Not a prayer of catching up, but wanted to send my love and I hope everyone is doing well.
Did read a few posts, and ooogs, I changed when PG with G to washables for DS1, and now use for both children and I would NEVER go back. Wish I'd gone with washables earlier with DS1. Love, love, love them.
You can get birth-to-potty nappies, eg Motherease do some really nice ones. Others come sized. You could of course go with terries but I am not woman enough for those! I like the shaped ones. And you will need wraps, which do tend to be sized. I don't soak (ugh!), I use the drawstring bags that go into the machine with your nappies, and I wash once a day (in the evening). Occasionally need a pre-rinse but not often. Any stains are taken out by line drying - but to be honest, I think I've had about one!
Octo is the person to talk to (sorry, can't remember all the new names ) or Dippy or Maveta or Nutty, from memory. Octo in particular, I think. And I heartily recommend the Nappy Lady service and Flamesparrow's wonder Bum Fluff site.
Hope that helps!
Bugmum x