 11:10

Dont know who decides if we can join the mumsnet group but they cant be fussy they let me in there lol.

Have spent the morning trying to decide if we should get ds2 a bouncy castle for his birthday. They dont cost too much its more finding space to put it lol. My neighbour has offered use of her front garden (its bigger than mine) but then i would end up having to invite all the kids on the green and a few others that always turn up at the first sniff of a party. It wouldnt matter if they were invited or not, if their mum knew there was a party she would turn up with her 4 kids in tow, act all suprised and then make it hard for us to tell them to clear off. Our only hope is if MIL lets us use her garden. We could use ours but it would mean dismantling the trampoline, the jungle gym and finding somewhere to put the rest of the toys out of the way (our garden resembles a playgroup with all the slides, seesaws etc in it lol.

cameroonmama · 06/09/2007 11:36

Pebble your house sounds like fun, can we come

Now I've done the blasted Facebook thingy everyone keeps writing on my wall and I can't keep up

Just back from the HV and the mahooosive boy clocks in at 8.3kgs/18.5 lbs. Not bad for 17 weeks. Mores the point, she was very sensible in her weaning advice, try and wait til 20 weeks if possible but don't beat yourself up about it, if he is waking a lot in the night either try a ff top up before bedtime or start on some veg puree at supper time, but most importantly go with your instincts and do what feels right. I like my HV Actually she is a bit odd but she does do her job well..

Scoot my lovely, watch out for the postie

AbbyLou · 06/09/2007 11:40

SOH thanks! You just became my first ever Facebook friend - what an honour for you!
Cam what is all this wall business? That is the bit I really don't get!

mummymelling · 06/09/2007 12:02

Hi there, dont know if anyone remembers me, havent posted since late last year, too busy moving house, having wonderful DS,recovering from birth etc etc

Lupins71 · 06/09/2007 12:25

AM have a good trip to your grandads

CAM nice to here you have a sensible sounding HV, well done on the weight gain

Mummymelling - welcome back, hope you are all doing ok

WooooooooHooooooooo I am having my 1st day (apart from the one where i was cleaning all day b4 my mum came up) with just me and my baby!!! Dp has decided to try going to work for a day, Willow is at school, she enjoyed herself yesterday so said she would go back again, its sooooooooo nice and quite, Arlen has been cooing away and i have been tidying up ready for the party - fantastic!!

twelveyeargap · 06/09/2007 12:46

Pebble, we had a bouncy castle for a party when DD1 was 5 and had to put it out front. Invited the whole class (about 26), but at final count there were over 50 kids "at the party". Firstly (and I find this REALLY inconsiderate), parents were arriving at the door with invited child plus older and younger sibling and saying "off you go now" to invited child whilst the other two looked miserable, so you end up asking them to stay. Then of course all the kids on the estate heard there was a bouncy castle and turned up. Had to do three extra trip to the supermarket for junk food. (Thankfully it was not a poncey middle class area where the parents expected foccacia and sundried tomatoes for their kids. Coke and sweets all the way.) DD1's dad had to keep physically removing older boys from the bouncy thing so the little ones didn't get squished. That said, it was a great day and DD1 still remembers it as her best party EVER!

SOH - Are you still co-sleeping with M? I hear a lot of people say that babies who are co-sleeping wake up for feeding more often. I think partly it's because you're aware every time she's awake. If she was in another room, or even in a cot, then she might snuffle around and go back to sleep without you knowing. Can confirm this is the case with A. I co-slept a lot of the time with her on holiday and she "woke" far more often. I expect if you're going to co-sleep for quite a while, then you might start waking less often yourself - even if she does. I'm wondering if she's "snacking" in the night, because you're there, rather than being starving. Sometimes I fall asleep after I hear A on the monitor and she must go back to sleep herself, because it will be another couple of hours before she wakes again and properly starts fussing for food. I'll stop now in case I'm talking arse.

A slept for 5 hours the other night, so we're kind of back to where we were before the holiday. Have a feeling she won't sleep through until she's weaned. She DID let me have a lie in today though. DH got her at 6.30 when she woke. (He misses her when he's at work, so that's a bonus that he'll get up now, hehehe.) I fed her, had a chat to her and conked out. We eventually got up at 9. Hurrah! Feel slightly more human today.

A had her BCG on Monday. Really vile injection that is. They give infant BCG's in this borough. Second round of jabs next Monday.

Off to baby massage today with two ladies from my NCT group. Think I'll drop into the weigh clinic on the way. She's only be weighed once since she was born. I'm only doing it out of curiosity really. She's clearing growing.

largeginandtonic · 06/09/2007 12:53

B sleeps much better in his cot and in another room, he fidgets alot in his sleep often wiggling all the way to the top of the cot by the morning! If he was next to me i would defo wake up.

Whats all this about a south meet??? Have i missed the boat, blardy hope not. I seem to miss all the meets, i want to go to the big xmas one but think financially i will be a cripple in December. Train\car, meal, drinks, hotel etc..

Scoot pmsl at 'Disco Dolly', sure you looked fab!

Im off to facebook now to try and track some more of you down!

Mum2G · 06/09/2007 13:05

Hi all

Glad it is not just me feeling teary! Anyone having hot flushes too? or is that just me rushing around trying to be organised , G and i went to baby rhymetime at the library today, blimey it was packed, G kicked his legs so think he enjoyed it!

I have joined facebook too, my sil introduced me to it when they came at the weekend, not sure what it means to 'poke' someone though ( i'm talking in the facebook sense!), SOH have found u and requested to be your friend, i have also joined portsmouth and asked to join mumsnet, will endeavour to find some of you too!

Mrsjaffabiffa · 06/09/2007 13:35

hey lg&t, sorry about our zombie fight.

Abby Lou, Your wall is a bit like this, you can write a post for someone and leave it on their wall. BUT everyone can read it so if it's anything personal then best to send them a message rather than useing the wall. I am becoming addicted already, very sad, I'm sorry to all about my zombie too but please join my army I wan't to beat my SIL who is a mighty, top, very scary zombie.

WTF!

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AbbyLou · 06/09/2007 13:54

Thanks for info Mrs JB. Now for next question, what on earth is a zombie?

largeginandtonic · 06/09/2007 14:06

Abby you also need a rabbit\blubit\purpabit, also excellent fun. We can duel each other!!!

largeginandtonic · 06/09/2007 14:15

Please pet my bluebit Linus......

AbbyLou · 06/09/2007 15:33

LGT how do I get one?

aprilmeadow · 06/09/2007 17:23

Back from a LONG drive to Coventry. My least favourite journey. Very hard as my G'dad had his voice box removed nearly 2 yrs ago and i struggle to a)understand him & b)see him looking so frail. Was delighted to see both the kiddies.

Welcome back Mummymelling.

LG&T the meet up was the one down by you.....

Bensonbluebird · 06/09/2007 19:34

Aidan has also been waking more frequently and I remember DS1 doing the same thing at 4 months. I posted a to wean or not to wean? thread and got some good advice that I thought made sense. There is a bit of developmental leap at 4 months as they get more and more alert, so that , coupled with a growth spurt can make them wake more. Many people start weaning at 4 months and the baby sleeps more, so they think it is the weaning that has done the trick, but perhaps the baby would have just got over the blip and started sleeping longer again. I'm still really tempted to start weaning though! I want my sleep. DP asked "why are you tired?" the other day. Hasn't he noticed me getting up numerous times a night for the past 4 months?