apple It's a difficult one. A lot of men don't have the same interest in weddings as women. He is obviously fully committed to you and in his mind that may be enough. Although he wants to marry you he may have no interest in the planning of it, which is fine as you could do it and get exactly the wedding you want. However it is tricky if he needs to sort out his citizenship in order for you to get married in the first place.
I know this is slightly different but DH is the same with learning to drive. It's not the actual learning to drive and taking the test that bothers him. It's the doing the theory test, which of course you need to do before you can take a driving test. He just won't pick up the bloody highway code or do the computer theory thing I got him. I don't actually mind him not driving most of the time as it means I get the car all the time and I like driving anyway. I'm a bad passenger so I'd do all the driving anyway. It's just sometimes it would be so bloody handy if he could drive. Hmpf, men!
Anyway said DH is out tonight and I was planning on watching some "good" rubbish TV but nothing is on. On the Jane Austen theme I still have Death comes to Pemberley on the planner from christmas just a tad behind so I'll stick that on.