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sybsie · 01/06/2014 14:29

Ha ha ha ha....we wish!

Here's to a lovely relaxing summer and cheery new thread for us all.

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TheInvisibleHand · 28/10/2014 18:54

have pm'd you.

dieds meant to say how happy I was to see your post about DS's parents evening. I know it wasn't the easiest, so very pleased it has come good. Mine on the other hand is a monkey! He's charming enough and quite sparky so they all like him, but the teacher did say she has to spend a lot of time telling him off. They do still have quite a bit of growing up to do - he just isn't really fully in control of himself!

mckayz · 29/10/2014 08:28

Hope you all have a lovely time this evening.

ShadyLadyT · 29/10/2014 16:31

Am coming, but sans Claud...

IAmDeids · 30/10/2014 17:44

Hello ladies. Gosh this thread has been quiet lately! I'm guilty myself. I don't know why I agreed to all these extra hours before I leave! Guilt I think for leaving, ridiculous!! Still looking forward to the new job in a few weeks and going back to 3 days.

Still the money will come in handy as we have booked to go to Disneyland Paris at Easter. We are telling them on Christmas Day (extra present bonus!). I'm already so excited!!

You look you all had a super time on last nights meet up. So glad vag got a good send off. Although seeing all your photos makes me sad I don't live nearer. One day we will meet!!Grin

Currently sat at DS swim lesson. It's like a sauna, feel slightly sick. Although little man got his 50m last week do he's doing very well!

Lady how are things going with C? And how are you coping?

Jam sorry about your Grandad. Hope the funeral was okay and your enjoying catching up with your family.

IAmDeids · 30/10/2014 17:44

ShockShockShock This thread started on the 1st June, we must chat more!

mckayz · 30/10/2014 18:38

Deids, we are going to France at Easter. Think we're doing Disneyland on the Wednesday. The boys are really excited.

MontserratCaballe · 30/10/2014 19:14

So sorry to miss you all last night. My babysitter had a family crisis with her brother being admitted to hospital, which I only found out this afternoon. Glad you had a good time and hope we can get together again soon. It is lovely to see the photos on FB. We really haven't changed a bit since we all had cheery newborns at the Festival Hall. Could we try to meet before Christmas? Or should we put a new year date in the diary?

Talking of Christmas, who is up for Secret Santa? Ho ho ho.

Deids, I too feel sad that the thread is quiet, yet don't contribute much myself. Must try harder. We have been out to Crystal Palace Park today and are trick or treating with friends tomorrow. I bloody hate Halloween. But once it is done, we have Bonfire Night, M's birthday and then Christmas. Hurray. I am excited already. Have done an Ikea raid this week and bought lots of Christmas cushions, some fairy lights and a gingerbread house set of tins, as the ones which are ready made always break. I remember meeting Verso in Ikea a few years back for some Christmas shopping. Happy days.

Deids, your boy is amazing! 50m at not yet 6. Fantastic. I hate watching swimming though. It's always too hot and I too feel slightly sick. Good on you for doing the extra hours. The ££££ will make it worth it. When does your new job start?

Kayz, when is your lovely husband back? Will he be home for Christmas?

Arti, any more news on the move to SE21? Am keeping an ear out for school places. Think Lady's idea of renting a v small place to get a Lambeth postcode is a good one. There is usually a bit of movement in the summer, if not before. I think A is year 4 currently? I will see what is occurring when I am back at school.

Right, I am offski but I will be back. We have been chatting now for over 6 years. We mustn't let this die off (and I am one of the worst for absence, I know). Love to you all XXXXX

IAmDeids · 30/10/2014 19:39

Kayz that would be great if we were there at the same time!!

Sybs I start on 24th Nov (DS birthday).

So DH may be temp posted to Wormwood ScrubsShock. Is that near anyone? (London knowledge is poor). If he does have to come down I may be forced to come visit him and maybe some of you lot?

IAmDeids · 30/10/2014 19:41

Oh and I loathe Halloween. I basically try and ignore it and hope he DC's don't ask too much about it. DD knows I'm not keen so doesn't really bother. Although I love Bonfire night and the run up to Christmas!

Honsandrevels · 30/10/2014 20:05

Hello all,

Sorry, I've been awol. So much going on and a balls up with the hospital meant I've been anaemic since June and no one told me Hmm, it is 6.6 at the mo which is ridiculously low. At least it explains why I've been so tired. I spoke to a lovely Dr today who has referred me for intravenous iron infusions.

LadyT What an awful time. I managed to allow dd1 to flop onto a coffee table when she was 4 weeks old, I remember the awful wait in A&E. How is the scar now?

Deids So glad you had a good parents night. Can't help on the London knowledge, sorry!

Arti Wow, how did the showstopper go? Dd1 wants to make a gingerbread house again this year. It was fiddly, hard work and then just gathered dust on the side. I must try and muster up some festive enthusiasm!

Beans You should have sent that email. Dh goes on and on about jobs he does but I don't hear a thank you everytime he pops on a pair of clean socks.

Dd2 wants to be a kind owl for Halloween so wish me luck for trying to cobble that together tomorrow Smile.

mckayz · 30/10/2014 21:02

Maybe Sunday Sybs!! Should be Tuesday but his relief arrives on Saturday. There's no decent flights from Aberdeen though on a weekend.

He will be home for Xmas. Which is lovely. We are so busy though as the loft is being turned into the boys bedroom and DD is finally moving out of our bed and into her own room.

IAmASkeletonLover · 30/10/2014 22:15

flipping heck hons i don't know how you are on your feet with an hb that low!

Last shift of placement tomorrow and then i shall catch up with all you lovely ladies.

i shall be needing your ideas and probably kicks up the arse and slaps around the head. We looked at a house for sale over the road. complete project. Hot water still heated by open fire ffs (ours is heated by a closed fire. perfectly modern in comparison) but i think we might buy it.

ShadyLadyT · 31/10/2014 00:14

Not a massive fan of H'ween here either. What a party pooper! I don't mind Halloween-lite, as in a few pumpkins, a witch or two. But anything gory or creepy or nasty...ain't my bag.

Last night was lovely - sorry to all who couldn't make it. You're right Vag, you aren't really leaving cos we're always here.

am excited that you might have a trip to the Smoke, DB! The Scrubs is West London. Arti is West, and I am West in that I am West of London Grin and Rubes is South West of London. I think everyone else is East, South or North but I'm sure they'd be glad to see you! When? For how long? And 50m is amazing!

blimey Hons, you must feel awfully droopy. Glad they have got it clocked now but how rubbish! Scar has really perked up the last week, thanks. Feeling all round better. It's just the blimmin' awful nights. Er, and never getting much done in the day either. But she is such a cutie pie.

This is a a feeble post but I need to put out the light before little Madam is up again. Indith, is it a lot more space for your money? It would be a lot to take on...but I am a risk taker (well, a gambler anyway) so would say go for it. Whilst keeping in mind it will be a pain in the bum when you are doing it.

I HOPE to come back and reply to more stuff.

Vagolajahooli · 31/10/2014 01:37

Feeling very melancholy after a night out with five ladies who have each pop in at different times in my life over the past 16 years. Two of them for the whole 16. I met up with them at a great secret terrace cafe at London Bridge. I decided to walk home & sobbed the whole way. I've been so lucky to meet so many amazing people in my life. But leaving them sucks, seriously sucks.

Hons that is almost transfusion level. I'm from peads so obviously a bit different. But I'm sure we transfused close to that level.

Vagolajahooli · 31/10/2014 01:40

I'm a bit of a saddo, but I love Halloween. Mainly because the boys love it so much.

Deids that is amazing ds did 50!!! Seriously awesome.

And thanks so much for last night ladies. What a lovely night. I'm such a lucky Vag.

Honsandrevels · 31/10/2014 10:11

Just tried to calve our pumpkins, they seem to be made of concrete.

They'd rather avoid a transfusion and stick to iron infusions (not sure why) but if I start feeling breathless I'm to go to A&E and demand blood! Can you imagine?

LadyT Hope the night waking settle down to a more manageable level.

Indith Wow very exciting to be contemplate a dooer upper. Is it much bigger than your current house?

Aw Vag, it must be a very emotional time.

Honsandrevels · 31/10/2014 10:12

Carve pumpkins even!

Vagolajahooli · 31/10/2014 13:25

Calve is a brand of peanut butter in NL.

So Hons are you going to start dressing all black & gothic and sharpen your incisors.

beans39 · 31/10/2014 19:07

Oh ladies, I'm so very sad that I missed the night out. properly gutted.

So... Halloween. I love that the girls love it, but I find it v Americanised and a bit cheesy. am a bit bah humbug about it all. but DD1 has gone trick or treating and then onto a sleep over with her best friend, DD2 had a fancy dress party and DD3 has screamed since about 3pm, in the way of a horror story. I have been almost driven almost to distraction by it. I am a bit depressed by her behaviour. and DH now away on one of his 4 weekends before Xmas. feeling a bit blue. But DD2 and I are watching Brave together for a movie night and I'm pretending I can't hear the occasional roar from DD3 upstairs! DD2 is so starved of attention that she's been behaving quite badly recently, so am sharing a bed with her tonight to make her feel special. hopefully it'll set things back on course. DD3 also horrific, but am pretending it's down to teeth and exhaustion. not that she's a bit of a horror.

have cricked my neck and back too. am having physio at home tmw. heaven.

not really that blue, just peeved that DH is away when I feel so bleddy knackered. Whine whine.

on the upside, DH has taken the dog with him, so we don't have to walk her all weekend!!!! lazy, moi??

Just having a lovely cold Staropramen as well. deeeelicious.

beans39 · 31/10/2014 19:10

I lie. I am not having a lovely cold Staropramen. I've finished one in 4 long swallows. bliss.

Plus the weather has been just beautiful today. what a bonus.

vag, I feel sure you will meet some glorious new people in Oz, as well as your great old friends. you're such a special upbeat person.

ZuleikaJambiere · 01/11/2014 00:10

Beans I have also been abandoned by DH this weekend (well he should be back late tomorrow, so around on Sunday). This weekend is a last minute work trip (arranged last night), next weekend is social, then a stag weekend at the end of the month. All of which mean I have to drag DD1 to her swimming lesson at early o'clock tomorrow morning and entertain DD2 in the sauna. And my once a week 'night off' that I've recently negotiated to go to a Pilates class (in an attempt to recover my core that the girls truly wrecked) has fallen through for the last 2 weeks due to his sodding vegetables. So woe is also me

I've been looking at all the fb pics of your night out and I'm so darned envious. I am still cursing the germs that wrecked the mini Northern meet up last week. Enjoy the rest of your UK tour Veg. I see on fb that you may be doing the U.S. with the boys, is that before you go back to Oz?

Dd2 was dropped on her head at 6 weeks by DH too Lady, and I also couldn't be angry with him, as he was too angry with himself for my opinion to make a difference. I'd like to say it's had no lasting effects, but maybe the continuing tantrums aren't terrible twos after all grasping at straws

Congratulations on the new job Deids, and also for super Deids boy on the parents evening and swimming, what a star he is, but we all knew that anyway

Hons that iron and blood demanding is rather dramatic, I hope you perk up soon. It's reminded me that I'm supposed to have 3-monthly blood tests and I reckon at least 6 months have passed since my last. Oops, must ring the Drs

Right, I've still not gone to bed, despite planning for a 10pm early night tonight, so I am turning in. I know I've missed plenty of you, sorry my dears

mckayz · 01/11/2014 03:46

Hons, I hope your iron levels pick up soon!

Change of plan means DH should be home about 10pm. He's driving home from Aberdeen but can't set off until about 4pm. Really looking forward to having him back.

IAmAPaleontologist · 01/11/2014 10:26

So.

So so so.

I have finished placement. Quite sad really as although the stress of assessments has been getting to me I have really LOVED placement and felt that I was working really well. Got great feedback on my assessment too. Sadly my practical exam was a bit shit. Results are available in uni already but dh in Leeds Monday so I won't get in until Tuesday. Am petrified tbh. I have often felt as though I might not have done particularly well but I have never felt as though I might have failed.

Your night out looked amazing fun. Glad you all had such a good time. Vag I'm sad I didn't get to see you but you are right, we will all stay in touch here and on FB.

LadyT I'm in awe of you being on the night out! You are amazing. Hope all is healing well.

Arti how are you doing? I've lost a little where you are on moving/trying to cut back working front. Hope you find a way to working things out.

Deids I was so pleased to see you had such great feedback on your boy from school. You have a lovely little boy there and it is brilliant to see that he is thriving in the right environment.

Beans how is the weekend going? I too need to try to get back to pilates type stuff. My core in non existent. However I seem to have spent the past shift eating cake and chocolates Hmm. Maybe next week Grin.

Kayz have a fab time with dh back!

So the house. Well, this house over the road came up for sale in August and we've not bothered to look at it as it involved a lot of work, no internal pictures on but we knew there was everything to do. But then we looked at it last week for some reason we can't quite work out and we think we can do it.

Current house is 3 bed plus office but with no space to go in to as bedroom 3 and office are in the loft already. No garden apart from a postage stamp at the front facing the road. Been here 5 years and we have put in new external doors, modernised the electrics, fixed the roof and put in a new stove and heating pump. So spent a fair bit. Now is desperate for a new kitchen and needs a fresh coat of paint throughout. That's what we were going to do until we saw the other house.

Other house is 3 bed, 2 reception room plus teeny tiny smaller than a box room kitchen. More of a cubby. BUT it also has a full height cellar (currently storage only, not lined etc), the loft is not done and it has several outhouses and a big garden South facing down to the woods and the stream. The gardens sometimes get flooded. But it is all on a hill so the houses never do.

We will have to modernise the electrics, rip out the storage heaters and put central heating in (so a good chance to go to lpg or oil), skim and replaster (it has artex on the walls!), basically do everything. The kitchen cubby would be a utility with one reception room as a living room and one as a kitchen/diner. Plus of course bloody good survey and check of the roof, chimneys, damp proofing etc. Because of the hill you go in at street level at teh front but at the back the cellar open into the yard and you have to go down stairs from the back door. So the cellar has good windows.

We think we can buy it and do the work to get the basic 3 bed bit and kitchen, electrics, heating etc done so we can move in and then sell our house. Then equity from our house allows us to do the loft which won't be too disruptive (I know I know) because there is a massive cupboard on the landing where the loft access is which would be where the stairs would go so no need to move walls and affect bedrooms etc. We'd put 2 single rooms in the loft so then we'd have 3 single rooms so one for each child and then a double room for us and another double room for guest room/playroom.

Crucially we'd have a much smaller mortgage at the end. So financially we'd be a lot better off. And the amount we'd spend on it isn't ridiculous, it would add up about right to what it would then be worth if we were to sell. Which we wouldn't.

Also, if we can talk to the sellar and convince them to exchange but to delay completion until mid Feb then the house will have been empty for 6 months so we'd be able to get a £5k grant from the council and a £15k interest free loan. So we'd be able to do the loft before moving and thus help do things like bring the central heating up there and other such useful things.

Then we can save up to do the cellar so by the time the dcs are a bit older we have a teenage den to throw them into Grin.

So bigger, future proof house. Much smaller mortgage. Financially better off.

BUT we have to be able to sell ours and not lose too much money on it. I don't think we can hope to get what we bought it for even though we have done a lot of, sadly invisible, work to it because it looks so tired. And the housing market isn't exactly booming around here.

BUT no chain attracts people.

Are we mad?

It is a lot of work. But then can't be too bad doing most of it before we move in can it? And we are only over the road so easy to supervise.

ZuleikaJambiere · 01/11/2014 12:45

Indith that sounds like an amazing opportunity, as long as you're not afraid of a project (and it sounds like you're up for it). I Cant think of a good reason why not. Given your worry about your selling, what is the rental market like round you? Could you find a tenant to cover the mortgage for a year or so? It the the potential for everything I want in a house - utility room (which we have), play room (which I wish we had) and future teenage den (which I also wish we had). Quite tempted to take a look myself!

IAmDeids · 01/11/2014 16:11

Indith the house sounds perfect!! I'd love to get one to do up and put my own stamp on it! Go for it!

I'm sure you've done super, and there will be nothing to worry about come Tuesday!