No advice on the shoe front lady - DD is almost the opposite: constantly asking for her "do-s", we put them on, then 2 mins later she's taking them off again...
Feeling rather pleased with myself today as went into Jojo Maman Bebe and picked up a dress that was reduced from £20 to £15 (still a lot to pay, but it's going toy be a "special occasion" dress (birthday parties, Christmas and anything that requires her to look vaguely smart). Anyway, we tried it on in the shop and one of the buttons dropped off - it's a pinafore dress. Took it to the counter and informed them that the button had just fallen off: they took off a further £4! Bargain! 
happy we're getting demands to read particular books at the mo ("Hat" - for "Rosie's Hat" and something that resembles "Gruffalo"...not that we're BIG Julia Donaldson fans in this house
)
Hope you're doing ok Anna...