Good work on the teeth O! I can only hope P's will be the same... No experience with infected eczema, but I think puggle might be able to help.
I don't have much faith in our HVs nature, but the GP did a phone appointment and said she wants to see her and I just have to phone up each morning until I get an appointment. It isn't urgent I don't think, and I expect they will tell me it is an ear infection and there's nothing to be done about it. If the hv at her 1 year check hadn't told me that her lack of speech could be linked to glue ear caused by ear infections then I might not have bothered at all.
DH has to have P for an evening in a couple of weeks while I go to my friends memorial service thing. I'll leave during dinner, so he'll do bath, Night Garden and bed but I won't be there to feed her. Tonight I gave her a cup of her follow on milk instead of bfing her, and so far she doesn't seem to have noticed at all. Is she going to wake up hungry at 3am?