Ah, Time, 'just keep swimming' as DS1 would say. I found DS1 similarly difficult. Don't forget she's only 8 weeks corrected, right? Do whatever you can to maintain sanity (in regards to naps etc).
Don't worry about swaddling. If you're worried about it (I think the SIDS link is to do with overheating) or if she's escaping try a swaddle pod which zips up - she won't escape and it's only one layer of fabric.
And remember that sometimes they just won't be calmed. When DS2 gets going when he's tired, nothing makes a jot of difference. Of course, I'll pick him up and cuddle him but whatever I try (bouncing, dummy, singing, walking, etc) nothing makes a difference, so often I just get comfy and cuddle him till it's over. And sometimes, if we're both tired, rather than risk him waking if I put him down, I'll just make sure we're well supported and 'rest my eyes' a bit! There's no harm in it, he'll only be tiny for a short time (well, he was tiny for a tiny amount of time!) and we'll both feel better after.
As for having a few hours in the chair - DS2 is currently still in his car seat fast asleep in the lounge while DS1 eats and I mn on the sofa. Again, a temporary bit of sanity.
Ooh, well done Missi! Did he fall asleep with no fuss? DS2 will fall asleep in his crib but after much picking up and putting down (due to the tired-crying as mentioned above!). Hope the physio appointment is/was all good
Sympathy for the screaming session, maybe. Mine did the same this morning. Why are groups held in such echoey halls?!
Lol, doc! Sorry! I bet they've seen it all before!
Ah, he's waking up. Good job, my boob is massive!