Well, put it this way, I won't be sending anyone any carrotcake, it's more like a biscuit, tastes nice though, just a strange texture. Might use ordinary flour next time with the dairy free topping, that was yummy!
Wilkie sorry you're feeling crap. For what it's worth this is absolutely the classic time to start feeling like this. Four months. Hits everyone every time. The tiredness has caught up with you, any babymoon type treats have worn off, you might be worried about going back to work, people ask how you are less and so on, and if you feel like you don't get a break then that's hard.
Mostly you need to kind to yourself. Can any of your friends with babies do a swap with you or something? Try and time it so at least one of their naps is due and you race off to have a massage, or, is there somewhere with a creche, just for an hour? I rarely have time away from F, it seems a treat when the others are at school and when he's asleep, I TRY to sit with a book or whatever rather than cleaning {yes, I do some!) or washing, I hate doing the washing and then before you know it they're awake. Are you going back to work? Keep reminding yourself that you'll have plenty of baby free time then.
Also, although it is annoying that your dh says things like that, it really isn't worth resenting it. Of course they SHOULD just do something else or know what to clean without asking and so on, mostly they just don't and you may as well let it go over your head, even if you inwardly groan and think that YOU have to think about it.
Can you do some stuff you enjoy in the evening, if he's bottle fed you could go to the cinema could you, or theatre? Sounds like I'm preaching now, but I would lurve to go the theatre. Sigh. Have to be a breast squirt away at all times!
Hope you feel better. It's the tennis soon! Pimms and strawberries on the sofa while LO plays on the floor? Ok, maybe that's just me
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