I have posted this 3 times now so sorry but pinnions hadn't read my reply
no prob octo
Hi ange
hi sokl
pinions - have no probs here with road safety, but answering back, slamming doors, "I don't want to" and generally being horrible except with dt's (which is a slight blessing) he is 3 going on 13. He is really pushing it and testing my patience - which has run out trying really hard to like him love him to bits, oh and reverted to wetting himself - alot trying to deal with that carefully aswell. And to think in 3 years time I will have it doubled
On a positive note I am seeing the physio tomorrow am for my shot through tummy (lack of) muscles and dts are sticking to a good daytime and bedtime routine - hurray