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StuntNun · 13/05/2014 23:17

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Wandathewindfairy · 20/05/2014 22:16

What buggy is it yw?

PurplePidjin · 20/05/2014 22:21

YW I bought an Ergo insert in TKMaxx a couple of months ago for my friend who's expecting later this year. £3.99. Worth keeping an eye out, although they're only about £15 new iirc

You could of course get a stretchy and learn to tandem Wink

Elizadoesdolittle · 20/05/2014 22:22

E also likes saying bye bye to absolutely everything and everyone. Tonight it was saying goodbye to whatever was on the page in a book before we turned the page. Makes reading take a very long time.

yw I know its a while away before I need to worry about the double buggy issue but am already having that debate with DH. I really do think I'll need one but DH seems to think E would be fine on a buggy board. I don't think she will. I'll be doing the school run so will need to get places fast. I can't see her reaching the handle bars to be able to hold on properly!

DD1 was much improved today and managed to go to nursery. She's only in tomorrow and then it's half term again. That's come round quick.

My due date is 2nd Jan. I said to the dr "what a shit day for a birthday". To which he replied "that's my birthday" Blush but he did agree that it's a shit day for a birthday!

BigPigLittlePig · 20/05/2014 22:32

Fc for an early arrival then Eliza - imagine the birthday party/new yr knees up??

Bargainous, yw, bargainous.

izzybizzybuzzybees · 20/05/2014 23:07

In packing hell.... Only popping on to say my dhs birthday is January 1st....his mum's is Xmas day!

YellowWellies · 20/05/2014 23:12

Wanda its the Baby Jogger City Select - 16 different seat positions, its not a side by side as they're useless for the train and bus, both babies get a view (no ones sat in the shopping basket I always feel sorry for the baby there when the roads are wet and slushy!), both seats can forward or rear face, the baby can face you whilst toddler faces the world or they can face each other. Massive shopping basket. Fits on the train and bus. And its still got the BJCM amazing one handed fold. It gets awesome reviews. With a bassinet its a grand new. I'm now searching for the bassinet / detachable carrycot on eBay - looking like £30 - 60. Not going to bother with car seat / adaptors attachment. It'd not get used during the week.

Eliza she was a late walker like J too wasn't she? I'd go for a double personally. As for the 2nd Jan its a bank holiday up here so not all bad! He / she could be a NYE baby - my best pal was and loved it as everyone was always out for her birthday Smile

ValiumQueen · 20/05/2014 23:56

Eliza with a winter baby it is essential you get a double. Can you imagine poor little DD2 freezing on a buggy board in the driving rain and snow? Summer is different, but I would go for a double either way.

Up with the cough again. If DH did not have the same symptoms for the same time then we would each be concerned about the longevity and severity. Plus my dear boss also has had the same thing for longer, and suffered stoically.

Our last shag was interrupted by a coughing fit which resulted in me vomiting. Enough to put me off for a good while I can tell you. Obviously it put DH off only for the duration of the cleaning up process.

Thank you for all the congratulations for DD1 Grin Clearly she gets her athletic ability from me

I am hoping J sleeps past 4 this morning. I need to thump DH shortly as he is snoring like a train.

PR that made me smile Grin

ValiumQueen · 21/05/2014 00:06

Oh and rapid returning, it helps if both parents tag team on the first few nights. It helps with staying firm, is good to have a break every 15 mins or so, and it is important to remember that they can need returning hundreds of times. They soon learn though. Three nights and there will be an improvement with most.

After the first initial few returns, try to gradually reduce the interaction - less talking, cuddling, kissing, eye contact etc.

Have a plan as to what to do if they wake later. I cannot afford for the whole house to be up, and with J it is usually pain that wakes him, so I bring him into bed as I need sleep. If you just have the one you can do RR once you have identified what has woken them. For example if they are ill then you wouldn't RR. If wet you would change bum first etc.

Not sure if you can get them on the internet, but we used to watch House of Tiny Tearaways when DD1 was small. We used to be so judgy of these parents with babies that didn't sleep in their own beds, wouldn't eat, etc. Clearly the Big Man was watching and sent J to teach me a lesson Wink Anyway, I digress - the visual RR was very helpful. Much more so than reading in a book, and seeing the change in the families and the quick response made it something that stuck in my mind.

Zamboni · 21/05/2014 00:39

Absolutely sch-lacked - at least 3 bottles of wineWineWineWineWineBut I won the table tennis tournament, have a prospect of new work and got a couple more events invitations, so a good night.

Good chat with an equally pissed boss afterwards too.

While I miss them heaps, no 5am or earlier wake up call from my monsters and as I am on London hours I don't have to be in work until 10am so lie in and nice breakfast toute seule for me tomorrow.

Now about to demolish rice krispies as the only thing this wretched apartment has to eat.

ValiumQueen · 21/05/2014 05:43

I hope your head is not too bad this morning Zamboni Grin sounds like a fab night. I bet you still woke at 5am though.

ValiumQueen · 21/05/2014 05:44

J slept in his own bed until 5 again. Very proud. And DH got up with him Smile

Pikz · 21/05/2014 06:45

Excellent work VQ

Hope your head is ok zamboni

Thank you all for the RR info. We tag teamed last night but am flying solo tonight so needed that advice. Quiche is the best!

Zamboni · 21/05/2014 07:36

Sorry for driving rambling!! Woke at 4 VQ but that was the booze. Awake at 6.30 to FT the DC. S kept kissing the screen and saying Mummy!! DD was much more interested in Peppa Pig!

Head surprisingly ok. Am in need of coffee though.

Well done to VQ's J and Pikz's L, our babies are getting SO grown up!

Wandathewindfairy · 21/05/2014 08:04

Great zamboni sounds perfect. ( hold on O has shut himself in play room. Again)

Well done to mini vq at sports day she must feel "epic"

Is it bedtime yet. O got up in the hour of 5:00. Which for me I know I know wuss you are all thinking but we are usually 6-6:30. And last night after an intensive session of aerobics DH decided he had the horn. (He always does this to do me after I have had a night exercising I think he is trying to finish me off) . Added to the fact that today is a thin day it is going to be a long day.

Actually, I think I have zambonis hangover. Hmm

PetiteRaleuse · 21/05/2014 08:15

Morning quiche.

Good night here. The antihistamines are sorting out LO's eczema reaction perfectly like last time.

My DDs were 19m apart. I was given a double buggy but never used it. DD1 was a late walker but refused a buggy from about a month after learning to walk. However everything for me involves a car journey so there were v few long walks on roads or in traffic etc.

Zamboni well done on the table tennis winning client pleasing work networking drinkathon.

Zamboni · 21/05/2014 08:44

Sorry Wanda HmmThanks

Pikz · 21/05/2014 09:07

Ooooh can we now pass on hangovers? Grin I've been too scared to have one but if I could pass it on I might be tempted Wink

PurplePidjin · 21/05/2014 09:08

appalling night. hysterics at 1:30, 2:30 & 3:15 Sad

YellowWellies · 21/05/2014 09:11

18mo growth spurt Pidj?

Good night here. Am getting used to uninterrupted sleep. The new baby's going to kick me on my arse!

StuntNun · 21/05/2014 09:17

Allergy experts looking at you YW does anyone know whether soy sauce is much worse than soya as an ingredient in other foods? I had cut soya from J's diet but DH decided that it was cruel to feed him brown bread Hmm so reintroduced 'normal' bread. Apart from soya flour in bread and whatever soya is in Pom Bears J doesn't get soya from any other foods. BUT we had Chinese food on Sunday and J had an awful night Sunday night, a bad night Monday and was fine again last night. Which would be his typical reaction to an accidental egg or dairy exposure. The only difference was his eczema didn't flair. Anyway I was just wondering if soya was an issue whether soy sauce would be much worse, similar to how whole milk is much worse than cake iyswim.

The HV is coming out this morning so we'll see whether there's anything she can do for support suspects not.

I'm in the doctor's waiting room again, seem to be here a couple of times a week at the moment waiting for my asthma review and quite looking forward to getting weighed. She won't be able to make a fuss this time!

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Zamboni · 21/05/2014 09:30

So it would seem Pass - I feel great. I volunteer for someone else's hangover on the basis that karma is only fair.

Elizadoesdolittle · 21/05/2014 09:43

yw yes, she was. She's only really mastered walking in the last couple of weeks and vq good point about the weather.

I have a bjcm which I love so to have a double of that would be great. Luckily my best mate has one and she can at least lend me the carry cot and adapters so would cut the cost a bit.

zamboni impressed that you can type coherently after 3 bottles of wine!

stunt I am certainly no expert but I would assume that soy at source would be far worse than soy traces. E can handle yogurt by the bucket loads but a couple of sips of whole milk gives her a poorly tummy. I would think soy would be the same.

BigPigLittlePig · 21/05/2014 09:48

Stunt I don't wish to lecture, but dh needs to shape up. If J is reacting to soy, it is almost certainly the cause of his pain and sleeplessness and needs to be eliminated to allow his insides to heal. If dh is so hell bent on giving him white bread, the part bake baguettes tend to be dairy and soya free, and are a nice treat here.

Wandathewindfairy · 21/05/2014 10:28

Mmmmmm baguette. I am on a thin day today.

GTbaby · 21/05/2014 10:49

We use the double a lot. RL people told me I wouldn't need one. Considering H only really start working a month ago I ended up using it a lot. When fh and I go for a long day we have both pushchairs. We got a tandem as we needed the smallest double possible. Our house is small and the double lives in the car boot. While pil have been away I keep it In hall way. But I know that will change when they get back.

The ballet talk has got me thinking about a sports club for H. To young?